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Coloroso urges parents to teach children to take responsibility for their actions.
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Barbara Coloroso's philosophy of parenting supports the idea that using a combination of compassion and respect when disciplining a child will teach limits without damaging the child's or the parent's self-esteem. Throughout the six tapes, Coloroso tackles some of the most difficult topics, from how to teach a toddler the meaning of "no," to handling a troublesome teen. Coloroso's voice and presentation are comforting and easy to listen to. She manages to deliver eight hours of advice without "preaching" her philosophy, making her message palatable and successful. E.W.S. (c)AudioFile, Portland, Maine --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

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5.0 out of 5 stars Critics are missing the point -- read the book!, Feb 17 2001

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Having just heard Ms. Coloroso speak, I can say with certainty that her critics here online who claim she teaches kids new-age ideas and is anti-family discipline are wrong. Her emphasis is emphatically on teaching kids to be respectful of themselves, people in authority, and their communities. She says that if you teach kids to do what you say just because you say so, they'll grow up to do what people in their peer groups do because they can't think for themselves. But you're still the parent and the one who draws the line in matters of security, morality, and legality. One of her shorthand references shows the differences between punishment and discipline. Her idea of discipline is to show kids what they've done wrong, and give them ways to solve the problems they've created, but allow them to keep their dignity. If your idea of traditional discipline involves shaming children when they make honest mistakes or "explaining" decisions by saying, "Because I said so, that's why," then she's not your kind of disciplinarian. But if you want to teach your children to think for themselves so that they can grow up to be less influenced by their peer groups and work well with other people at home and in their communities, her theories are worth a look. And as for the London reader who says the book is "Typically American," I suggest that person spend some time familiarizing himself or herself with the styles of parenting that actually prevail in this country. If her attitude were typically American, there'd be no need for this book.

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3.0 out of 5 stars Good and bad, Jan 26 2009

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The main message in this book as I remember it is:

If a situation is not immoral, unhealthy or life threatening, let it be!
If your kids screw up, give them responsibility of the problem by letting find a solution for themselves.

This is good advice indeed. Teach the kids how to be responsible for their actions and hopefully, make better choices.

The author divides families in 3 categories. The Jellyfish and brickwall families have the wrong approach according to this book. I did not think that it was useful to tell us how the jellyfish and brickwall parents will react to situations in every chapters. After a few examples, you get the point. Repeating how the Jellyfish and brickwall parents would react to a situation over and over again is bothersome. The backbone families have the right approach. This is what parents are intested in. The book could have been much shorter by skipping the repetition.

Too much repetition but good message overall. Still worth reading.

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2.0 out of 5 stars Good points at times, but poor results..., Aug 1 2000

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My twin sister shared this book with me four years ago after meeting Ms. Coloroso at a conference. She, my sister, felt that her life had been transformed by their conversation and by the content of the book. I read it and found that there were some good points regarding conflict resolution and on managing my own responses as we all strive to live harmoniously together. For the most part, I found the rest of the book to be quite forgettable. My approach to parenting is perhaps closer to the brickwall example, although I have only spanked one of my children more than once. Those VERY rare occasions made a strong impression Meanwhile my sister keeps two copies of this book at hand and referrs to it often. Her three children, whom I love dearly, are peevish, demanding, untrustworthy and unfriendly. Her oldest daughter is six years old and is given to screaming tantrums on the floors of restaurants and gorcery stores. I have five children, and have never experienced with my children what they endure on a daily basis. I have often wished I could save them from the influence of this book. And my sisters husband asks us for advice on child rearing constantly

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5.0 out of 5 stars Kids Are Worth It! ... is worth it!
It wasn't as a parent I learned about this book, but when I began studying classroom management at University. It is a very good read whether you are a parent or teacher. Lisez davantage

Published 21 months ago by M. McFadden

3.0 out of 5 stars Labels may not be the healthiest course
"Kids Are Worth It!" Is a catchy title and an easy read. However, as a parent I am cautious about fully embracing Barbara Coloroso's approach. Lisez davantage

Published on Sep 11 2006 by Jefferson

4.0 out of 5 stars All parents should read this book.
Barbara lists the different type of parents, and gives examples of eahc.
There is the Jellyfish family
The brickwall family
and the back bone family. Lisez davantage

Published on April 16 2005 by DreamyDeppMama

5.0 out of 5 stars anything from Barbara is excellent
GREAT, GREAT, GREAT book. Barbara is my favorite author. I even saw her speak at a charity event when she was in our city and she is the best one to follow for the PROPER way to... Lisez davantage

Published on Feb 13 2003 by Tania

5.0 out of 5 stars Author is authentic and knows how it really feels!
Reading this book has been like a breathe of fresh air! Ms. Coloroso actually describes the pain, the struggles, the challenges, and the embarrassments one as an actual, REAL... Lisez davantage

Published on Jan 30 2002 by Leticia Araujo Perez

3.0 out of 5 stars Some wise advise but too schematic and disordered
I write this review under the assumption that any parent who reads this book is because it is interested in the well being of his/her children, and indeed you will goo through a... Lisez davantage

Published on Jan 13 2002 by Juan Carlos Uribe

4.0 out of 5 stars Great philosophy
I really agree with Barbara Coloroso's parenting philosophy and was fortunate enough to actually hear her speak. Lisez davantage

Published on Oct 31 2001 by Laura M.

1.0 out of 5 stars Incomplete and speculative
After reading more than a dozen parenting books, I find this one the most contrived and least organized so far. Lisez davantage

Published on Jun 19 2001 by Derrick R. Bell

5.0 out of 5 stars By far the best parenting book I have ever read
Barbara Coloroso is right on target. This book has helped me understand and respect my son more. Yes, I am still the adult and he the child but I know that I will be able to raise... Lisez davantage

Published on Mar 17 2001 by CleeC

3.0 out of 5 stars Good philosophical ideas but...
...short on practical ideas. A good "overview" of the typical types of families (Strict/Lenient/Democratic) but once I know what category I fit in I'd like more concrete... Lisez davantage

Published on Dec 22 2000

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