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In this insider's account of the sometimes-lethal strains that military life puts on families, Biank, an award-winning journalist and the daughter of a career army officer, finds much to admire in military spouses. She follows the lives of four women at Fort Bragg, N.C., home of the 82nd Airborne Division: the wife of a high-ranking officer who adds luster to her husband's career with her own polish; a senior noncommissioned officer's wife who ambivalently watches her son follow in his father's footsteps; a woman who falls in love with an enlisted man early in his career and struggles with balancing army demands with her own needs; and a former soldier who finds that the counterterrorist operative she married may be just as dangerous to her as he is to terrorists. Though her prose is sometimes clunky and some of the history feels a bit dated, Biank's novelistic sense of detail and suspense vividly demonstrates how "the Army... could bring couples closer together... or it could rip relationships apart." Army wives cope with unpredictable deployments and struggle to raise children alone, often on small paychecks, in a community both tightknit and sharply judgmental. "Army wives serve, too," says Biank—in an institution ambivalent about families. She makes sympathetic both their pride and their tragedies. (Feb.)
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The author of this provocative portrait of modern army wives is herself an army wife and comes from an army family. That combination of experience and insight enhances the value of the book's depiction of the army-family community. Basically, army wives these days are more often than not educated professionals but are expected to function enmeshed in a unique hierarchy very different from anything in civilian life. Moreover, they are far more frequently required to move house and home than civilian wives, and their risk of suddenly becoming widows is constant. For this the army has established support networks, but again, those are sui generis. Overall, Biank furnishes a detailed reminder, if any is needed, that the military is still a hierarchical subculture dominated by male values that imposes a considerable burden on those semi-innocent quasi bystanders, army wives. A good choice for military collections of any size. Frieda Murray
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4.0 out of 5 stars
A CLOISTERED LIFE REVEALED,
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This review is from: Under the Sabers: The Unwritten Code of Army Wives (Hardcover)
In 2002 the murder of four Army wives within a six week period at Fort Bragg, North Carolina was a shocker. These tragic stories were covered by Tanya Biank, then a military reporter for the Fayetteville Observer. The Army was her logical beat; she's the daughter and wife of an Army officer. She wasn't naive yet these killings stunned her, and the further she probed the more she realized that she had more than these sad stories to tell. She wanted to present what life was really like for Army wives, to highlight their strengths and perseverance.As she has written, "We often hear about the sacrifices soldiers made for their nation, but we rarely hear about their spouses struggles. Army wives are bound by an unwritten code. They are expected to endure hardships with graciousness and tragedies with heads held high." Biank used as her springboard the story of four typical Army wives each of whom reaches a crisis point in their lives at Fort Bragg. We first meet Rita Odom, a recent bride who viewed Army life with wide eyes. She came from a small Alabama town where had suffered abuse and lived in poverty. Having known him for only a short while, her husband was almost a stranger. Thus, it was Rita's task to grow in her marriage and as an individual in an atmosphere that applauded conformity. Next, we're introduced to Delores Kalinofski, a woman with 20 years of Army life behind her, much of which was spent at Fort Bragg. Tragedy was to come - how would the Army community respond? Andrea Lynne Cory is a battle commander's wife, therefore very much a part of Fort Bragg's social scene, which is rich in protocol and customs. Finally, we find Andrea Floyd, a wife whose life was given or lost, depending upon your point of view. The final character in Biank's book is the city itself, Fayetteville, the place some call Fayettenam. She loves this city due largely to its diversity, a blend of races, religions, rich and poor. One black Vietnam vet described it thusly, "If you have to die next to each other, living together isn't so hard." "Under the Sabers" is an uncompromising look at Army life, its privileges and pitfalls. Well written and absorbing it will gain nods of understanding from those who have shared similar experiences and wide-eyed surprise from those who have not. - Gail Cooke
4.0 out of 5 stars
Great read BUT...,
This review is from: Army Wives: The Unwritten Code of Military Marriage (Paperback)
Not particularly well written, yet we couldn't put it down. I'd recommend it for the insight it provides into a culture that is foreign to most of us, certainly we Canadians! Made me think too about decent hard working Americans spending beyond their means because they felt entitled...
