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  • Paperback: 114 pages
  • Publisher: Createspace (Feb. 15 2011)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1448673127
  • ISBN-13: 978-1448673124
  • Product Dimensions: 17 x 0.7 x 24.4 cm
  • Shipping Weight: 227 g
  • Average Customer Review: 4.5 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (2 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Bestsellers Rank: #545,008 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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I wrote this book because there was a long time of my life when I was very confused, frustrated and lonely. But soon after my divorce I spent 9 years dating, testing, experimenting, exploring, and learning about women and dating.Here's a painful truth: today's typical guy will never CHOOSE the woman he REALLY wants.Why? It's simple: most guys don't realize that you can LEARN about attraction, flirting, and sexual intimacy! Pain may be ahead for you if you choose to rethink your attitudes and beliefs about women, dating, attraction and relationships because changing your attitudes and behaviors is hard to do! We rarely allow ourselves to question our own beliefs, but that's EXACTLY what you have to do if you REALLY want to understand what makes women choose one guy over another... and it's NOT what you think.This is not a journey for the weak. Questioning what you take for granted and trying new things outside of your comfort zones just might be the hardest thing you can do, but I believe this capacity to change is what truly makes a man GREAT!And if you're brave enough to buy a book like this, then you're already on a journey that most men will never take.On this journey, you will no doubt encounter some surprises, like:
  • Nice guys without personal boundaries DO finish last;
  • Putting her on a pedestal will NOT get you the girl;
  • Tension IS necessary for attraction;
  • Dating is not all about her expectations; your expectations should count MORE to you;
  • Seduction is a FUN game of tug-of-war;
  • Body language and tone of voice constitute 93% of communication; what you actually say accounts for the other 7%;
  • Your self-esteem and life passions are tantamount to getting the girl;
  • A woman may reject or resist you BUT can still WANT you − you just have to know when to keep pursuing and when to move on.
If you want a new life with new women, then you must think and try new things. This book is all about you rewriting your beliefs and attitudes and adopting new behaviors. If you want to succeed with women, and learn some new life lessons along the way, read on!

About the Author

Robert Belland is a Multimedia Specialist and Entrepreneur who currently resides in Edmonton, Canada.

He currently spends half his time running and managing his successful NewMedia company BOBAIR MEDIA Inc. while also trying to help his fellow man with the mysteries and frustrations of women and dating.

He was encouraged to write his first book IGNORE and SCORE from the many readers of his weekly Dating Advice blog:

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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful By Jay Olyan on April 10 2013
Format: Kindle Edition
I read this book shortly after suffering through a tough divorce. It got me to look at me in a different way and then from there I got to looking at everyone in a different way. It got me into a better mindset as I waded back into the dating pool for the first time in years, and it helped me regain some of the confidence I lost.

I would recommend this to anyone, single or married, it's got some great insight that you can use as a starting point with someone new or to re-attract your wife all over again.
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful By Ryan Rantz on Oct. 21 2013
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lots of good information in the book , I just need to figure out how to put it to use in real life and get the girls I want to date
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28 of 36 people found the following review helpful
Ignore the title. It's a guide to understanding yourself and the dynamics of dating... NOT about "how to score" with women. Sept. 16 2011
By M. Butler - Published on
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This is truly an excellent book. I just got out of a long-term relationship and was literally shooting myself in the foot when trying to meet girls. Despite being a good guy with good intentions, I kept letting myself get in the way of my dating life. My buddy actually bought this book for me and told me I needed to check it out. At first I was hesitent because I didn't want to change who I am to get lucky with women... but that is not what this book is about at all. Since reading and applying this book to my life, I am more confident, have more success with women, and am happier with who I am. Excellent work!

