How to Get the Girl - Ignore and Score [Paperback]

This is truly an excellent book. I just got out of a long-term relationship and was literally shooting myself in the foot when trying to meet girls. Despite being a good guy with good intentions, I kept letting myself get in the way of my dating life. My buddy actually bought this book for me and told me I needed to check it out. At first I was hesitent because I didn't want to change who I am to get lucky with women... but that is not what this book is about at all. Since reading and applying this book to my life, I am more confident, have more success with women, and am happier with who I am. Excellent work!

Despite the misleading title, this book is NOT about manipulating women. It about understanding not only the dynamics of dating, but also about understanding ourselves. What he really means by "ignore" is not to ignore the girl, but to ignore the things in ourselves that are stopping men from being unsuccessful with women - things like insecurities, fears, and low self-esteem. He makes it clear how these will hinder any relationship we want to have. Understanding ourselves is the first step. He also explains the dynamics of dating and attraction. Just like learning social skills necessary at work for success, this book explains how do to the same thing when trying to meet women. So many guys, especially good guys, get in the way of actually meeting women. This book teaches how to be yourself and still have success with women.

What this book ISN'T is how to manipulate and trick girls into getting into bed with you. If that's what you're looking for, then this book isn't for you. If you want to learn to improve yourself, enjoy dating more, and feel more confident about yourself and with women, then this is a great place to start.

Also check out his website at "fullofhateandreadytodate.com". It has a lot of useful information. And just like the title of his book, don't be tricked by the title. "Full of hate" isn't referring to what you think it is.

I can't fix my mistakes with a girl with more text messages, or new techniques, or with better words. I can't fix my outer game issues with more outer game tricks - I need to fix my inner game first. And I can't chase women and pretend to be surprised when they run away.

Instead I can overcome the fears I have approaching women I find really attractive without feeling stupid or angry. I can meet new women and enjoy talking with them without needing to get their number at the end. I can choose to feel certain ways about myself without needing constant validation from women or friends or family. I've learned that self respect comes from respecting myself.

I've learned that being insecure but open and sincere is attractive, while being guarded and insecure prevents women from truly connecting with me and how to fix that within myself. I've learned that women are empathic and that their chemistry with me is greatly influenced by my unspoken inner beliefs, understandings and feelings. I've learned new ways to take responsibility for my inner game, new ways to meet and approach the girls I meet, and where to get more dating advice online.

Overall I'm a much happier guy, I've already improved my dating life, and therefore I highly recommend this book to others.

I really liked this book. I'm just getting back to the dating scene and this helped me get my frame of mind back on track. I'm not convincing her I'm worth her time; She needs to convince me that she's worth mine. The author has included some great sample conversations with insight and analysis as to what works and what doesn't. The chapters are thoughtfully organized and easy to read. I like to re-read a few key pages before I go out to meet a date for the first time.

Bottom line: Women have tons of resources for dating and self-improvement advice and they're not shy about using them. It's time that men do the same. This book will definitely help your dating life and your confidence in most social situations. I also enjoy supporting independent authors.