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All About Raising Children [Mass Market Paperback]

Helen Andelin

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June 1983

In one of the most crucial areas of human life, raising children, parents face many problems of varying degrees and far too many failures. The parents themselves may be excellent persons with the best of intentions and love for their children but they may not necessarily be good parents. This may be because they do not understand children or how to motivate them to good behavior. When parents face these perplexing problems, many of them feel without adequate guidance.

The purpose of this book is to teach parents how to reach success with their children. It explains the kind of persons parents must be , the home life they must provide, the care and devotion required and the close friendship they must build to reach this success. It teaches clear-cut methods of training them to be obedient and responsible, of developing their character and intellect to its hightet potential and of building a feeling of self-worth.

In raising children what should our aspirations be? First, we have an important duty to help them find happiness. To help them find this happiness we must help them succeed in important areas of dailing living, such as in their studies, their work, their personal achievements and their relationships.

To succeed in all areas we must build the child. We must build his character so he is responsible and honorable with a code for moral living that is solid and unchanging. We must train him to be sensitive to the needs and feelings of others, refined, well-manered and self-controlled. We must develop his mind so he can reason soundly, concentrate intently, exercise good judgment and make wise decisions. We must inspire him with the confidence to do what he sets out to do and develop his self-reliance so that he can take care of his own needs and stand on his own feet. We should cultivate his creativity so he is capable of oringinal thought and original work and fire him with ambition to live a useful life.

What would reaching these objectives do for your children? First, it would insure their success and happiness. This does not mean they would have a life free of problems, but they would have the inner resources to deal with these problems effectively. Instead of becoming burdens to society, as so many are, they would be the lifters and the builders.

Parents would benefit equally. They would be spared the anxiety, worry and usual distress parents experience when children are problems. They would feel pride and satisfaction as they see their children mature inot honorable, happy adults. They would begin to enjoy the rewards of their many years of dedication and sacrifice. Their children's success would be their success. The father's kingdom would be his family; the mothers glory would be the happiness of her children.

A generation of excellent children would have a profound effect upon society. We would eliminate vice, corruption, violence and msot of our social problems. Instead, our youth would begin to build our country in a positive way. Our children would be out country's greatest wealth. To quote the late religious leader, David O. McKay:

"Our country's most precious possession is not our vast acres of rangeland supporting flocks and herds, not our productive farms; not our forest, not our mines and oil wells producing fabulous wealth. Our country's greatest resource is our children."

What are the possiblities of reaching success with our children? Can we reach any potential we desire for them? The following theory makes this seem possible:


I took a piece of plastic clay
And idly fashioned it one day
And as my fingers pressed it, still
It moved and yielded to my will.

I came again when days went past;
The bit of clay was hard at last.
The form I gave it still it bore,
But I could change it nevermore!

I took a piece of living clay,
And gently pressed it day by day,
And molded with may power and art
A young child's soft and yielding heart.

I came again when years were gone;
It was a man I looked upon.
He still that early impress bore,
And I could fashion him no more.


Our power to shape a child is profound. We can mold his character, instill a faith in God, build self-worth and almost insure his success and happiness. However, a child is not quite as pliable as a piece of clay. He is born with inherent traits. Our success depends on us recognizing the uniqueness of his personality and guiding him in that direction. Aside from this we have great power to reach high goals, to bring out the best, noblest elements within him.

Success with children should include each one of them, not just the more promising ones. It would be a serious mistake to pass over a particular child because he is a real challenge. Some parents console themselves because they have other children who meet their expecations. I raising children we should not be satisfied with percentages. We must bring all of our children "into the fold."

The role of parents requires diligence, sacrifice and wise priorities, but we can reach success without sacrificing our entire lives to them. It is not wise, in fact, to confine ourselves entirely to our family life. The doting parents who lives only for his children is not a good parent. He must have a well-rounded life, other interests and make contributions outside the home.

It is possible for parents to have such a life of their own, even in a large family. When children are well-trained they become easy to manage. As they become dependable and responsible they become an asset and actually free their parents to do other things. Parents can enjoy the passing years instead of looking to the day their children are raised. Methods of reaching success are outlined in the four parts of this book.

--This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

Product Details

  • Mass Market Paperback
  • Publisher: Bantam Books (Mm); Reprint edition (June 1983)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0553231235
  • ISBN-13: 978-0553231236
  • Product Dimensions: 17.3 x 10.9 x 2.8 cm
  • Shipping Weight: 227 g
  • Amazon Bestsellers Rank: #3,217,400 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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5.0 out of 5 stars Developing a Loving Mother's Heart Sept. 26 2004
By Nikdoula - Published on Amazon.com
This book is superb! Some of the many wonderful things that this book has taught me are that:

*Children are not born knowing how to be excellent adults, but that they must be taught, while they are children, how to be excellent people. This can be accomplished by cherishing them and acknowledging them as the gifts from God that they truly are.

*Parents have a great deal of responsibility when it comes to parenting; much more than many of us realize today.

*Home is truly where the heart is, and that home should be a warm, loving, positive place where every not only feels, but KNOWS that they are valuable, cherished, needed, and deeply, deeply loved.

Mrs. Andelin writes of many things in this book that pertain to parenting, such as: the home, teaching children, wholesome nutrition, cures for common ailments, nurturing, the responsibilities of husbands, wives, fathers, and mothers,


This is an EXCELLENT, EXCELLENT book that is written from one devoted wife and mother's heart and can truly help any wife and mother who seeks to develop her heart!
12 of 12 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars You can buy this book for only $18 June 8 2010
By First Lady - Published on Amazon.com
You can buy this book for only $18 at the author's own website. Fascinating Womanhood was her first book and is Excellent.

I am appalled that people are trying to get $50 or more for an $18 book and want to make sure that others know it is available for less with a little more searching. Just search for the name of her first book and put a net behind it : ) I believe that Helen Andelin died in 2009 and her son has taken over the business.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Being Blessed by Having Blessed Children April 26 2001
By Jessica Heilman - Published on Amazon.com
Being a mother of a very strong willed three year old, I came to a cross roads. Which way do I turn ? Do I become unbearably strict ? Or do I relent and let my strong willed son have his way, and take my will with him ? Nothing was more frustrating to me than relentless cries, coupled with the unmistakable look of disheartenment on his face when I would say "No" to him, at least a hundred times a day. Helen Andelin's book at first glance made me stiffen, thinking that I was not the perfect mom -imagine that ! Then after reading on, I realized my son WAS NOT living up to his God given potential, and that I needed to relax, and let him be three. I was encouraged to find out who he really was, and to use the techniques provided in creating a balanced home. A home full of love, happiness, and lots of "yes mam's". I will be continually blessed, by having such a blessed child.
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5.0 out of 5 stars A Good Read Jan. 12 2014
By ari - Published on Amazon.com
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While it is old fashioned, it bears some strong points on how to raise children. I enjoyed reading this book.

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