When I first heard this single, I thought it was really nice. Until, I REALLY heard the song. Then my right eyebrow rose up in disbelief. You mean to tell me, he is going to sit there and allow a female to punk him by cheating on him, and he doesn't wanna know about it??? He wants her to keep it on the low...WOW!!! Remind me not to run into him on the street, cause I would just shake my head at him and tell him to get a backbone. I'm a woman myself, and although I would like to have a sensative brotha, I don't want a weak punk like him. I don't know how the rest of the album is, but I have heard the second single and I saw the video with the nasty lookin' dude that's rapping in the video, and I just shook my head again, and said "Damn, that's a punk" and turned the channel. From what I'm reading from the other members who have rated his album, he might want to consider sticking to producing, and leaving the singing to the rest of the talented Winans family.