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Boundaries [Abridged, Audiobook] [Audio CD]

Henry Cloud
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Book Description

Nov. 8 2001
This audio version of the book presents a biblical treatment of boundaries, identifies how boundaries are developed, and how they become injured. It also shows Christian misconceptions of the function and purpose of boundaries and provides a program for developing and maintaining healthy limits.

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In order to call themselves good Christians, many people have drawn overly flexible boundaries (unwilling to say no, always accommodating others' needs) or overly rigid boundaries (to the point of being righteous and judgmental). Psychologists and inspirational speakers Cloud and Townsend show readers how to set reasonable boundaries in order to follow the true path of Christianity. This book has become immensely popular, most likely because it makes personal boundaries easier to define and is filled with spiritual purpose. Some cautions: the format can be overly self-helpish for such a complex discussion and the authors at one point imply that judicious spankings may be an acceptable form of setting boundaries with children. However, many Christians will probably find themselves grateful for this biblical context of boundaries. --Gail Hudson --This text refers to the Hardcover edition.

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Since its release in 1992, Boundaries--the definitive book on healthy human relations by Drs. Henry Cloud and John Townsend--has consistently appeared on the best-seller lists. And now its counterpart, the Boundaries video curriculum, has undergone a literal transformation. With its brand new, group-interactive format and components, the Boundaries curriculum gives pastors, counselors, churches, and organizations an enormously effective tool to help people move from desperation to sound relationships and joyous, fruitful living. Everything about this revised Boundaries is new. NEW easy-to-use Leader's Guide that minimizes preparation time. NEW Participant's Guide based on the original Boundaries textbook and workbook. NEW proven, group-interactive format designed to enhance individual participation and group synergy. NEW 120-minute video containing a brief message from Drs. Cloud and Townsend to group leaders, discussion jump-starts by the authors, and vignettes dramatizing topics covered in the nine different sessions. Designed for groups large or small, the Boundaries kit also includes a copy of the best-selling, Gold-Medallion-Award-winning book, Boundaries. This dynamic curriculum will generate maximum interest among church and small-group leaders. The principles and applications covered will make a real difference in relationships of every kind, from marriage, to family, to church, to the workplace, and beyond.

The Boundaries video kit includes:
1 90-minute video (not sold separately)
1 Boundaries Leader's Guide (additional copies sold separately)
1 Boundaries Participant's Guide (additional copies sold separately)
1 copy Boundaries hardcover book (additional copies sold separately)
1 clamshell-style carrying case --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

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8 of 8 people found the following review helpful
By K.W.
Wow, why didn't I ever know about this book? You don't hear much about it- I stumbled upon it browsing around Amazon one day. For people wondering if they should buy this book, get it if:

-you're not turned off by a Christian writing approach
-you feel like there's a problem because you're trying to be a good person all the time by always saying "yes"

In a nutshell, this book is for people who don't know how to set boundaries for themselves. In other words, they're always saying "yes" to things and taking responsibility for things- even when it's not their job.

And boundary lines of your responsibilities need to be present in more areas of your life than you might realize, such as...

-your family
-your friends
-your mate
-your kids
-your self

The book covers boundary conflicts in each of these areas leaving no stone unturned. Therefore, its no big deal if you have only one or two problem areas- just go to those sections.

This book will help you realize what a boundary is, why it's okay to have them and just how to develop them. So if anything in this review sounds like if might apply to you- don't hesitate to check out the book. Other neat self-help books I liked include Finding Happiness in a Frustrating World.
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful
I have worked as a jail chaplain for almost twenty years and this book has been both an inspiration and a clarifier. Not only is it important for me to set clear boundaries in the work place with inmates, but because of the nature of the work on my personal life, I've needed to set countless boundaries in my relationship with people who don't understand my love and concern for the incarcerated. I have asked all of my volunteers to read the book also because we've used it as a teaching tool for inmates, most of whom have never learned how to set boundaries. We have found it most helpful in dealing with battered and abused women, as well as those needing anger management. Because the text is filled with biblical principles, I believe it is in line with what God chooses for us, but allows us to make the choice for ourselves. Personally, I also have children and grandchildren and I'm using the guidelines to create a place of harmony in my home. Thank you, Drs. Cloud and Townsend for giving us a user friendly guide to boundaries and the happiness they give.
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Must read book March 2 2013
By Drace
Format:Paperback|Verified Purchase
This book changed my outlook on life, I no longer feel responsible for other people, it's a great way to know when you need to respond to expectation and when it's optional.
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars great book Aug. 2 2013
Format:Kindle Edition|Verified Purchase
This book was mentioned in my bible study so I ordered it. Great, great biblical look at boundaries. Learned a lot!
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Very timely June 21 2013
Format:Hardcover|Verified Purchase
In todays world the mentality of society is take what you can from who you can. This book helps those of us timid polite souls to draw the lines in our own lives.

