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This review is from: Feeling Good Together: The Secret to Making Troubled Relationships Work (Hardcover)
very good and inspirational. Helped me a lot in understanding human biaviour and myself. Helps me to improve communication with others, while respecting myself.
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4.6 out of 5 stars (16 customer reviews) 30 of 30 people found the following review helpful
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This book presents all of his teachings on marriage in one well organized place,
By Dean Bender "Dean" - Published on Amazon.com
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This review is from: Feeling Good Together: The Secret to Making Troubled Relationships Work (Hardcover)
This is an excellent book for a person who wants to improve their relationship with others and most especially with their spouse. And yes, I have read the entire book. Only one person needs to read the book and apply the learning. That is enough to start a chain reaction throughout the relationship. Dr. Burns also shows how these same principles apply to less important relationships. If you have read all of his other books and listened to his training tapes you may not read much that is new but he has put it all together in one spot with thorough explanations and examples for all to learn and benefit from. As a marriage therapist this book is included in my bibliography.
18 of 18 people found the following review helpful
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Brings people together !,
By Moment_29 "Sam" - Published on Amazon.com
This review is from: Feeling Good Together: The Secret to Making Troubled Relationships Work (Hardcover)
This is another classic from David burns on how to solve relationship problems. He explores in depth the causes that divide people and cause so much mental agony. Note this book in no way insists that one should have relationships with everyone. The book takes a bold look at how we create the very problems we complain. Dogmatically sticking to Truth is the biggest one.David burns having dealt with depression and anxiety issues in past takes a radically different approach for relationship problems. This is great book not to be missed for anyone having troubled relationships. 5 stars 19 of 20 people found the following review helpful
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This book is an outstanding choice for anyone dealing with relationship problems.,
By And Then Some Publishing LLC - Published on Amazon.com
This review is from: Feeling Good Together: The Secret to Making Troubled Relationships Work (Hardcover)
Feeling Good Together: The Secret to Making Troubled Relationships WorkReview by Richard L. Weaver II, Ph.D. Burns' previous book, Feeling Good, sold over four million copies; this book has the potential of doing the same. It is outstanding. In this 255-page book, there are six parts and 30 chapters -- approximately 8 pages per chapter. Some of the intriguing chapter titles include, "Why We Secretly Love to Hate," "Three Ideas That Can Change Your Life," "How Good Is Your Relationship? The Relationship Satisfaction Test," "The Price of Intimacy," "Good Communication vs. Bad Communication," "How We Control Other People," "The Five Secrets of Effective Communication," "The Disarming Technique," "Intimacy Traing for Couples: The One-Minute Drill," Part Five, "Common Traps--How to Avoid Them," and "Positive Reframing: Opening the Door to Intimacy--and Success." You can see, just from the titles, how the information he presents is directly tied to questions, problems, and issues that all couples face. The beauty of the book, however, and the practical, realistic tools Burns offers readers apply to all relationships, whether they are spouse, family, friends, or co-workers. I have always found Burns' approach to readers direct, interesting, warm, and engaging, and his "radically different approach" in this book is labeled "Cognitive Interpersonal Therapy," and if my interpersonal textbook had continued (the seventh edition of it was the last), I would have incorporated his basic principles of CIT in my textbook: 1) "We all provoke and maintain the exact relationship problems that we complain about." 2) "We deny our own role in the conflict because self-examination is so shocking and painful, and because we're secretly rewarded by the problem we're complaining about." 3) "We all have far more power than we think to transform troubled relations--if we're willing to stop blaming the other person and focus instead on changing ourselves" (p. 36). The tables, bulleted points, suggested steps, and examples are helpful, realistic, and worthwhile. For anyone having relationship problems, wanting to avoid relationship problems, or wanting to know what kind of advice to give to others, this is an outstanding choice. |
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