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"An excellent, workable, and supportive resource for parents and educators." —Booklist
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This revised edition of the award-winning 1-2-3 Magic program addresses the difficult task of child discipline with humor, keen insight, and proven experience. The technique offers a foolproof method of disciplining children ages two through 12 without arguing, yelling, or spanking. By means of three easy-to-follow steps, parents learn to manage troublesome behavior, encourage good behavior, and strengthen the parent-child relationship—avoiding the "Talk-Persuade-Argue-Yell-Hit" syndrome which frustrates so many parents. Ten strategies for building a child’s self-esteem and the six types of testing and manipulation a parent can expect from the child are discussed, as well as tips on how to prevent homework arguments, make mealtimes more enjoyable, conduct effective family meetings, and encourage children to start doing their household chores. New advice about kids and technology and new illustrations bring this essential parenting companion completely up-to-date.
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Changed my life!, July 30 2011
By Stephanie - Published on Amazon.com
This review is from: 1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2-12 (Paperback)
I have a really independent and strong willed little girl who is pretty sure she knows everything already and is in charge of the home. I also inherited a bad, bad temper from my own father, and a set of unproductive and rage-fueled methods for handling discipline in the home. I was terrified I would squelch my daughter's independence and irreparably damage our relationship, until I read this amazing book. It's a simple, incredibly effective technique that gives parents a rapid response to quietly and calmly shut down any obnoxious behaviour, along with encouragement to provide constant positive reinforcement and love. It has revolutionized my relationship with my daughter, who now knows exactly where the boundaries lie and what to expect when she violates them. I haven't slammed a door since I read the book, and I no longer fear that I'm perpetuating a cycle of anger and harsh punishment. Highly recommend it.
18 of 20 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars
A MUST read for every parent, April 5 2011
By Jerry FLA "Jerry" - Published on Amazon.com
My son will be 12 in a couple of weks and he still instantly reponds whenever he sees a my index finger. I first read this book and put it into action when my son was probably between 4 and 5 years old.My wife never read this book but saw the amazing results I was getting and I soon heard her saying "one... two...". Neither one of us has gotten to "three" since establishing the 'baseline' when we first started using this system.
Here's basically how we put it to work: When our boy misbehaved I held up one finger and said "one". He had a second chance "two" but at three he got an instant 5 minute time out.
My son found those 5 minutes excrutiating and figured out VERY quickly that:
1. He received consistantly INSTANT punishment at "three".
2. His punishment time was extended for "bad behavior" while in time out.
3. Most importantly, he figured out he had the ability to avoid any consequences by modifying his behavior.
Fast forward 8 or so years to the present. My son has never been spanked or otherwise punished physically. He just got another straight A report card - his usual since he started school. The comment I hear most often from his teachers is that he is a "joy" in the classroom. He's polite and kind and no pushover either: he just earned a second level karate black belt.
I could go on for an hour but needless to say he's turning out to be an amazing person.
I still use the system but nowadays it's usually discreet flash of a "one" or perhaps a "two" to let him know a course change is recommended. The only "three" he has seen in years is fair warning that his dad is about to pounce on him and tickle him until he begs for mercy.
Of course my wife (who never did read the book) will still yell "TWO" when she wants him to do something - but it still works for her.
Finally, use this book - it worked for my family. My only advice is to be certain to "set down the rules" early and consistanly and then let your kid decide what course they take.
6 of 6 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars
Life Changing for parents & teachers!, Nov 9 2010
By K. Waters - Published on Amazon.com
This review is from: 1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2-12 (Paperback)
I admit I was one of those parents that VOWED I'd never count to three with my children because I'd seen it fail so many times in public with other parents! After some desperation, I reluctantly purchased 1 2 3 Magic and it revolutionized our home. I still use it today and they're 11 & 14. It's a relief to be freed from endless debates & yelling!I also use 1 2 3 Magic as a preschool teacher. It's something that kids 2 & up can all understand easily. It gives them the choice...let's them feel that they aren't entirely out of control. It takes most of the wind out of the sails in that age old "battle of the wills" because they are choosing their own outcome.
If you do decide to use this method, never fail to be consistent. If you aren't consistent it simply will not work. You must be willing to invest the time it takes to train your child. You can only get a yield if you invest the time. In the very beginning it will take your time & effort & love, but it will work. If you are inconsistent in putting to practice what you learn in 1 2 3 Magic, then you'll be "that parent" at the grocery store who makes a threat, counts to three (or more) and gets absolutely no reaction from their child.
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