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Read with care, Jun 27 2002
As a career coach, I am always seeking books to recommend to clients and to use for my own growth. This book would not be one of them.
As another reader commented, there's not much new here. Richardson does not offer exciting new ways of looking at the world.
A number of Richardson's suggestions, such as extreme self-care and clutter-clearing, are included in Coach University's training program, and possibly in others. It is not clear whether Richardson developed those programs for CoachU or whether she is adapting those ideas for her book.
What's missing is a theoretical worldview that would explain WHY these ideas work. Authors like Martha Beck, Carolyn Myss, Julia Cameron and Rick Jarow have well-developed, thoughtful, original insights that frame their books. What we have here is a group of tips -- useful, but not meaty.
Each chapter concludes with a list of recommended books; however, some recommendations are not related to the chapter and some seem to miss the point (e.g., the recommendations for "focusing").
I'm disturbed by Richardson's recommendation to get a "well-trained experienced coach," followed by her listing of Coach University. Like many people, I responded to media hype when I sought a coach for myself. I looked up CoachU's referral lists and managed to find two CoachU graduates who had no idea what they were doing.
One self-styled business coach encouraged me to start a business without a plan, recommending a resource who turned out to be his relative.
Another, after praising me for weeks, admitted she would never discourage someone from pursuing a goal, even if she realized the client was walking into a wall. She believed her sole response should be, "That's wonderful!"
Neither CoachU nor the International Coach Federation has a disciplinary process or a way to remove coaches following a complaint. I'm not aware of academic or other prerequisites for attending a coaching school, other than the ability to produce a credit card. By appearing to endorse these organizations, Richardson endows them with a credibility that readers can misinterpret.
There ARE other coaching schools; however, in evaluating schools for myself, I have not identified any coaching school that is based on scientific and/or scholarly principles. What's taught is ideology, i.e., "principles" created by the founder, as well as a set of ad hoc techniques.
I believe coaches should be viewed as consultants -- you buy the person, not the training. Many coaches believe "get a coach" is a magic formula for success and become angry when any aspect of the field is questioned. CoachU's website proclaimed (last time I looked) that, "Coaching can do no harm." This belief is false. I've been harmed by bad coaches and doubt I'm the only one.
So read this book with a very large grain of salt! The tips aren't bad -- anyone who wants to change needs to take action, and Richardson offers some actions. Cheryl's experience is certainly applicable. I just wish she's clarify her position more rigorously.
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful
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UGH!!! For beginning beginners ONLY!, Mar 8 2001
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I am so happy that this book was [on sale] or I would have cried. It seems to me like an outline of what a good self-help book should be. It is supposed to be a 52 week program that helps you change your life. I suspect this would be really good for people who are really frazzled and disorganized and don't know where to begin making their lives better. But for people who have a good life and just a few aspects that need overhauling, this book is NOT WHERE IT IS AT! They ask you to write down all that you learned in the past year, then about all the good things about you. Next, they tell you to get rid of what is draining you (people, places, etc). Then, you should give yourself time "just for you" and start a good exercise program and take time for reflection, for sleep and for prayer. They tell you to remember to laugh and allow yourself to be bored. All the chapters are about 4 pages in length. That's hardly a chapter! There is a page at the end of each "chapter" that has some good resources-- (other books that are probably lightyears better than this one) I supppose it is a good springboard for people who never even thought about how to help themselves change their life one bit. But, if you must buy it, buy it at a discount or get it from the library. Or just stick to better books by better authors who aren't afraid of delving a little deeper and explaining more and actually helping more.
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For illiterate only, Nov 14 2000
Unfortunately, Oprah and her impossible to shift so called experts seem to address a non educated, non intelligent audience, exclusively. Say you have a light bulb moment just one time in your life, it should be the realization that Oprah shiny personality can't make up for the obvious and sad lack of depth of the books she chooses to promote on her show. This book however goes beyond shallowness. Nevertheless it deserves one star for finding 52 titles for a year long of supposed life changing revelations (one for every week). There is a page devoted to resources at the end of each chapter , hopefully one of them will bring you somewhere. If you are 18 years old or more and consider yourself an adult, command Oprah for having such a loyalty to her friend and go elswhere to get useful informations
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