Brother & Sister Paperback – 2004
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The story lost power when it shifted back and forth to Steve's office staff. These people weren't interesting and were an annoying distraction from the main topic.
Those readers who have an interest in, or are involved in, the adoption triad may find this a good read. It's not hard to relate to each member's postion. Trollope has succeeded in showing adoption and the adoption reunion in a realistic way.
This comes almost as a surprise to their partners and adoptive parents too, to whom they've have always vowed a disinterest about their origins, thinking that their present, in itself quite serene and fulfilling, was all that mattered.
An emotional roller coaster ensues, involving everybody. Also, will Nathalie and David find an answer to their craving desire TO KNOW and will they eventually understand/accept it? Buy this lovely piece of fiction, which in any case I'm sure reflects many real stories out there, and find out.
This is the 4th book I read by J. Trollope and, as usual, I've liked it very, very much. The story is delivered with compassion and understanding, the narrative makes it a page-turner.
The issues in the book are riveting. How our sense of family can be threatened by change and impacts each member of the group shines through. I found it particularly significant that as David and Nathalie find birth mothers Carole and Cora, the reality of these women is a shock to how they had been imagined. Equally fascinating is the dynamic within Carole's family as her husband Connor is supportive and son Martin short circuits finding that he is suddenly not the oldest of his mother's sons.
The characters are all deep. However, the story does take unexpected turns that like an unwanted half brother were not entirely welcome. Nathalie's live-in boyfriend Steve's affair seemed strange to me. We are introduced to him being a stable and supportive mate who then experiences lethal doses of insecurity. The same is true for David's wife Marnie whose insecurity over David's connection to his adoptive sister Nathalie causes anxieties and odd behavior. That the search then results in the ultimate schism of the bond between brother and sister is even less welcome. Satisfying elements of the story are with the adoptive Lynne and her working through her feelings and the scene with son David where he confirms his bond with his adoptive mother. I also enjoyed the exploration into Cora's world and the social situation that brought her to give up her baby.Read more ›
Brother and Sister, to this reader, was a terrible letdown. The premise is sound: Adoption and its aftermath lasts well into the adults lives of those adopted and those who gave up their children for whatever good reasons. Well and good. And when adult adoptees seek their birth parents, everyone around them is affected as much as they are. This is perfectly in line with Trollope's ongoing theme in all of her novels--that people are not islands, that the behavior of one person can affect, for ill or good, a wide circle of others. Trollope has embroidered on that theme throughout her ouvre, often brilliantly.
Why, then, did this book leave me so unmoved? Perhaps because the main characters--the two adoptees, Nathalie and her adopted brother David--were so unlikeable. Perhaps because their significant others were equally unlikeable. Perhaps because not one character in the book, with the exception of two young children, meant anything to me as a reader. Nathalie is the one who begins it, who suddenly, in her 30s, feels the driving need to find her birth mother. I could relate to that--but not to the fact that she selfishly forces her brother David, who does NOT have the same need--to join her in the search and find his own roots.
The book goes on and on and on and on as we learn who the birth parents are, and their stories, and see the inevitable havoc that the searches wreak upon everybody in sight. There are no happy endings, no ecstatic reunions on Oprah. Funnily enough, while reading this book, I spoke with an adoptive mother whose son had just found his birth mother, and everybody was ecstatic.Read more ›
Most recent customer reviews
What happens when an adult man and woman suddenly decide to seek out their biological mothers? Joanna Trollope introduces us to a wide cast of characters in this novel, and... Read morePublished on July 3 2004 by Victory Silvers
If you or a person close to you is adopted this book may assist in understanding how difficult it can be. Read morePublished on June 19 2004 by Katieq
When you upset the delicacy of a family, you never know what the outcome will be so when Nathalie and David agree to search for their birth mothers, the applecart turns upside down... Read morePublished on June 14 2004 by Haley Burke
Whew, what a relief that this is a good novel, the sort of quality experience I expect from Trollope since her last novel (Girl from the South) was inferior. Read morePublished on June 11 2004 by KatPanama
When Natalie and David decide to find their birth parents, the effects of their decision echoes outward like ripples in a pool of water. Read morePublished on May 21 2004
British author Trollope writes sharp-witted novels of middle-class families in domestic crisis. Her characters are too complex to be entirely likable - or dislikable, and her plots... Read morePublished on April 29 2004 by Lynn Harnett