From the Author
I wrote this book because there was a long time of my life when I was very confused, frustrated and lonely. But soon after my divorce I spent 9 years dating, testing, experimenting, exploring, and learning about women and dating.Here's a painful truth: today's typical guy will never CHOOSE the woman he REALLY wants.
Why? It's simple: most guys don't realize that you can LEARN about attraction, flirting, and sexual intimacy! Pain may be ahead for you if you choose to rethink your attitudes and beliefs about women, dating, attraction and relationships because changing your attitudes and behaviors is hard to do! We rarely allow ourselves to question our own beliefs, but that's EXACTLY what you have to do if you REALLY want to understand what makes women choose one guy over another... and it's NOT what you think.This is not a journey for the weak.
Questioning what you take for granted and trying new things outside of your comfort zones just might be the hardest thing you can do, but I believe this capacity to change is what truly makes a man GREAT!And if you're brave enough to buy a book like this, then you're already on a journey that most men will never take.On this journey, you will no doubt encounter some surprises, like:
- Nice guys without personal boundaries DO finish last;
- Putting her on a pedestal will NOT get you the girl;
- Tension IS necessary for attraction;
- Dating is not all about her expectations; your expectations should count MORE to you;
- Seduction is a FUN game of tug-of-war;
- Body language and tone of voice constitute 93% of communication; what you actually say accounts for the other 7%;
- Your self-esteem and life passions are tantamount to getting the girl;
- A woman may reject or resist you BUT can still WANT you − you just have to know when to keep pursuing and when to move on.
If you want a new life with new women, then you must think and try new things. This book is all about you rewriting your beliefs and attitudes and adopting new behaviors. If you want to succeed with women, and learn some new life lessons along the way, read on!
About the Author
Robert Belland is a Multimedia Specialist and Entrepreneur who currently resides in Edmonton, Canada.
He currently spends half his time running and managing his successful NewMedia company BOBAIR MEDIA Inc. while also trying to help his fellow man with the mysteries and frustrations of women and dating.
He was encouraged to write his first book IGNORE and SCORE from the many readers of his weekly Dating Advice blog: FullofHateAndReadyToDate.com