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The Good, the Bad & the Difference: How to Tell the Right From Wrong in Everyday Situations
 
 

The Good, the Bad & the Difference: How to Tell the Right From Wrong in Everyday Situations (Paperback)

by Randy Cohen (Author) "I am an accidental ethicist ..." (more)
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Humbly perched atop his "accidental" vantage point (he never intended to be an ethicist), New York Times Magazine columnist Randy Cohen eagerly analyzes the circuitous moral landscape below and offers smart advice in The Good, the Bad & the Difference. Nearly 200 reader letters, Cohen's thoughtful responses, and occasional counterpoints from guest ethicists make up the bulk of this engaging collection. Divided into seven topics, questions seek guidance on appropriate behavior at work, school, and home; with friends; in public; in the medical field; and in situations where money counts. They range from the clear-cut (seeking justification for acts of revenge), to the no-win situation (think "whistle-blower"). The ethicist in Cohen provides a quick, logically gleaned response; the novelist in him "skillfully limns the complex and subtle relationships and the unspoken obligations that bind people together"; and the humorist in him makes it all irresistible. Each chapter's "Pop Ethics Quiz" invites readers to exercise their own moral muscles on serious and whimsical dilemmas. While Cohen claims no formal background in ethics, perhaps his stint as a writer for Late Night with David Letterman was school enough, for he shows a remarkable ability to smoke out the wrong and carefully preserve the right, even in the kookiest situations. --Liane Thomas --This text refers to the Hardcover edition.


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Cohen, author of the popular New York Times Magazine column "The Ethicist," has collected some of his favorite columns, along with guest commentaries, quizzes for readers and revisions of some of his own advice. Not unlike Miss Manners, Cohen tries to focus on problems that everyday people actually face: e-mail privacy at work, "telling" on a philandering spouse, cheating at school, filching motel soaps, ticket scalping and the like. After outlining the basic ethical issues involved, he offers clear if sometimes painful recommendations for what to do, often leavened with a little Dave Barry-ish humor. Unlike Dear Abby or Judge Judy, Cohen allows for more than one right answer; he includes dissenting opinions from Dan Savage, Katha Pollitt and even his own mom. The concluding section, "I Demand a Recant," rounds up columns that Cohen himself has changed his mind about. Still, rethinking positions hasn't made Cohen a relativist; his basic ethical principles remain clear. "The small civilities of ordinary life" are important. Incompetence should not be confused with unethical behavior. And beware "perilous" associations; working as "Attila the Hun's Gardener" may land you in unintended trouble. Agent, David McCormick. (On sale Mar. Forecast: Cohen's weekly fans will want this for their reference shelves; word of mouth should take it much further. It's the perfect gift for anyone who doesn't read a lot, but feels strongly about "how things ought to be done."
Copyright 2002 Cahners Business Information, Inc. --This text refers to the Hardcover edition.

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1.0 out of 5 stars he should practice what he preaches, April 7 2004
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This author used a recent television appearance to promote this book as a chance to share his political views. How "ethical" is that?
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1.0 out of 5 stars Cohen Knows Less About Ethics ..., April 7 2004
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Cohen should read a dictionary before writing about ethics. Self-promoting, and as is with most New York Times journalists, knowledge of subject matter and/or credentials for pontificating are sorely lacking.
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1.0 out of 5 stars Dangerous, questionable, smarmy; worse than useless, May 13 2003
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First, every well-educated person's library should have at least one good ethics book. Second, this book ain't it.

The author gives a series of case studies and then shows how he would quickly solve the complicated ethics problems he sometimes presents. The main point I seem to infer from this book is that ethics is sort of like quantum physics or neurosurgery -- people can be shown how problems are solved by the experts, but they should not expect to be able to do it themselves -- in other words, ethics is too complicated to be left to ordinary individuals. I consider this conclusion not only wrong, but also potentially dangerous and inconsistent with liberal democracy. Cohen's approach seems to be a type of "virtue ethics," which essentially argues that ethics depends on a well-refined character rather than consequences or universal principles. Virtue ethics can be truly wonderful and essential, but usually not when standing alone in a diverse democracy and usually not when advocted by someone without superb credentials. This view is compatible with a democracy if and only if the definition of character is universally accepted, and the population has been highly educated to develop, respect, refine, and maintain such character. Failing this, such an approach effectively relies on "philosopher kings," who will decide what is right and wrong for all (and, I assume, these "philosopher kings" will be either lawyers or professional ethicists). We've already conceded justice in this country to lawyers, with disastrous consequences for justice, and heaven help us if we should do the same with morality and ethics. Bless their hearts, we need lawyers and ethicists, but they should be watched v-e-r-r-y carefully.

