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He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys [Hardcover]

Greg Behrendt , Liz Tuccillo , Lauren Monchik
4.2 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (64 customer reviews)

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Sept. 7 2004
Based on an episode of "Sex and the City," offers a lighthearted, no-nonsense look at dead-end relationships, with advice for letting go and moving on.

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From Publishers Weekly

It’s a classic single-woman scenario: you really like this guy, but he’s giving mixed messages. You make excuses, decide he’s confused, afraid of commitment. Behrendt, a former executive story editor for Sex and the City—and a formerly single (now happily married) guy who knows all the excuses—provides a simple answer: he’s just not that into you. Stop kidding yourself, let go and look for someone else who will be. After all, as Behrendt sensibly puts it, "if a (sane) guy really likes you, there ain’t nothing that’s going to get in his way." If you’re not convinced yet, by all means read this smart, funny and surprisingly upbeat little book, full of q’s and a’s covering every excuse woman has ever made to avoid admitting to herself that a man just wasn’t that smitten with her.
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From School Library Journal

Adult/High School–With a bright, breezy style, the authors highlight a list of actions that men take to demonstrate that they are "just not into you," using "Dear Greg" letters and replies, unscientific polls of men, lists reviewing the key points in each chapter, a comic glossary, and laugh-out-loud workbook assignments. Although this book is meant for the 20-plus career women who have been dating for a while, the empowering message that a woman deserves a man who truly loves her and not one that she must constantly make excuses for can't be learned too early.–Jane S. Drabkin, Chinn Park Regional Library, Woodbridge, VA
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10 of 11 people found the following review helpful
By Natalie
Format:Hardcover
I found this book to be a very entertaining read. However, I found it only really scratched the surface on the problems that both men and women face on a daily basis. I think the authors over simplified the subject matter. They seem to portray the issues we face as black and white. If only it could be that simple. In fact I wouldn't be in the loving relationship I am today if I followed the advice presented in this book. My man had a lot of challenges from his youth and it took him a long time to come to terms with some of life's issues. If I would have followed the suggestions in this book, I would have not given him the opportunity to discover who he really is.
The book seems to miss the fact that we all have insecurities that affect us. Non of us are perfect. Telling all women that they deserve better is a great way to sell books. However, the statement assumes all women are great. The fact is, all women are not great and do not deserve better. In reality life is more than an episode of a TV series. I found this book to be great for ratings (book sales) and sometimes fun, but it did not leave me wanting more. If you want a fun read, I definitely recommend this book. If you want to look at relationships and life from a different perspective, I recommend Seed's Sketchy Relationship Theories - A Guide to the Perils of Dating (How not to become a bar regular). A little gem I accidentally stumbled across.
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8 of 9 people found the following review helpful
2.0 out of 5 stars Over-rated Nov. 5 2004
By A Customer
Format:Hardcover
Being a big Sex and the City fan myself, I was particularly enthused by the "He's just not that into you" concept. The episode was very intriging and gave me a new perspective on guys and excuses. About 2 chapters into the book, I realized that half of it didn't apply to me. It was extremely biased and based entirely on Greg's opinion. I agree that all the excuses written about were pathetic and women should not fall for them. But the examples were unrealistic, women were portrayed as pathetic, weak, materialistic, tragic heroes, forever and desperately searching for love. The writing was very poor, I felt like I was reading a book in elementary school with a colouring kit. The obvious is that guys aren't that into you if you have to doubt yourself and your relationship. There are many 'it depends' situations and every individual and relationship is different in their own way. The polls and surveys were useless and discredited the book immensely. All in all, I think this book received more attention than it deserved.
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars A cool GLIDE of a read! Oct. 20 2004
By A Customer
Format:Hardcover
It's like skating on ice reading this book. Real cool and fun. It's very breezy, not too long, but punchy with insight about how silly and stupid we women can be. I certainly recommend it for anybody who likes Sex and the City and Jane Green and Lolly Winston books, or A Secret Word, a really smart cool book by Jennifer Paddock. Like that! You'll love it!
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars The no excuses truth Aug. 5 2005
Format:Hardcover
This book is full of the kind of advice your best girlfriend would give you when you are feeling down in the dumps over a guy. When you see real life situations (he's not calling, all of a sudden he's too busy to see you) laid out in these easy to read chapters, it's hard to think the authors are not being spiteful. They use humor and some over the top situations (at least I hope they are over the top!) to get the point of their book across. They hit the nail right on the head. And they make sense! This little gem of a book definitely deserves five stars.
Another book I enjoyed recently is "The Emotional Intelligence Quick Book" It's filled with great strategies and lets you test your EQ online.
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6 of 7 people found the following review helpful
By A Customer
Format:Hardcover
A funny, entertaining, and truthful look at dating. Girls, we've just got to erase the memory of reading about the frog and the prince. These fairy tales teach us to be idealistic but not realistic. So here's one good book that will surely debunk the myths.
Another great book about dating that debunks the myths in a very entertaining and meaningful way is Jennifer Paddock's novel A SECRET WORD.
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4.0 out of 5 stars Tells It Like It Is May 12 2007
Format:Hardcover
This is a great book because it holds no punches. It tells it like it is. My only gripe is that it doesn't go far enough. There are reasons why a guy might lose interest in a woman early on that the woman can eliminate, just like guys make us lose interest early on by calling too much, wanting to get together too much too soon, or wearing the wrong shoes for some of you (you know who you are.) It could talk about those reasons and be a bit more helpful.

