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Bend Over!: The Complete Guide to Anal Sex! [Paperback]

Stephan Niederwieser
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April 1 2011
Bend over.A"-two words that can provoke a lot of anxieties. Will it hurt? Will I be able to relax? Will I enjoy it? Do I have judgments about myself for being a bottom? (Do I have judgments about sex in general?) What's the risk of infection? And tops are hardly anxiety-free: Is my cock staying hard? Am I big enough? Do I fuck well? Is this a good position? And again: what's the risk of infection? Bend Over: The Complete Guide to Anal Sex for Men tackles these and other questions head on. Geared toward both the beginner as well as the seasoned practitioner, Bend Over is a comprehensive, user-friendly guide to the unique pleasures of anal sex. Everything is covered, from basic anatomy and solo sex to technique, positions, sex toys, lube, S&M and much, much more-with a sharp focus on the dynamics behind gay male sex as well Packed with information, Bend Over is conversational, funny, sometimes even arch-and never lets you forget that the bottom line in anal sex is fun.

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Stephan Niederweiser is an author and sex educator, whose titles include Blow Me and Do It Yourself.
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1 of 2 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars Thought I knew it all... July 1 2011
...but I'm never too proud to learn more. I did glean some tidbits from this book. I'm not sure if they were useful or if I remember them. I thought this book would have more 'meat' to it but it is a light read with a very humorous twist. If you're at all familiar with German, you could probably see through the translation to the actual 'tone' the book would have had in the original. I would like to read it in the original German in order to improve my German vocabulary of words my mother didn't teach me. ;-)
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5.0 out of 5 stars Entrance In the Rear Only April 28 2011
By Grady Harp - Published on Amazon.com
Stephan Niederwieser is not only a fine writer; he is also a caring humanist. Practical, informative, tasteful, and with a good sense of humor he has prepared a manual complete with black and white photographs that addresses the existence of, the cautions about, and the instructions for satisfactory consummation of physical needs that could as easily be a manual for women as for men, as entry from the rear is popular in all sexual practices. But Niederwieser directs this illustrated volume to the male crowd, and the manner in which he approaches the psychological impasses, the preparation on the part of both partners in both the mental aspects as well as the physical aspects, addressing the fears as well as the pleasures and the varieties has never been available in such a relaxed and informed manner.

All aspects of the topic are covered - lubricants, self preparation with dilating toys, prevention of diseases (and what diseases could accompany this type of physical activity), positioning, myths, methods, legends, overcoming fears - and Niederwieser adds so much comfortable chat with his serious information that the reader will find this 'guide' as entertaining as a good read! As with any type of physical activity devoted to satisfying both partner and self there are zones that step beyond the usual and Niederwieser talks about these, giving references to those extreme versions of his topic, freely admitting that these activities are not his cup of tea! This is a smart, sound, clinically approved guide by a very wise coach. Grady Harp, April 11
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5.0 out of 5 stars Entertaining Read, Great Info for Novices July 13 2011
By Donald Sass - Published on Amazon.com
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Stephan Niederwieser is definitely someone I'd like to meet and invite to a dinner party. His droll, clever, sometimes outrageous, always consistent humor totally annihilates any comparison of this book to a scholarly tome or classroom text, yet the information is there and deftly imparted to anyone who may not be familiar with the actual pleasures to be experienced via their physical toybox. Even as a life-long veteran of anal sex, there were a few tidbits of information I'd either not known about or had let slip to the back of my mind. In general, though, for me the book was entertaining, hilarious, unpredictable, even vulgar -- but in the most amusing sort of way. Some of the potential hazards and even likelihoods that Niederwieser bluntly comments upon might create a "cringe factor," which novitiates to anal stimulation or those still in the fantasizing phase might use as an excuse to avoid exploring this aspect of their bodies' pleasure centers forever. If carefully read from cover to cover, however, Niederwieser addresses nearly all of the possible negative occurrences, along with the nearly unavoidable negative programming and alarming ramifications many must endure in order to experience anal sex for the first time. He then suggests the most practical and up-to-date manners of avoiding or dealing with these possible occurrences, which should set most un-hopelessly neurotic minds at rest. And once mastered (usually after the second, perhaps the third, encounter -- after that it's all about perfecting one's technique), think of the possibilities, the potential, the opportunities to double, triple, or more, one's pleasure?! I recommend the book to all, not just those needing a kick-start into the world of anal exploration and enjoyment.
23 of 24 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent information May 15 2011
By S. A. Manweiler - Published on Amazon.com
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This guide explains healthy and pleasurable living for all people including gay men. It addresses all of the inhibitions and blocks experienced by gay men and provides useful healthy suggestions for getting more out of life. Vielen Dank to Mr. Niederwieser.
15 of 16 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars "A Must-Have For All Gay Men" Feb. 9 2012
By Terrance Richard - Published on Amazon.com
Let's face it: anal sex to many is still consider a taboo form of sex although many engage in it. I personally know just as many heterosexuals who practice anal sex as gay men, if not more. So, as a gay man who has been involved in many kinds of anal sex over the years, both as a bottom and a top, I was happy to discover this book "Bend Over!".

Extremely well-written the book is a "know how" guide to pleasing oneself as well as partners in the joys of anal intercourse. For gay men anal sex is the one main connection between oneself and a lover or a partner and this book provides both a very intelligent way in obtaining pleasure from one of the best sex acts known to man. There were things in this book that I didn't even know.

Everything from knowing how to relax the sphincter muscles to breathing to dilating oneself before entry is discussed. STD's are also mentioned thoroughly so I thought that was a very important part of the book. Even knowing how to wear a condom properly is brought up.

A very tasteful book, if your starting out discovering your sexuality for the first time or a seasoned pro (like I am...LOL) this book is for you.

The writers have also written another companion book about gay oral sex that is also extremely informative.
13 of 14 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars AN HONEST AND FRANK EXPERIENCE Aug. 2 2011
By FINNISH GUY - Published on Amazon.com
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I strongly recommend this excellent book, which changed most of my thinking regarding gay sex. Up till now I had a lot of prejudices but the authors' approach is human and emphatic because love, joy, nearness - not only sex - is handled in a way I never thought possible.
Thank you! This book changed the rest of my life.
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