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10 of 12 people found the following review helpful
2.0 out of 5 stars
So much hype, so little help,
By PghYinzer "more of myself after winter" (Pittsburgh, PA United States) - See all my reviews
This review is from: The Happiest Baby on the Block (Paperback)
I asked for this book for my shower because a lot of moms on a discussion forum I read raved about it. Just a few pages into it, I wondered if there was really any need to read the entire book. The other mommies assured me it was worth it.I am not convinced. There is absolutley nothing in this book that is in any way a breakthrough in the area of baby care. Swaddling, swinging, shushing, sucking, and stomach positioning to calm a baby are all as old as the hills. Some of these have fallen in and out of fashion at one point or another, but none of these tips are so unique that they can't be found as helpful suggestions in other parenting guides or by asking older parents... (I can't even begin to count the number of times my mother or father has suggested I calm my extremely fussy baby by "Try putting him on his belly" or "Why don't you give him a binky?") This book suffers from a number of flaws. 1. I can't even begin to say how irritated I am that the author claims to have found a "new" way to calm fussy babies. 2. This book would be nice as a PAMPHLET handed out at the hospital to new parents... it should NOT be a book. My original impression that this book is extremely repetitive was correct. It's not so much that none of these methods work, it's just that all can be explained very quickly. It does not take a full length book. Luckily, I read this book before my baby got here - any parent already dealing with a fussy or colicky baby would be at their wits end trying to read this entire book. (Therein lies the irony of childcare help books... those who need them the most don't have the time or ability to read them!!!) 3. The methods do NOT work for all babies and despite Karp's claim that colic does not even exist in some cultures due to parents using his methods... Colic does NOT always respond to these methods. Living with my baby was agony for the first few months. It didn't matter what I tried - days and evenings were horrible. Anyone who claims to have a cure for colic has clearly never really dealt with colic! What seemed to matter more to my baby was the clock... once 11pm hit, swaddled and nursed, he would sleep well at night. Between 6am and 11pm, though, it didn't matter WHAT I tried, he was fussy and needed to be held and nursed constantly. I could nolt put him down no matter what I tried. There was no magic "off switch," despite Karp's claims. In short, this book was a waste of my time. Skim it in a bookstore if you wish, but do not spend your money. In response to others claims that babies can become hooked on the methods in this book... I don't think this is a serious issue. We swaddled at night until my baby was big and strong enough to weasle his way out of his wrappings, no matter how many diaper pins I tried to fasten him with. Once he was too big to swaddle, he had no problems sleeping at night. (I mean, at 4 1/2 months he has yet to sleep through the night, but he sleeps no differently unswaddled than swaddled...) Maybe some babies require the calming methods a little longer than others, but sooner or later they should all outgrow them... I hope!
1 of 1 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars
BRILLIANT!!,
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This review is from: The Happiest Baby on the Block (Paperback)
I have a 6 week old baby girl who is right at the height of her colicky phase. Last night even the 5 S's (which normally work fabulously) were only working temporarily, so I decided to try something drastic. Since I really needed to vacuum, I decided to combine the two efforts and see what happened. Since Dr. Karp says that cultures who "wear" their babies rarely have problems with colic, I purchased one of those baby slings. I put her in it and got the vacuum out and proceeded to vacuum. Within about 15 seconds she was asleep and stayed asleep the entire hour it took to vacuum, complete with all the movement that comes with the task. The only precaution I had to take was to make sure I didn't hit something with her, since she was an extention of my body. If anyone needed more proof of the 4th Trimester theory, HERE IT IS!! Save yourself a lot of heartache, and buy and read this book before your baby is born!
1 of 1 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars
good for first-time parents,
By Dulcinea del Toboso "emarey" (San Antonio) - See all my reviews
This review is from: The Happiest Baby on the Block (Paperback)
As a first-time parent I was mystified when friends and relatives could calm my newborn baby quickly but I couldn't. This book quickly let me in on what experienced parents already know about calming babies and helped BOTH of us stop crying and get to sleep faster. At 4 months, I still swaddle and rock my daughter as recommended in the book and she goes right to sleep for a 6-8 hour stretch. The tone and style of the book are rather annoying... it reads like an infomercial and tends to beat a subject to death. However, when you're seriously sleep deprived, that's not such a bad thing.
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