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How To Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk [Paperback]

A Faber
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Oct. 21 1999

Here is the bestselling book that will give you the know-how you need to be effective with your children.Enthusiastically praised by parents and professionals around the world, the down-to-earth, respectful approach of Faber and Mazlish makes relationships with children of all ages less stressful and more rewarding.

Recently revised and updated with fresh insights and suggestions, How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk is full of practical, innovative ways to solve common problems and build foundations for lasting relationships.


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"An exceptional work, not simply just another 'how to' bookAll parents can use these methods to improve the everyday quality of their relationships with their children." -- Fort Worth Star Telegram

"Faber and Mazlish are doing for parenting today what Dr. Spock did for our generation." -- Parent Magazine

"Practical, sensible, lucid the approaches Faber and Mazlish lay out are so logical you wonder why you read them with such a burst of discovery." -- Family Journal

"Will bring about more cooperation from children than all the yelling and pleading in the world." -- Christian Science Monitor

About the Author

Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish are internationally acclaimed, award-winning experts on adult-child communication. Both lecture nationwide, and their group workshop programs are used by thousands of groups throughout the world to improve communication between children and adults.


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16 of 17 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Best parenting book for frustrated parents Nov. 13 2003
Format:Paperback
My mother-in-law, who is a child psychologist, introduced me to this book. She's been using it for years in her practice. I have been irritated by other books that seem to talk exclusively about how to help children while ignoring parents' needs. This book has great real-life examples and doesn't come down on stressed out parents for getting angry or saying dumb things. Instead, it gives practical exercises and rules for helping your relationship. Some of them are hard to do. Habits are hard to change. But it has made a world of difference between me and my 3-year-old. I'm so glad to have read this book so early in her life. I think it will spare us some of the heartache my mother and I experienced, mostly due to poor communication skills.
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars Excellent Jan. 31 2012
By Sasha
Format:Paperback
Original book. The cartoons make the book an easy and quick read. Good information. The book covers many scenarios with your kids and provides insightfdul hints.
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Life-saving! Nov. 2 2010
Format:Paperback
I read chapter one in the morning before my 3-year-old son woke up and most of our problems were solved by lunchtime! I went from wondering why I became a mother to smooth sailing. I didn't realize that I was denying everything he said or thought because in my mind I was the reasonable adult and he was the difficult toddler and if he thinks that vegetables are gross then I'd have to correct him because he is wrong and they are healthy. After I began acknowledging his point of view with the techniques in the book, he seemed to trust me enough to listen to and cooperate with me, instead of resisting everything I told him to do because I was resisting and squashing all of his opinions. Great illustrative examples - it's my favourite parenting book ever.
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Always Thankful For This Book, Sept. 18 2010
By Reflection Haiku TOP 1000 REVIEWER
Format:Paperback
Children are like computers - they can do great things but they speak their own language. This book teaches parents how to talk to their kids by first listening and acknowledging children's feelings. This 7-chaptered book is packed with scenarios that parents can relate to, comic strips to keep readers motivated and simple assignments and techniques that deliver results. From the methods you will learn to avoid turning simple conversations into argument, learn how to engage children's willing cooperation, use alternatives to punishment, set firm limits with goodwill, and encourage children's autonomy. Difficult concepts made easy through their effective writing and the recommended exercises make practice art of parenting perfect. A life-saver to many families including my own, HOW TO TALK SO KIDS WILL LISTEN will benefit you and your family greatly. If you have more than one child, Faber and Mazlish's other book, SIBLING WITHOUT RIVALRY is also highly recommended.
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars An easy read, a difficult step May 14 2003
Format:Paperback
I have read this book from cover to cover several times - it's an easy read. But like chess - easy to learn, difficult to achieve mastery. Many of us need to learn methods to use in communication that were not modeled to us as children - a tough call. But with practice, this positive approach to communication will not only help you with your child, but with your spouse, your friends, co-workers, bosses, etc. As a friend, parent and educator, I've given this book away numerous times (and bought it numerous times!)
As for the first review above concerning the particular feedback "You must be so proud of yourself"... In using those words, you also acknowledge your positive feelings towards the child - a double whammy because children learn how to reflect on their own behaviour and give themselves the kudos they may not get in "real life".
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful
By A Customer
Format:Paperback
I see my son only 3-4 times per year but talk regularly with him, his mother, and stepfather regarding parenting issues. I've used this book for input into the telephone discussions we have. I've strongly encouraged his mother and stepfather to read and periodically review this important book. Our sixteen year old son is flexing his teen oats. We need to constantly work to find positive, growth-oriented solutions for and make him aware of the consequences of the negative situations he finds himself in. This book helps immensely.
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3 of 4 people found the following review helpful
3.0 out of 5 stars Not enough in this March 25 2010
By RenLady
Format:Paperback
I think that the communication ideas in this book are great for both children and adults. However, they can apply only to children who are old enough to have some ability to reason. Despite what authors of this type of program claim, you simply can't usually have a problem-solving discussion with a two-year old. Also, I was frustrated by the way the authors seem to think that if you just use the right words, your child will be able to discuss a solution to a problem and be happy about it. There is no advice for what to do in situations that are truly non-negotiable, or what to do if your child continues to be upset after trying these methods.

