This book presents a biblical treatment of boundaries, identifies how boundaries are developed, and how they become injured. It also shows Christian misconceptions of the function and purpose of boundaries, and provides a program for developing and maintaining healthy limits.
Boundaries: When To Say Yes, How to Say No
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In order to call themselves good Christians, many people have drawn overly flexible boundaries (unwilling to say no, always accommodating others' needs) or overly rigid boundaries (to the point of being righteous and judgmental). Psychologists and inspirational speakers Cloud and Townsend show readers how to set reasonable boundaries in order to follow the true path of Christianity. This book has become immensely popular, most likely because it makes personal boundaries easier to define and is filled with spiritual purpose. Some cautions: the format can be overly self-helpish for such a complex discussion and the authors at one point imply that judicious spankings may be an acceptable form of setting boundaries with children. However, many Christians will probably find themselves grateful for this biblical context of boundaries. --Gail Hudson
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Since its release in 1992, Boundaries--the definitive book on healthy human relations by Drs. Henry Cloud and John Townsend--has consistently appeared on the best-seller lists. And now its counterpart, the Boundaries video curriculum, has undergone a literal transformation. With its brand new, group-interactive format and components, the Boundaries curriculum gives pastors, counselors, churches, and organizations an enormously effective tool to help people move from desperation to sound relationships and joyous, fruitful living. Everything about this revised Boundaries is new. NEW easy-to-use Leader's Guide that minimizes preparation time. NEW Participant's Guide based on the original Boundaries textbook and workbook. NEW proven, group-interactive format designed to enhance individual participation and group synergy. NEW 120-minute video containing a brief message from Drs. Cloud and Townsend to group leaders, discussion jump-starts by the authors, and vignettes dramatizing topics covered in the nine different sessions. Designed for groups large or small, the Boundaries kit also includes a copy of the best-selling, Gold-Medallion-Award-winning book, Boundaries. This dynamic curriculum will generate maximum interest among church and small-group leaders. The principles and applications covered will make a real difference in relationships of every kind, from marriage, to family, to church, to the workplace, and beyond.
The Boundaries video kit includes: 1 90-minute video (not sold separately) 1 Boundaries Leader's Guide (additional copies sold separately) 1 Boundaries Participant's Guide (additional copies sold separately) 1 copy Boundaries hardcover book (additional copies sold separately) 1 clamshell-style carrying case
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6 of 6 people found the following review helpful
By K.W.
Format:Paperback
Wow, why didn't I ever know about this book? You don't hear much about it- I stumbled upon it browsing around Amazon one day. For people wondering if they should buy this book, get it if:
-you're not turned off by a Christian writing approach
-you feel like there's a problem because you're trying to be a good person all the time by always saying "yes"
In a nutshell, this book is for people who don't know how to set boundaries for themselves. In other words, they're always saying "yes" to things and taking responsibility for things- even when it's not their job.
And boundary lines of your responsibilities need to be present in more areas of your life than you might realize, such as...
-your family
-your friends
-your mate
-your kids
-your self
The book covers boundary conflicts in each of these areas leaving no stone unturned. Therefore, its no big deal if you have only one or two problem areas- just go to those sections.
This book will help you realize what a boundary is, why it's okay to have them and just how to develop them. So if anything in this review sounds like if might apply to you- don't hesitate to check out the book. Other neat self-help books I liked include Finding Happiness in a Frustrating World.
-you're not turned off by a Christian writing approach
-you feel like there's a problem because you're trying to be a good person all the time by always saying "yes"
In a nutshell, this book is for people who don't know how to set boundaries for themselves. In other words, they're always saying "yes" to things and taking responsibility for things- even when it's not their job.
And boundary lines of your responsibilities need to be present in more areas of your life than you might realize, such as...
-your family
-your friends
-your mate
-your kids
-your self
The book covers boundary conflicts in each of these areas leaving no stone unturned. Therefore, its no big deal if you have only one or two problem areas- just go to those sections.
This book will help you realize what a boundary is, why it's okay to have them and just how to develop them. So if anything in this review sounds like if might apply to you- don't hesitate to check out the book. Other neat self-help books I liked include Finding Happiness in a Frustrating World.
2 of 2 people found the following review helpful
By carolyn m
Format:Paperback|Amazon Verified Purchase
I would recommend this book to anyone who is feeling constantly disrespected. It is a read for those who want to feel empowered! Don't feel put off because it references the bible. It is still a good informative book!!!!!!
1 of 1 people found the following review helpful
By Guil I Zriel
Format:Paperback|Amazon Verified Purchase
This book changed my outlook on life, I no longer feel responsible for other people, it's a great way to know when you need to respond to expectation and when it's optional.
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Helps you be better with relationships
what a challenging book! helps you to re-evaluate the relationships you do have and set healthy "boundaries" with people so that you don't have to build walls in order to live your... Read more
Published 13 months ago by Lulu
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For our time!
Boundaries is a great book that delves deeply into the role of how we need boundaries and structure in various aspects of life. Talk about a topic for our generation! Read more
Published 17 months ago by Rempy77
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Excellent condition, New
The 2 books of boundaries I've received are in excellent conditon. They are new!!!! Very pleased with my purchase.
Published on April 5 2011 by Tinik
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great book
this is a great book but not for the faint hearted... it really does dig deep and you need to be sure your ready to face everything it will draw out... Read more
Published on Jan 3 2011 by loulou
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Brilliant - essential life tools
This is a brilliant book providing essential insight into many of life's challenges and helps a person build the tools needed to deal effectively and in a Godly way in our... Read more
Published on Jan 16 2010 by Carol Brown
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Preliminary
I haven't finished reading it but it looks to me like this should be essential reading for parents bringing up kids.
Published on Nov 12 2009 by Paul M
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A little tedious but worth the effort to listen
Good reader (Male voice) Book uses the word "boundaries" to excess. Chapters relate to various life stages. Read more
Published on Sep 28 2008 by Ronald S. Edwards
5.0 out of 5 stars
EXCELLENT!
This book gives one the TOOLS to build healthy boundaries. It's a virtual Home Depot of psychology and living.
Published on May 16 2004 by snowblaze
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A great guide to understanding and applying boundaries
This book provided a clear and thourough exploration into the concept of boundaries. As a former member of a christian cult I found it a very helpful guide in healing and... Read more
Published on May 3 2004
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Excellent even with the "god" stuff
This book dramatically changed my life and I only made it through chapter 5. I have since recommended it to many people that are looking to actively make positive changes in their... Read more
Published on April 20 2004
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