After the Affair teaches partners how to heal themselves and grow from theshattering crisis of an infidelity. Drawing on thirty-five years as a clinicalpsychologist, Dr. Spring offers a series of original and proven strategies thataddress such questions as: * Why did it happen? * Once love and trust aregone, can we ever get them back? * Can I—should I—recommit when I feelso ambivalent? * How do we become sexually intimate again? * Is forgivenesspossible? * What constitutes an affair in cyberspace?
This book was recommended to me and my husband by our marriage therapist. I have never felt a self-help book would be useful. Read morePublished on Oct. 31 2010 by Marilee Collomb
This looked at the pros and cons for both partners after an affair. It is a balanced account of how to mend relationships or decide to let go. Read morePublished on Sept. 30 2009 by Sian
AFTER THE AFFAIR is a must read if you are struggling in the aftermath of an affair. It provides such a great insight on why things happen and really challenges to explore your... Read morePublished on March 1 2005 by ThomsEBynum
What Dr. Spring describes as "normal" is traumatic stress. And as a matter of hard, cold fact, a substantial proportion of victims of infidelity continue to suffer PTSD... Read morePublished on Jan. 25 2004
Our therapist recommended this book. It has been a life saver. The feelings I was experiencing were put into words so perfectly. Read morePublished on Oct. 26 2003 by "mayflye"
I read "After the Affair" about three weeks after discovering my husband had been having an affair for a year. Read morePublished on Oct. 21 2003 by CaSandra Knight
After continuously skipping threw the book, I came to page 111 and realized this book was not for me. Read morePublished on June 16 2003