9 of 9 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars
A fun book, though a bit of a trifle, Nov 26 2011
By Nathan Webster - Published on Amazon.com
This review is from: Gossip: The Untrivial Pursuit (Hardcover)
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I love gossip, and since I work in academia I have plenty of opportunity to practice it - and I'm sure be the target (in fact, I hope I am, because if nobody's gossiping about you, it means you're irrelevant!). There are some good "how-to's" I'll take from this book, though I'm not sure that was really author Joseph Epstein's intention.
Epstein's a very entertaining writer, and the examples give a historical context to something we probably don't consider as a serious method of conversation - I'm not saying it's a valuable or useful method, but it IS communication. I appreciated the Talmudic quote to not say anything good about your friends, because it often leads to the negative, and I think that's very true.
I agree with a previous reviewer that this feels like a series of collected magazine articles that analyze gossip from a series of perspectives. Unlike that reviewer, I do feel each example was effectively and interestingly connected.
Ultimately, while I was entertained and impressed by Epstein's amusing writing skills, the book itself doesn't add up to that much. It feels very light, even if the subject matter is serious at times; I'm not sure it demands much deep thinking. Although the section that explores how journalism = gossip is meaningful and interesting. Still, as a book to get for yourself, it's fun but not memorable.
But I do think this would be a great holiday or birthday gift - especially to an academic, or someone who works in a back-bitey office enviornment. It would let them put a little researched spin on the behavior they likely practice but never seriously think about.
Plus, if you buy it for someone, then the two of you can talk about it, which is the whole point anyway!
8 of 9 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars
Dispenses a lot of and about the ART of Gossip!, Nov 11 2011
By D_shrink "dshrink" - Published on Amazon.com
This review is from: Gossip: The Untrivial Pursuit (Hardcover)
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I have enjoyed reading the writings of this author since I first read his essay in the 7/12/2000 edition of the WSJ called "I'm Eppy, but Call Me Mr. Epstein".
The author spends the first few introductory chapters defining gossip and some closely allied synonyms. One of his definitions of gossip is "One party telling another what a third party doesn't want known." The mere fact that it may actually be true makes it all the more destructive. He then gives an example of how a "News Leak" is different from pure gossip in saying that gossip may start out as nothing more than entertainment while a leak always has an underling serious motive to it. He even goes into trying to explain the derivation of the word gossip attributing it at one point to the information operatives [spies] of the Revolutionary War, who were told to go-sip [some booze] with the enemy to derive the necessary information sought. I found that informative, as interesting minds always want to know.
My favorite chapter in the book was on Walter Winchell, which even knowing who he was dates me a bit. It seems that he began his career in vaudeville as a tap dancer before becoming the progenitor of all gossip columnists of today. With a nice turn of phrase the author so succinctly puts it, "A hoofer by trade, he was a hustler in spirit and he hustled much better than he hoofed...Before long, Winchell would give up his tap shoes for tapping out words on a typewriter."
He also gossips on Lady Christina Brown Evans who is the editor of the Daily Beast and Newsweek. You will get the real low down on her methods of ascension to those lofty pedestals of society. This was even better than the chapter on Barbara Walters.
He also dishes on other antediluvians of the ancient world of storied Romans and Greeks plus merely the more recent "gossipists" as Dorothy Killgallen, Liz Smith, Seymour Hersh [reported the My Lai massacre of 1968 Viet Nam], Bob Woodward of Watergate fame, Walter Cronkite, Arthur Miller, and more modern purveyors of prurient interests as TMZ, Page Six [NY Times], Politico.Com, Matt Drudge and too many others to note.
For Epstein fans or those simply interested in gossip as entertainment, this book doesn't disappoint. You will be hilariously surprised at what some of the famous and not to famous had to say about others.
5 of 5 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars
Fun and Gossip-Filled Book, Dec 11 2011
By I. Tysoe "Inna Tysoe" - Published on Amazon.com
This review is from: Gossip: The Untrivial Pursuit (Hardcover)
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This is a really fun book to read. It is well written, provides you with an inside look into various celebrities (Barbara Walters, Monica Lewinsky, and Tina Brown to name but a few), yet somehow it (to use Epstein's own words) it succeeds in not making you demeaned by your own low curiosity. In short, according to Epstein, the book succeeds in producing buzz (buzz not just about contemporaries by the way, but about luminaries such as Louis XIV and H.L. Mencken as well). All of which makes it a great read.
But that also makes it a problem for Epstein's larger point. For, while he is perfectly willing to concede gossip's positive uses (it enforces social mores, tells you what you really need to know about your fellow human beings, and helps your social skills), the larger point he is trying to make is that the Internet has given us too much gossip. His wants us to come away shaking our collective heads at the un-seriousness of the information we are presented even in serious publications. Because that information is so filled with gossip as to be merely a distraction. He wants us to absorb the Talmudic lessons that we are not to even start talking well of our fellow man because we will, in the end speak badly of him and the Talmudic lesson of Lashon hara or the evil tongue. Or at least he says he does.
For, in the end, these moral lessons (sprinkled as they are in between juicy pieces of gossip) are what prevent you from thinking that your own voyeuristic interest in this book degrades you. But, let's be honest, it's not the moral lessons that keep you turning the pages. It's the one about what Senator Moynihan's assistant would say when the late Senator was completely drunk or the one about Marlene Dietrich making it with JFK less than an hour before receiving an award for her wartime work with Jewish refugees.
In the end, this book delivers exactly what it preaches (although it can't be said to preach all that terribly hard) against. Which, of course is what makes it such a fun read. So, if you're looking for a fun, gossip-filled read about celebrities modern and not-so-modern this book's perfect. If, on the other hand, you are looking for a serious book about gossip, you may want to look elsewhere.