The book especially helps women with self-esteem issues. We girls have a tendency to want or hang onto a relationship simply because we put so much effort into it and we don't want to waste that effort. This book helps us address that problem.

I also HIGHLY recommend "God is a Woman: Dating Disasters." It's by a comedian and its very, very funny. It takes things further by offering more specific advice and discussing some of the things women do to lose guys early on and how to avoid such pitfalls. It does get graphic in spots but if you watch "Law & Order" or any "American Pie" movies, those are far more graphic. Even if you don't want the advice, its fun to read about a guy making a fool of himself as he bumbles around trying to figure out women. What woman doesn't want to read that?
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5.0 out of 5 stars A Must-Read
This is a MUST-read for all women. It is an absolute epiphany! After reading this book, I realized how much time I'd wasted with my friends analysing men and relationships. Read more
Published 1 month ago by Jo
5.0 out of 5 stars Now I know...
This is an awesome book. Well written, with oh so much good examples, to even make understand the dumbest one of all, what is what... Read more
Published 3 months ago by Isil
5.0 out of 5 stars Just Not
Mena and Women need to read this book, very helpful with my relationship and going strong after 1.5 years, way to go AMAZON.CA
Published 4 months ago by Tiger0005
3.0 out of 5 stars He's Just No That Into You? Are you sure?
As a middle aged man who owns and manages an independent used book store, I had to have a flip through this book when it first came across the counter. Read more
Published 5 months ago by J. Moody
4.0 out of 5 stars A very light read
I like the format of how this book is written: a series of letters to which Greg replies in an amusing yet real way. Read more
Published 9 months ago by Noelle Nouneh
5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent and insightful!
It is a humorous way to be honest with yourself regarding relationships, is relatable and very easy to read. I even bought multiple copies to give away to my girlfriends! Read more
Published 10 months ago by B. Lyons
5.0 out of 5 stars Present for every woman.
I watched the Opera show and immediately got attracted by Greg's thoughts.
This book is worth at least $1,000, because the time and effort I spent on the wrong guy should have... Read more
Published 12 months ago by LIZZ
5.0 out of 5 stars Very Entertaining, True and Even a Little Enlightening.
I bought this book because the movie made me laugh. It was worth reading. Even in relationships that you think are going well, this book can help you start demanding what you... Read more
Published 19 months ago by P.S.
5.0 out of 5 stars he just doesn't have an excuse anymore
Just stop!
Stop making excuses for the man.
Stop pretending his voicemail is not working!
Stop asking yourself why he's been so busy lately. Read more
Published 19 months ago by Marie-Claude Chenier
5.0 out of 5 stars Great advices and funny!
A must read book for all the girls :) Great inspiration, it will give you a big boost of a self confidence :)
Published 20 months ago by Monika
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