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The Lady, the Chef, and the Courtesan (Hardcover)

by Marisol (Author) "Magic first entered Pilar's life on the day of her grandmother's funeral ..." (more)
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When Chicago journalist Pilar Castillo returns to her native Venezuela for her beloved grandmother Gabriela's funeral, she and her mother are shocked to see a man they do not know at the service. Who is he, and why does no one in the close-knit family recognize him? The answers lie in a packet of Gabriela's diaries, her legacy to Pilar. Divided into sections corresponding to the South American proverb that a woman must be a lady in the living room, a chef in the kitchen and a courtesan in the bedroom, Gabriela's writings encourage her granddaughter to follow her heart and be true to her passions, and tell the story of Gabriela's own failure to do so by ceding to her wealthy father's wishes, forsaking her true love and marrying the man society dictates she must. Pilar herself is wavering between two suitors-the dashing Rafael, her family's choice, and Patrick, her irreverent photographer boyfriend in the States. Pilar's and Gabriela's stories are markedly different in tone and quality. While Gabriela's story is musical and sensually written, painting an enticing picture of Venezuelan society in the '40s and '50s, Pilar's is heavy-handed and clumsy, patiently explaining her culture as if to somewhat dim-witted readers-the priest comes to dinner "in keeping with a common practice in some South American homes"; Pilar has onyx eyes, "a common trait in Venezuelan women"; the differences between America and Venezuela lie "beneath the surface" and one cannot "grasp [them] merely by watching television." The past/present framing of the story is ungainly but, like the mangoes that provide the impetus for Gabriela's supremely erotic final chapter, the sweetness is within.
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Pilar has arrived home for her grandmother's funeral in Venezuela, a far cry from the liberating winds of Chicago, where her career and the man she has left behind are sweet reminders of the freedom she has found in the U.S. At home, the obligations of a woman in her social class still remain, and Pilar greets her former intended, a man of means and importance, with apprehension as the pressure from her family to marry him mounts. Pilar's grandmother has left her a legacy of diaries, and their timing could serve to save Pilar from the hollowness of social decorum. The diaries' shocking secrets unwrap the mysteries of the corset and the dainty magnetism that shapes the allure of the South American lady. Social diction, the joys of the palette, and heart-pounding intimacies in the privacy of the bedroom suite enrich this novel with luscious sensuality, dripping with the erotic fruits of passion and the ancient art of being a woman. Elsa Gaztambide
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4.0 out of 5 stars the lady, the chef, the courtesean, Jun 18 2004
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I chose this book for our book club because of a review I read in the Denver Post and information about the author. I truly enjoyed this book because I have had such a special relationship with my grandmother, and this book captured a real essence of our special times together. I know that this will "insult" a lot of women, but it is so important to truly love and honor the man that you chose to spend your life with. This novel put this into perspective for me. No matter what our cultures are, it is important to keep "those secrets" within the confines of our homes. I loved this book!
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3.0 out of 5 stars Not sure what to think..., Mar 25 2004
By Kristin Lewis (Madison, WI United States) - See all my reviews
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I'm not entirely sure what to think about this book; some of it seems to be shallow and objectify women, but I think it slightly redeems itself towards the end. The beginning few chapters really put me off to the book, since I disagree with many of the social views about women that were put forward. However, I understand the historical reference and how women existed in those days, yet it still didn't sit too well.

I was surprised by the graphic and explicit sexual detail. I expected some, but some of this here seemed out of place - almost added in un-necessarily.

In spite of all this, I think I began to enjoy it toward the end. Gabriela's story of love and loss is amazing, and one I think can learn from. You need to be true to your heart, and live your life according to your wishes, not the wishes friends and family impose on you. In addition to being eloquently told, it flows quickly; due to the way it's told, you don't feel too bogged down with extraneous words and it's tone is conversational - all words from a grandmother to her niece. This book also makes it easy to feel with the characters. You mourn for Gabriela and you yearn for Pilar to find what she wants and make the right decisions. So in all, I think it's a great story, but bits of it are wrapped in shallow fluff.

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5.0 out of 5 stars A Gift to All Women, Feb 25 2004
By Jill Moore (Houston, TX USA) - See all my reviews
Remember "I am woman hear me roar?" At a time when most of us women are confused about our roles in societey, comes "The Lady, The Chef, and The Courtesan," an outstanding celebration of femininity to shed some light into who we are.
Set both in Venezuela and Chicago, "The Lady..." recounts the story of three generations of South American women based on the diaries of Gabriela Grenales, the grandmother who passes the secrets of how to be the perfect wife, woman and lover to Pilar, her Venezuelan granddaughter, who now lives in Chicago. Both women face similar choices: doing what's expected of them, versus following their heart. What ensues is a passionate tale that beckons every woman to follow her heart and do what's right for her. "The Lady..." conjures a gentler version of feminism, a place in the middle where women can reclaim their femininity without giving up their roar. I highly recommend this elegantly written novel, especially if you feel caught in the middle, or are facing a tough choice.
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4.0 out of 5 stars Age-old feminine secrets, uncovered
There's something alluring and mysterious about South American women. They seem to possess a self-confidence and elegant beauty that makes them irresistible to men, and a complete... Read more
Published on Dec 31 2003 by Lacey Savage

3.0 out of 5 stars Wouldn't you like to receive a diary such as this one...
This one was different - haven't you ever wished you could ask your mother or grandmother questions about their lives, personal questions. Read more
Published on Dec 9 2003 by janlouise

4.0 out of 5 stars Marisol Has Written a Heartwarming Story
Who hasn't wished for the wisdom of the ages to be bestowed upon them in one fell swoop? Who hasn't thought that there must be some secret key that would make life easier, if only... Read more
Published on Nov 26 2003 by Bookreporter.com

4.0 out of 5 stars The Lady, the Chef, and the Courtesan by Marisol
I enjoyed the story line and the recipes and reading about traditions that differ from our country's. Read more
Published on Nov 25 2003 by Cat Fancy

5.0 out of 5 stars Amazing seductive book!
Marisol another of those one name personalities like Cher, Prince and Madonna. She has been a model, a banker, a belly dancer and various other professions in her life. Read more
Published on Oct 13 2003 by Deborah MacGillivray

5.0 out of 5 stars Mesmerizing!
I couldn't put this book down. This beautiful and mesmerizing account of South American rituals enthralled me from beginning to end. Read more
Published on Sep 20 2003 by CoffeeGurl

5.0 out of 5 stars Hot and spicy--true passionate love
Not only is the title terrific, but the content is beautifully written. This novel begins with Pilar,a contemporary woman living in Chicago who has gone back to her home country... Read more
Published on Sep 3 2003

5.0 out of 5 stars Outstanding, Highly recommended
This book is a must for woman who try to be all three of these things. It uses natural life experiences and puts you a world where you can relate to being torn between your... Read more
Published on Aug 20 2003 by Susan Begnaud

5.0 out of 5 stars You MUST Read this Book!
Wow! This is a mesmerizing, evocative and sensual tale of a time gone by, as well as time today. It's set in South America and the US, but its real territory is the heart. Read more
Published on Aug 19 2003

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