A book that explains better how to talk to your kids, and what to do when it isn't working, is "Connected Parenting" by Jennifer Kolari.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent book! Feb. 4 2014
Format:Paperback|Verified Purchase
This is the most pratical and helpful book on parenting that I have come across! It's easy to read and the real life examples are excellent! I bought this book for my family and friends just to keep on hand! I would recommend it to anyone interested in becoming a good communicater with children! Thanks! Denise Pressman
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5.0 out of 5 stars Good book
Good approach, quite same concept with the sibling book. Respect the child and the child learn how to respect you and the others. It is very helpful.
Published 4 months ago by Mama Cat
5.0 out of 5 stars Great Book - For Relating to Children and Other Adults!
Worth a Read! This book talks about empathy and relating to people in a way that shows you are actually listening. It also encourages children to think and to problem solve. Read more
Published 6 months ago by Oreosncream
5.0 out of 5 stars This is a "rock" for parents!
This book is a foundational "rock" for parents, especially new ones.
The information is simple, practical, wise, tested by time and research, and
when you're done... Read more
Published 6 months ago by Great Blue Heron
5.0 out of 5 stars love, love LOVE
love this book and would recommend to any parent with children of any age! Really helps you view yourself and situations from your child perspective.
Published 9 months ago by Charlene Ramer
5.0 out of 5 stars Passing it forward!
I bought this book 30 years ago when my kids were small and I was tearing my hair out!! It was an eye opening experience. Read more
Published 12 months ago by R. Wiener
4.0 out of 5 stars Good advice
So far I think this is a different perspective on how to talk to children and I think it's a very respectful and thoughtful approach. Read more
Published 14 months ago by Dobes Vandermeer
5.0 out of 5 stars Great book
Very helpful in teaching English to new Chinese immigrants.
Helps one be a better listener
Good for all ages.
Easy to understand.
Cartons are so helpful.
Published 14 months ago by Sid Harrison
4.0 out of 5 stars Worth Reading
This is definitely a book you want to read prior to having trouble. I identified many, many things that I was doing and saying that would have negative implications later. Read more
Published 16 months ago by Alison from Calgary
5.0 out of 5 stars every parents bible
This book gives parents a different perspective on how a child thinks, what s/he is really saying and how to reply. Read more
Published 21 months ago by Emmie
1.0 out of 5 stars Silly dialogue, couldn't finish it
I had a hard time getting through this book. I am so sick of these so called "experts" dictating parental/child relationships on an adult communicative level. Read more
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