Another quarrel I have with this book is the same quarrel I have with Mr. Cohen's New York Times articles -- the author's views are often inconsistent and downright wrong. One case in point is his view on those college honor codes which require students to turn in known and verified cheaters. Mr Cohen feels this is "tattling," which can be effectively ignored by an ethical person, even if this means cheaters can continue to take advantage of the system. Well, let me tell you something -- if I know of someone who is falsifying aircraft maintenance records, and do not "tattle," I could rightly be considered an accessory to a crime, and could be partially liable for killing hundreds of people if their planes crash because of faulty repairs. Mr Cohen never draws a line between minor "tattling" and a crime of collaboration, and he never indicates how (or if) he would draw that line. If a person does not develop a respect for honesty in a training situation like college, just where are they going to develop it? College honor codes can help institute the kind of character that Mr Cohen's "virtue ethics" requires, and can do so without much formal training in ethics. This is just one case in point.

Last and least, the author's writing style often seems insufferably smug and smarmy. Yecch. Poor writing is not necessary for good ethics.

Alternatives include Arthur Dobrin's "Ethics for Everyone," or ... almost any other book.

I hope that professional ethicists won't do to ethics what lawyers have done to justice, but after reading this book, I am far less hopeful.

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1.0 out of 5 stars The irony of the hypocritical ethicist
Everyone has their own opinons about "right from wrong" and Randy Cohen has written a book about his. Read more
Published on May 5 2003 by submachine

1.0 out of 5 stars Dangerous, inconsistent, smug; worse than useless
First, every well-educated person should have at least one good ethics book in their personal library. Second, this book ain't it. Read more
Published on April 9 2003

1.0 out of 5 stars Dangerous, inconsistent, smug; worse than useless
First, every well-educated person should have at least one good ethics book in their personal library. Second, this book ain't it. Read more
Published on April 8 2003

4.0 out of 5 stars An entertaining and sometimes enlightening look at ethics
This book is basically a collection of excerpt from Mr. Cohen's New York times ethics columns. The book is organized into various ethical situations from workplace situations to... Read more
Published on Mar 13 2003

1.0 out of 5 stars Ethics?...Where?
Mr. Cohen is in dire need of the admittedly lax editorial standards of The New York Times. In this book, any and all causes that conflict with Mr. Read more
Published on Dec 31 2002 by thegoodkelly

4.0 out of 5 stars Informative, Makes you think and funny as well
Well-written, at times humorous and making you think, and sometimes think hard, this book is filled with many of Randy Cohen's letters previously printed in his New York Times... Read more
Published on Dec 30 2002 by S. Smith

5.0 out of 5 stars An Ethics Wakeup Call
With one person in six either in jail or otherwise in the criminal justice system, there is an obvious need for this book. Read more
Published on Oct 15 2002 by Dan Poynter

5.0 out of 5 stars Provocative look at how to be good in the real world
Read THE GOOD, THE BAD & THE DIFFERENCE by
Randy Cohen, author of THE NEW YORK TIMES MAGAZINE'S
popular column "The Ethicist" . . . Read more
Published on Jun 3 2002 by Blaine Greenfield

5.0 out of 5 stars A common-sense approach to everyday situations
One of the best columns in The New York Times Magazine each week is "The Ethicist" by Randy Cohen. It's sharp, incisive, and provides food for thought. Read more
Published on April 29 2002 by JLind555

5.0 out of 5 stars Cohen brings a "town square" approach to ethics
(First, the full disclosure: I am in the acknowledgments for this book, because the Samuel Johnson quotations throughout this book were drawn from my Johnson web site. Read more
Published on April 3 2002 by Frank Lynch

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