Its very well written.
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Helps you be better with relationships April 26 2012
By Lulu
Format:Paperback|Verified Purchase
what a challenging book! helps you to re-evaluate the relationships you do have and set healthy "boundaries" with people so that you don't have to build walls in order to live your life how you want to!
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful
Most Christians struggle with the demands and frustrations resulting from their everyday relationships. Cloud and Townsend have produced a true classic in this volume, presenting Biblical concepts that address those demands and frustrations. I have just finished reading this book again for the second time, and chances are good I will read it again in the future.
The authors introduce their work with a short section entitled, "A Day in a Boundaryless Life." Most persons can easily identify with the young woman depicted in this typical life situation. The authors then describe the concept of boundaries in detail, and how boundaries are developed in our lives. They present ten laws of boundaries, and then proceed to describe common myths regarding them. These laws and myths, as well as the rest of the book's content, are very readable and easy to understand.
In the second portion of their work, the authors touch upon the areas of life in which boundaries can be helpful. I cannot think of any area that is unaffected. These areas are: family, friends, spouse, children, work, self, and God.
The authors conclude by describing typical resistance to boundaries. They also summarize the benefits to be gained as persons persevere through that resistance to a more ordered life. Before ending their book, Cloud and Townsend revisit the young woman depicted in the opening section. This time the title is, "A Day in a Life with Boundaries." She now has learned to incorporate boundaries into her own life, and the change for the better is amazing.
This book is a must-read for every Christian believer who wants a wealth of Biblical insight into Christ-honoring relationships. I have recommended it to others in the past, and after this second reading am even more enthusiastic about doing so. Buy it, read it, and allow God to transform your relationships for the better!
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12 of 15 people found the following review helpful
By A Customer
All books that claim to be Christian, as well as all books in the category of "self-help" must be approached with both an open mind and a fair amount of discernment. I personally found this book to be one of the better books I have read in both categories. Much of the information in it is practical and useful. I believe that it is bibically sound, but not so over the top that those who are not christian will be turned off by it. That in and of itself is noteworthy.
I find it ironic that the negative reviews are not only extreme in their negativity, but passionate about their dislike for this book. It sounds to me like they need to actually read the book, or try reading it again with a more open mind. Those who can blame all that has gone wrong in their particular relationship on this book are definitely in need of some healthy boundaries themselves, as are the people around them I am sure.
I know of at least 5 people personally, as well as myself, who found value in this book. Some more life changing than others, but still a good read either way.
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3.0 out of 5 stars a helpful read
Particularly useful for helping professionals working within the Christian tradition. Pieces concerning " guilt" should be re-examined in light of recent work around the... Read more
Published 1 month ago by Elaine
5.0 out of 5 stars Really helpfull book
The way the author explains the subject helped me to understand so many things I was personally questioning. Read more
Published 3 months ago by dianne bouffard
5.0 out of 5 stars Effective, practical strategies for setting boundaries
I have read a number of different books on boundaries, and I found this one to be the most helpful and practical. Read more
Published 5 months ago by Candi Raudebaugh
5.0 out of 5 stars Very good book - everyone needs to read this
This is probably by far the best and most helpful book I have every read. I also have the kindle version. Read more
Published 6 months ago by Vaughn Bender
5.0 out of 5 stars Understood at last!
Having struggled with power imbalances all my life, I am beginning to understand more of where I came from and how it has affected who I am today. Read more
Published 9 months ago by Judi Calhoun
5.0 out of 5 stars bounderies
I would recommend this book to anyone who is feeling constantly disrespected. It is a read for those who want to feel empowered! Read more
Published 20 months ago by carolyn m
5.0 out of 5 stars For our time!
Boundaries is a great book that delves deeply into the role of how we need boundaries and structure in various aspects of life. Talk about a topic for our generation! Read more
Published on Dec 28 2011 by Rempy77
5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent condition, New
The 2 books of boundaries I've received are in excellent conditon. They are new!!!! Very pleased with my purchase.
Published on April 5 2011 by Tinik
5.0 out of 5 stars great book
this is a great book but not for the faint hearted... it really does dig deep and you need to be sure your ready to face everything it will draw out... Read more
Published on Jan. 3 2011 by loulou
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