19 of 20 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars
Excellent Book, I highly recommend this book, Oct 4 2009
By Alan Lederman "Libro Maven" - Published on Amazon.com
This review is from: Emotional Intelligence For Dummies (Paperback)
This book deals with all the difficulties I have had with my relationships. Little things would upset me and I would take it out on the people around me, just because I I was in a bad mood. Now, I think twice and try to put the upset into perspective in the grand scheme of things. I also use the technique of thinking will this matter in a few days,,,,,,a few weeks,,,,,, a few months,,,,,, and of course, it won't.
I work with some people I don't like also. In the corporate world, some people are strictly focused on getting ahead, looking good, career advancement, doing as little as possible etc. Not values I share. When I must interact with them, after reading this book, although it is still my first reaction to get annoyed when I am confronted with their self serving agenda, on Dr.Stein's advice, I take a step back, I actively work on being pleasant instead of annoyed and I keep my interactions short.
I highly recommend this book for anyone who wants to improve their own life by working on their interpersonal relationships.
2 of 2 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars
Not just for dummies, May 3 2011
By Don Booz - Published on Amazon.com
This review is from: Emotional Intelligence For Dummies (Paperback)
I have been reading lots of books on Emotional Intelligence. However, not every book can be judged by its title. Take the book entitled, "Emotional Intelligence for Dummies", for example. Of course I knew that sooner or later such a book would appear on the long list of similar books for dummies. But I bought the book even though I don't consider myself a dummy about emotional intelligence. To my surprise, it was well written and full of helpful information.
Once you get past the title there is a wealth of information contained inside the book. The author, Steven Stein, co-authored "The EQ Edge" with Howard Book. Needless to say, Dr. Stein knows what he is talking about and I am now going to recommend "Emotional Intelligence for Dummies" to all my clients. What is important to know is that Dr. Stein is highly respected clinical psychologist who is considered an expert on emotional intelligence.
If I were to give any homework assignments on emotional intelligence, I would suggest that people need to pay particular attention to the last third of the Stein's book. Reading chapters 14 thru 16 would definitely help anyone who works with another person. But there would also be benefits for other relationships such as your spouse, best friend or life partner.
You don't have to be a dummy to read this book. However, I could almost guarantee that you would be a smarter person after you finished it.
1 of 5 people found the following review helpful
1.0 out of 5 stars
Where is the Beef?, Feb 24 2011
By E. D. Andersen "Andy" - Published on Amazon.com
This review is from: Emotional Intelligence For Dummies (Paperback)
I was intrigued by the concept and promise of this book in that the field of Emotional Intelligence is relatively new and has much to offer. This book, however, has in my opinion little to offer. While the Chapter Titles and Subheadings within the chapters appear to cover the subject well the texts themselves rarely fulfill what the headings indicate. The discussions are often common knowledge, very obvious concepts or very oversimplified. There are several LONG lists which you are suppossed to study, write notes about and then uncover insights about your emotions (BUT it give you no clue as to how to do that). There is a lengthy discussion of the 3 established tests to determine an EQ (Emotional Quotient), how important it is to know this and then says these can only be administred and interpreted by a professional!!!! The book also says that your EQ can be changed by identifying and understanding your emotions (and the emotions of other people) and by learning to temper and control your emotions (and the emotions of other people)....... BUT only through working with other people i.e. professionals or groups. This becomes a self-fulfilling prophesy as he book give NO meaningful self-help instruction on doing it yourself. Therefore, although the book tells in great detail how important good Emotional Intelligence is and through many stories illustrates bad Emotional Intelligence you then get dropped on your head (OK told to call a professional to get help). ONE GOOD THING - I read this book on my Kindle and it was well formatted for and easy to read on the kindle.