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Heavy Reading,
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This review is from: Under the Sabers: The Unwritten Code of Army Wives (Hardcover)
I am an Army wife and was thrilled to see a modern look at the military wife. The book is extremely well written. The characters were brought out in a manner that humanized them rather than stereotyped. The book is about Army wives at Ft. Bragg during a short time period and does not truly show how happy a lot of us really are. I finished the book and felt really depressed about the deaths and suicides on Ft. Bragg. The 82nd is unique and many Army wives never set foot there. I am a former soldier as well as the spouse of an Army man with 24 years in and we still love it. We do not just help out during funerals. The fun is missing in this book. It is fun to be part of it all-- we are not duty bound to help each other. We do it because we want to do it. The book also keeps bringing up "clean houses" as if that were the most important thing we care about. She mentions funerals and what woman would want a crowd coming through her house without the chance to straighten up. One of the best Army wife moments I ever had was at West Point when another Army family stopped by at 11am on a Sunday morning and seeing the chaos that my house was in just after church she quickly smiled and said, "I live in my house too." That is what Army wives are really like. There are truly many awesome wives out there and more great marriages than bad. The book focuses on mostly bad marriages and tragedy. In this operational environment I was hoping for an inspirational book about Army wives. This book is a page-turner and I could not put it down. After re-reading the jacket I can say the book does advertise itself as being just what it is, but the publicity around the book suggests it gives insight into the world of all Army wives.
33 of 37 people found the following review helpful
1.0 out of 5 stars
Narrow focus, truly depressing, misleading,
By Avid reader - Published on Amazon.com
This book was nothing more than a dreadful look into the lives of a small handful of women who had horrible experiences. Do not judge this book by its cover. Mine displayed a happy couple kissing as they walk out of the church after their wedding under an arch of sabers. What a happy picture. Enjoy it because it's the last happy thing you'll see in this book. The grand title creates the illusion that you will be getting an general, but inside, look at the lives of military wives. A true look at what Army wives face and how they cope.What it provides is the utterly depressing story of a few women who faced murder, family deaths, illness, abuse, cheating, struggles, and unhappiness. It's not inspiring, and it will certainly not act as any sort of reference for what a new wife might face. As a matter of fact, if I had read this before I married my husband (enlisted infantryman on a career track in the Amry) I would have been terrified about the life ahead. This title is so misleading that it's almost insulting to military wives who are happy. There are so many women who happily and joyfully approach their military marriages, myself included. We face deployments, moves, seperation, uncertainty, and hard times with faith in our marriages and a true love of our husbands and the Army. We are happy to do whatever necessary to support our husbands, but we also receive love and support in return. We have careers that do not make our husbands jealous, and some of us are even the primary bread winner. We would never think of cheating, and we faithfully provide unwaivering support during deployments. We are happy! And yes, there are families who face struggles, but the community really does come together to help out. Please do not think that I take the stories in this book lightly. They represent a serious problem, and the women who made it out the other side have true strength that I can only imagine. Not one of thesen women "got what was coming to them", as some people indicated in the book. These stories are horrible and things like this do happen. My point is this: This is not a picture of "The Army". It is not the whole story and it is not the norm in military life. This is the story of a small group from a brief period of time in one town. To imply that the story of such a microscopic minority of Army wives is indicative of what all Army wives face is unfair, misleading, and small-minded. Not one happy person was interviewed, not one happy story was told. Call me and I will tell you how happy I have been with the military life, struggles and complaints included. I will tell you about the military couples that I know who love and support each other, no matter what. They face trials and struggles, but they are in it for the long haul. The one positive thing I can say about this story is that it has made me so aware of how good I have it and so thankful to my husband for being awesome. Other than that, it made me feel sick. 19 of 20 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars
A remarkable book,
By M. Krajeski "army wife" - Published on Amazon.com
This review is from: Under the Sabers: The Unwritten Code of Army Wives (Hardcover)
I nearly read this book in one sitting--it was that mesmerizing. As an Army wife for 18 years, I can tell you that Tanya Biank has accomplished what I've never seen: a book about Army life written with a journalist's eye for detail and the understanding, compassionate tone of someone who's been an Army brat and became an Army wife herself. Her research, candor, and writing talents are first-rate as she offers us a window into the lives, personalities, and backgrounds of 4 very different Army wives.This isn't the definitive book on Army wives--no one can write that because it's a deeply personal and complex subject that defies description. I think the subtitle is unfortunate, "The Unwritten Code of Army Wives," as if it were a tell-all, but don't be put off. UNDER THE SABERS is part slice-of-life, part cultural commentary, and part news reporting as Biank's portraits of these Army wives intersect with the sensational national headlines of the murders at Fort Bragg. In the process, she articulates the daily challenges we can all relate to, such as frequent moves, solo parenting, social pressures, and anxiety about our husband's safety. UNDER THE SABERS documents an important and unrecognized social history. It will always have a prominent place on my bookshelf, no matter where we live. Marna Krajeski, author of HOUSEHOLD BAGGAGE: THE MOVING LIFE OF A SOLDIER'S WIFE. |
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