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Dont Let Jerks Get the Best of You: Advice for Dealing with Difficult People [Paperback]

Paul Meier
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March 2 1995
Dr. Paul Meier takes a look at how selfish humans are. Through light hearted episodes, Dr. Meier sheds light on how individuals act as jerks, how to become aware of manipulation, and identifying our own jerk tendencies. Dont Let Jerks Get the Best of You! provides laughs while at the same time showing ways to take control of our lives and build relationships with confidence, trust, and joy.

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Paul Meier, M.D. is a psychiatrist and founder of the national chain of Meier Clinics as well as best-selling author or co-author of more than eighty books. He holds five degrees in the fields of medicine, psychiatry, and theology. Happily married, he has six children and two grandchildren.

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While I think this book has a lot of good information in it, it is so full of overt Christianity that it really should be labeled as such. If I had known this beforehand, I would not have bought this book as I feel it really detracts from the actual useful information. There are many self-help books out there that mention God but that make it easy to apply to any faith or belief, or fairly easy to ignore if you have no belief. This is not one of those. There was just way too much talk about the "Holy Spirit pushing up repressed thoughts" etc.
Meier also includes lists of characteristics to help you identify First-, Second-, and Nth-Degree Jerks. Some of the characteristics he lists however do not necessarily make someone a jerk. Maybe by Christian standards, but not by most people I know. Meier presents his own Christian beliefs as if they were scientific fact. For instance, enjoying even mildly erotic literature or films is considered a sign of a "Second-Degree Jerk".
Meier also talks about defense mechanisms. One of the defense mechanisms he talks about is what he calls "Phariseeism", which he defines as "Individuals think themselves better than others because of what they do or don't do. They become increasingly self-righteous, and they scrupulously adhere to a list of philosophical or religious rules or some other set of standards, all with the goal of avoiding becoming aware of their own faults, failures, and depravities." It seems to me that Meier has not yet gotten over his own Phraseeism, although he claims he has. At the end of his chapter on defense mechanisms, he describes differences between Freud's and Heinroth's psychiatric theories, asserting that Heinroth got it right, and that Freud was excessively anti-religion and missed the point.
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2.0 out of 5 stars This author's a real jerk expert Jan. 2 2003
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Dr. Paul Meier is the co-host of the nationally syndicated radio show "New Life Clinic" and has written many books. His personality on the radio is condescending and now I have discovered why--he's a jerk. At least he admits that he used to be. And he has written the book to prove it, entitled "Don't Let the Jerks Get the Best of You."
The idea for this book is great--dealing with the jerks you come in contact with. But during the reading of the book I discovered two things: first, he is really trying to get at the jerk within YOU (the reader), not in others. That's fine and he certainly convinced me that I'm a jerk at the highest level, but it didn't do much other than make me feel bad that I'm a jerk. It didn't help me much in dealing with others.
Second, he proves himself to be the utmost jerk through his constant claiming that he's NOT a jerk anymore! He gives three "levels" of being a jerk (everyone falls into one of the three categories), and of course he claims that he may have been level two at one point but now he is the lowest-level jerk. He even calls himself a "good guy" who "doesn't mean to do wrong." So when he mistreats his wife or kids or patients, he excuses it away as being meaningless since he doesn't intend on hurting them. Can't he see that INTENT may have nothing to do with it? A person who backs their car into your car may not "mean" to do it, but that is not an excuse! They did wrong, must take personal responsibility for it, learn to drive better, etc. Intent doesn't deal with consequences.
He then goes on to claim he has some "weaknesses"-- such as the fact that he like to pay for others meals or that he likes to spend all the money he makes on others! Wow--what weaknesses!
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5.0 out of 5 stars PAUL MEIER IS A GENUIS! Jan. 15 1999
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PAUL MEIER IS A GENUIS AND HE HAS WRITTEN A BOOK THAT THOUGHTFULLY AND HUMORUOSLY GIVES SOLID ADVICE ON DEALING WITH DIFFICULT PEOPLE. THIS BOOK IS EXTREMELY HELPFUL BECUASE EVERYONE HAS DIFFICULT PEOPLE IN THEIR LIVES AND THIS BOOK LETS' YOU KNOW THAT YOU ARE NOT ALONE IN THE FIGHT TO NOT ONLY SURVIVE BUT ALSO EXPLEMPLIFY THE CHARACTER OF CHRIST IN A WORLD FULL OF SELFISH PEOPLE. DO YOU KNOW ANY SELFISH PEOPLE? HURTFUL PEOPLE? THIS BOOK CAN HELP! PAUL MEIER IS CO-FOUNDER OF THE MINIRTH-MEIER NEW LIFE CLINICS, HE HAS WRITTEN MANY BOOKS ON EMOTIONAL HEALING AND RELATED ISSUES, HE ALSO HAS WRITTEN A FEW FICTION NOVELS ON THE SUBJECT OF PROPHECY. HE IS CO-HOST OF A DAILY RADIO PROGRAM CALLED "NEW LIFE LIVE." IT IS CURRENTLY BROADCAST ON MORE THAN 200 STATIONS ACROSS THE NATION. PAUL WAS ON THE "OPRAH SHOW" A FEW YEARS AGO TALKING ABOUT HIS BOOK "DON'T LET JERKS GET THE BEST OF YOU." IT IS DEFINITELY ONE OF HIS MOST POPULAR BOOKS. I STRONGLY RECCOMEND THAT IF YOU ARE IN NEED OF HEALING FROM ABUSE OR CONFUSED ABOUT HOW TO RESPOND TO DIFFICULT PEOPLE IN A LOVING, CHRISTIAN MANNER, YOU BUY THIS BOOK FROM AMAZON.COM!
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5.0 out of 5 stars Jerk-reversal made easy Feb. 11 2000
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This book was given to me 4 years ago and I never read it until a few weeks ago. I wish I had read it sooner! I work in retail sales and it has really helped me in understanding how to work with Jerks and to eliminate jerk-isms within myself. Within the covers Dr. Meier covers the spiritual ramifications of jerkism and how your relationship with God (geared more in a Christian sense) can help you destroy selfish behaviour and relationship-crippling activities. Meier not only gives us a beautiful autobiography of his own fight with the jerk within but gives many clinical cases of jerk-ism defeated (from both internal and external sources). I would reccomend this book to EVERYONE as it will do nothing but improve your relationship with your fellow man. This book can also help abuse survivors to truly survive in all ways and help one overcome fears and heal deep emotional scars left by even the most destructive of abuse. This is a must-have for any household.
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