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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars
Hit the nail on the head,
By A Canadian Mother "mom" (Kitchener, ON Canada) - See all my reviews
This review is from: The Girlfriends' Guide to Surviving 1st year mother (Paperback)
I'm surprised people were disappointed in this book. For me, she nailed every postpartum experience perfectly with her descriptions. It was so comforting to know I wasn't the only person having these thoughts/experiences/body changes.I read it when my first child was born and again when my third child came 6 years later, and I enjoyed it just as much the second time. I love her middle-of-the road parenting philosophies, the way she just kind of stumbles along like the rest of us and doesn't measure herself against any extreme philosophical view. A friend of mine bought the book as a gift and I am still so grateful that she did! A great book to read in your first few weeks postpartum, since it's about the only thing you can do for yourself during that time anyway!
2 of 3 people found the following review helpful
1.0 out of 5 stars
Not my girlfriend either,
By A Customer
This review is from: The Girlfriends' Guide to Surviving 1st year mother (Paperback)
I'm sorry I read this book. It made me depressed. I read it before giving birth and my experience was nothing like this book describes. My delivery was easy, my husband is a terrific partner and father, and my girlfriends had the same experiences I had.
4 of 6 people found the following review helpful
2.0 out of 5 stars
Not MY Girlfriend,
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This review is from: The Girlfriends' Guide to Surviving 1st year mother (Paperback)
OK, she can be funny--so two stars for a cutting sense of humor. She's funny as she mocks everyone who disagrees with her style of child rearing. She's funny as she explains how VERY unhappy you will be after giving birth. She's funny as she reminds you time and again that men are only useless sperm donors(as the back cover of her book says so clearly, "Husband, what husband?"), so don't expect the father to get off the couch for you. Basically, she's funny as she describes how very miserable your child will make you. My son is five months old, and I love being a Mom. I did natural childbirth--hey, it's not for everyone, but Ms. McCarty thinks that means I'm some kind of freak. I love spending time with my son. Some people get the baby blues, but according to her if you don't hate life within three hours of labor, you aren't really a "Girlfriend". My husband is a fantastic father, who not only changes more diapers than I do (*gasp*) but actually takes fathering seriously, and was an invaluable support for me during the postpartum recovery period. Since he's not a jerk, I can't be a "Girlfriend". If you are having a very difficult time adjusting to motherhood, if your partner is an unsupportive clod... it should make you feel better. If you are struggling and overwhelmed and ready to take most of what she says with a large grain of salt, it might cheer you up. It is NOT a good read if you want to remain positive about your first child entering your life. Vicki Iovine is an expert, has a monthly column in Child magazine, makes the rounds of the talk shows. But I have to question her qualifications. Since when did being a Playboy centerfold make you a "Girlfriend"? What makes a snide high-powered media insider a "Girlfriend"? Life in the fast lane living with rock stars makes you a "Girlfriend"? Sorry, but out here in the real world, we work full time at home or at a job, don't live in Malibu, don't live in your world, Vicki. And we seem to enjoy motherhood a lot more than you do.
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