Despite the misleading title, this book is NOT about manipulating women. It about understanding not only the dynamics of dating, but also about understanding ourselves. What he really means by "ignore" is not to ignore the girl, but to ignore the things in ourselves that are stopping men from being unsuccessful with women - things like insecurities, fears, and low self-esteem. He makes it clear how these will hinder any relationship we want to have. Understanding ourselves is the first step. He also explains the dynamics of dating and attraction. Just like learning social skills necessary at work for success, this book explains how do to the same thing when trying to meet women. So many guys, especially good guys, get in the way of actually meeting women. This book teaches how to be yourself and still have success with women.

What this book ISN'T is how to manipulate and trick girls into getting into bed with you. If that's what you're looking for, then this book isn't for you. If you want to learn to improve yourself, enjoy dating more, and feel more confident about yourself and with women, then this is a great place to start.

Also check out his website at "". It has a lot of useful information. And just like the title of his book, don't be tricked by the title. "Full of hate" isn't referring to what you think it is.
11 of 13 people found the following review helpful
It's OK Feb. 24 2013
By Nash - Published on
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This book is one of the examples of someone taking an idea that can be vocalized in one-two paragraphs and making a book from it. There is a ton of books written on the subject. One thing the author does not take into consideration is the initial attraction factor: not-so-good-looking guys stand no chance in a gorgeous women even listening for a single word that comes out of their mouths. In my opinion this book targets guys who have their charm, who were in many relationships but now the time has come for them to beef up the game and stakes and diversify your portfolio of women conquered. As I said, this book is not for all guys.
2 of 2 people found the following review helpful
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By Robert Lucci - Published on
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Ignore your doubts, and score a new idea! I cannot say whether or not this book has or has not help me, because I am still not in a relationship, but I must say that the book get you thinking about your past and it helps you to understand why bad things happened and to move on from the past and look forward to a new start.
18 of 26 people found the following review helpful
Forget Ross Jefferies, Forget Double your dating, Want to Really learn the Secret? Feb. 27 2011
By Mike Masters - Published on
Format: Kindle Edition
My name is Mike Masters and I am the author of multiple books on relationships for both men and women. I sell a ton of books on amazon and I am so happy to see Robert Belland finally doing the same with his excellent material.

I have read 90% of the PUA material out there, including a lot of the tripe online for "$99 bucks today only!" if you didn't know already it, this garbage is simply regurgitated concepts from the old masters. Whom I might add, are really not all that impressive anymore. I thought 15 years after the rise of D your D that someone new MUST rise from the ashes of the burnt out PUA mess and teach us something exceptional. Didn't happen, not for a hell of a long time. Until...

Rob is the newly evolved PUA, not a guy that thieves a woman's ego in order to get the fleeting prize of a night with her. Rob is a decent guy, the guy who most guys wish they could become. Rob has mastered how to get the girl and comfortably face himself in the mirror. How is this possible? because Rob understands that you CAN be a moral, honest guy and still get laid like Wilt Chamberlain.

I am a relationship expert, and I am extremely good at what I do, with that said, Rob's book, INS actually taught me something. So much so, that I seriously read the book twice... strait... It has been so long that someone taught me something new I was riveted. Not only did he teach me but he made me wish I wrote his book! I hate Rob for making this better than I could have done. I hate him for really really really getting it.

Obviously I don't hate Rob but I think you get the point that this book truly is rare, INS will put together in an extremely clear way, what you are doing wrong, what you need to be doing and how to do it. The best part is, you won't have lingering feelings of self loathing because you have PUA'ed a woman in to bed.

INS is far better than double your dating, the A game, The game, and it KILLS the mystery method. Please go ahead and buy those other books, but if you really want to understand, this is the place, this is the book and only 4.99 for relationship Nirvana? Guys this is a no brainer and a trigger you shouldn't hesitate to pull. (BTW, it is 4.99 right now but undoubtedly as Rob's sales go up so will the price)

I am Mike Masters, author of Textappeal, Facebook Dating, from Ex to Next and soon to come, "The Way of the Moral Manwhore"

P.S. You would be committing mild relationship suicide if everyone read this book but you, make the choice to lead, not follow.
2 of 2 people found the following review helpful
GOT TO READ Feb. 27 2014
By bill smith - Published on
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