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Growing Up Jung: Coming of Age as the Son of Two Shrinks [Hardcover]

Micah Toub
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Sept. 28 2010
Micah Toub faced quite a few psychological challenges when he was growing up. And two of his best guides through them – as well as the biggest causes of them – were his parents.

Part memoir, part introduction to famous and infamous psychological concepts past and present, Growing Up Jung tells the story of a boy raised by two psychologists. It's an extraordinary coming-of-age story, replete with more sexual confusion and domestic dysfunction than even the average adolescent has to endure. And through the telling of that story, Toub is able to discuss such topics as why Freud's obsession with Oedipus threatens our chances today of being close to our mothers; the methods a Jungian psychologist might use to help a young man overcome sexual anxiety; and why it is okay to sometimes let your inner-murderer out for the night.

Referencing the written works of the thinkers discussed, books that have been written about them, and relevant contemporary pop culture, Toub discusses and explains such topics as Synchronicity, Archetypes, and the Oedipus Complex, as well as lesser-known corners of the psyche, such as the Ally, the Dreambody, and what Jung called Active Imagination. And he is able to weave all this information seamlessly into his own story, because if there was a psychological problem going, it went Toub's way. Call it synchronicity. And if you don't know what synchronicity is, see chapter 5.

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Quill & Quire

Most men would not turn to their mothers for advice about erectile dysfunction, nor would they confront their aggressive impulses by shopping for jeans. But having been raised by two Jungian psychologists, Globe and Mail columnist (and Q&Q contributor) Micah Toub isn’t most men.

Growing Up Jung is as much a primer on Jungian psychology as a lighthearted memoir. Toub devotes each chapter to explaining an aspect of his personal growth through the lens of a particular Jungian concept, and vice versa. It’s a fascinating way to structure a memoir, and for the most part it works. He achieves some distance from the events of his life, while also offering insights into the history and development of Jungian psychology, a subject central to his sense of self.

But there are two problems with this approach. First, it sometimes affords Toub too much distance from his material. By the end of a chapter devoted to his adopted sister, Rochelle, for example, the reader has an excellent understanding of her role in the family according to the theories of Arnold “Arny” Mindell – post-Jungian founder of Process Oriented Psychology and guru to the Toub clan – but virtually no sense of her as a person, or of how Toub actually feels about her.

The second problem is depth, or more precisely, a lack thereof. Growing Up Jung’s split personality means that Toub often truncates anecdotes or psychological explanations just as the reader becomes engrossed with them. More could have been done to explore the relationship he sees between the writings of Carlos Castaneda and Jung’s interest in alchemy, for example, but as things stand, Toub barely has time to point out this relationship.

Growing Up Jung succeeds mostly through Toub’s commitment to asking difficult questions of himself, even if he does crack jokes while doing so. He acknowledges that Jungian psychology can seem “flaky” to outsiders, and at times even to him, and he tackles such criticisms head on, with real openness. Growing Up Jung isn’t aggrieved, sensational, or even celebratory, but rather genuinely curious and searching. It’s a book about process – about Toub understanding his own story through the act of telling it. ­

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"I hated to see this book end. I loved every person in it, from the wistful dad with his 'fluffy-edged' voice, to Toub's kind and darling mom, his tolerant and loving ex-wife, even that volcanic teenaged sister... Growing Up Jung is a gem.” 
The Washington Post

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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars Growing up Jung Jan. 15 2011
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The self-reflection evident in this book would be a helpful guide to many young men. It also shows that parenting needs to be seen from both sides, child and parent. What is clearly evident from this writing: As parents we should not feel too guilty about negative outcomes, yet also not be overly proud about positive ones.
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4.0 out of 5 stars A Story of Growing Up Sept. 3 2010
By R. L. Sassoon - Published on Amazon.com
It's rare to come across a book that is so absorbing, suspenseful and such real fun to read that I don't want to put it down, yet is true to life in its humor and full of wise understanding intelligently, even cunningly, articulated. It's a good story about growing up; as an elder still doing that, I found it quite valuable. The author is quite outrageously honest. The book is also a good education, in a practical fashion, about basic Jungian ideas on psychological growth toward maturity and independence and the inevitable challenges on the way.
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4.0 out of 5 stars What if You Were Raised by Therapists? Sept. 17 2010
By Kenneth R. Mabry - Published on Amazon.com
I grew up in a markedly unpsychological, working class family in the 1950's and 60's in a small town in the South. When I was about to depart for college, my father said, "I hope you won't study any of that psychology stuff." To my parents, the inner life was best avoided. I've often fantasized that I would have been so much happier and better adjusted had my parents emphasized our interior worlds. Perhaps because of this deficit, I've had a lifelong interest in psychology.

I was drawn to Toub's memoir because I wondered how I might have fared growing up in a family where both parents were therapists who actively engaged in psychological explorations. I'm also attracted to the rich stew of Jungian psychology with its emphasis on dreams, myths, symbols, and archetypes.

Toub realizes that his parents were different. He writes about them in his introduction, "Most people did not go off to seminars in the desert and sit cross-legged with a bunch of other people and talk about their spirit guides." Most kids probably didn't analyze their dreams at the dinner table. And how many teenage males have discussed a fear of impotence with their mother and had her lead them in an imaginary exercise where they were encouraged to "become the erection" to gain confidence? Depending on your outlook, growing up in such an environment could sound intriguing, engaging, or even a bit creepy.

I suspect that Toub and perhaps his editors wanted to keep what could have been a heavy subject on the upbeat and readable side. Thus, the book comes across as entertainingly self-deprecating and lighthearted with each chapter broken into short sections. Toub, now 34 and married and divorced, survived his childhood and writes on psychology and other topics from Toronto.

Toub's life has no doubt been deeply influenced by having been raised by therapists as opposed to, say, a couple of bankers or accountants. One of his biggest struggles may have been detaching himself from an emotional dependence on his parents, particularly his mother. He seems to have navigated that successfully and suffered no more or less trauma or angst than most of the rest of us. Indeed, Toub writes, "I'm a Jungian. I possessed Jungian knowledge passed down to me from my parents, and used it to help me through hard times in my life." In many ways he benefited from and was grateful for his rather eccentric upbringing.

Toub's memoir illustrates that most of us face the same challenges growing up, regardless of what kind of family raised us. As we grow older, we learn how to use what we were offered and how to recover from what was damaging or missing. Toub has offered us an engaging example of how he has traveled this path.
7 of 10 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars Be your true self ! Aug. 27 2010
By Rishi8 - Published on Amazon.com
Do you ever wonder why you do or say things that don't fit your self image ? Ever wonder why your relationships so frequently have the same theme, or how they might be related to your family of origin ? Do you wonder what lies beneath addictions and obsessions, yours and those closest to you ? If not, don't waste your time on this book.

This is a well-written and engaging look - honest, witty and stimulating - at these kinds of questions via one young man's struggle to emerge (he and Carl Jung would say "individuate") from a nurturing but uniquely directive family environment. I call it directive not because it specified content preferred by his parents but rather because it specified definitively how one gets the job done. Not "we want you to be a lawyer, or an engineer or a musician", but rather "you'll want to discover your true self, and here's the way to go about it."

The author is a columnist for Toronto's Globe & Mail and a blogger at Psychology Today. He's an insightful writer.
4.0 out of 5 stars Informative, Quirky, and Honest Nov. 16 2013
By Noelle - Published on Amazon.com
Format:Paperback
There is a strong sense of vulnerability given off by the autobiographer throughout this book. Toub's frank portrayal of the often misunderstood Jungian lifestyle is refreshingly honest, making him more relatable as a protagonist. In my opinion, the appeal of his writing is greatly enhanced by his open, tell-all nature.

Toub recalls attempting to become one with his inner woman by strutting down a street as if donning high-heels. His philosophical rationalization of this is that if he embraces his feminine side, he will attract a woman for himself. This certainly struck me as a little off the wall. However, his actions not only perfectly exemplify his willingness to share his more mortifying remembrances, but the overall Jungian thought process.

Such practices appear outlandish on the surface, but they have an underlying purpose: to become aware of the state of one's own psyche, and to utilize that enlightenment in order to achieve happiness. The author emphasizes this synchronicity between the mind and physical being by backing up stories from his life with verbatim content from the works of Jung. This use of ethos significantly adds to his credibility, drawing distinct connections between his upbringing and the thought patterns of the philosopher whom his parents followed so narrowly.

As an advocate of its quirkiness and introspection, I give this book a seven out of ten. Nevertheless, it is certainly not everyone's cup of tea; those who gravitate towards a linear narrative with more action and less pensiveness should search elsewhere. For the open-minded few who genuinely enjoy insight and comprehending the thinking behind ways of life far different from theirs, this book is for you.
5.0 out of 5 stars book review Nov. 12 2012
By Elena - Published on Amazon.com
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Micah Toub tells his life story and how it was influenced by his parents' profession as analysts, while also providing the reader with an excellent synopsis of the principles of Jungian psychology. Very frank, touching and entertaining, it is an easy read despite the complex subject.
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