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Lost Boys: Why Our Sons Turn Violent and How We Can Save Them [Paperback]

James Garbarino
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Aug 15 2000
"Remarkable--. What sets Lost Boys apart from the ordinary lament is the author's palpable sense of care and compassion."--The Washington Post Book World

In the past few years our national consciousness has been altered by haunting images of mass slaughters in American high schools, carried out by troubled young boys with guns. It's now clear that no matter where we live or how hard we try as parents, our children are likely to be going to school with boys who are capable of getting guns and pulling triggers. What has caused teen violence to spread from the urban war-zones of large cities right into the country's heartland? And what can we do to stop this terrifying trend?

James Garbarino, Ph.D., Cornell University professor and nationally noted psychologist, insists that there are things that we, both as individuals and as a society, can do. In a richly anecdotal style he outlines warning signs that parents and teachers can recognize, and suggests steps that can be taken to turn angry and unhappy boys away from violent action. Full of insight, vivid individual portraits, practical advice and considered hope, this is one of the most important and original books ever written about boys.


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Striking a sober but ultimately hopeful note, psychologist and Cornell University professor Garbarino (Raising Children in a Socially Toxic Environment) lends his voice to the growing chorus of concern about the difficulties boys face in their journey to manhood. We live in dangerous times, he asserts, citing the ready availability of guns (nearly half of all American households contain one) and the escalating rate of youth homicide (which increased 168% in the past decade alone). Noting that the highly publicized killings by children of the 19971998 school year have served as a kind of wake-up call, Garbarino devotes the first part of his book to examining the roots of violence among boys. He traces it to class and race issues, as well as risk factors such as child neglect, parental abandonment, physical and emotional abuse, spiritual emptiness and a culture that legitimizes violence in movies, television and video games. In the second half, he outlines how involved adults might prevent the downward spiral by identifying and treating patterns of aggression early in a boys life, and how providing the proper spiritual, psychological and social anchors can keep a troubled boy from drifting into violence. Garbarino effectively illustrates his points with stories of his own work with violent boys. Solidly researched and written, this book is of equal value to parents, educators, family therapists and other professionals. It could easily serve as a blueprint for preventing more tragedies like the ones in Jonesboro, Ark., and Springfield, Ore. 20-city TV and radio satellite tour.
Copyright 1999 Reed Business Information, Inc. --This text refers to the Hardcover edition.

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The school murder sprees of 1997-98 provide a backdrop for this inquiry into an "epidemic" of youthful male violence that has been worsening over the past 25 years. The bulk of the book is devoted to an analysis of the roots and meaning of lethal violence as revealed through interviews with perpetrators. Garbarino (human development, Cornell Univ.; Raising Children in a Socially Toxic Environment, Jossey-Bass, 1995) discusses these narratives in the context of statistical and psychological/ psychiatric research. Causative factors like abuse, gangs and codes of honor, substance abuse, neurological deficits, and school problems are considered from a social ecology perspective grounded in the work of Garbarino's mentor, Urie Bronfenbrenner. The book concludes with a catalog of strategies to combat boyhood violence. Solutions call for spiritual literacy as well as government action and research-based programs. Readable yet well documented and brimming with ideas, this book is recommended for larger public libraries and public policy collections.AAntoinette Brinkman, Southwest Indiana Mental Health Ctr. Lib., Evansville
Copyright 1999 Reed Business Information, Inc. --This text refers to the Hardcover edition.

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5.0 out of 5 stars Really good! May 26 2004
Format:Paperback
This book is great,it does not only inform you but it also makes you think. I have thought of how I've treated people and how hopefully I have not hurt anyone because I know that it might affect someone in the long run. I just hope more people would read this book and learn how important it is to not only hear about your childs day, but actually listen. Sometimes your own kid might have problems at school but you're too busy to pay attention, and when the school calls you to tell you your child has been "bad" you immediately start to think of punishments when you should start thinking of why they were "bad" and if there is anything you can do to help them.
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5.0 out of 5 stars solid research July 1 2002
Format:Paperback
The ability to get behind the eyes of troubled kids and see the world from their perspective is invaluable for anyone struggling to understand why kids find themselves in such situations. Dr Garbarino's book also validates the social programs created by schools to encourage the inclusion of everyone. I am already seeing a resurgence of school based student assistance programs and support group activities. Thanks for your meticulous effort. "Meticulous" is the right word, as these kids are not easy to reach. They have been socially "walled out" for so long that they have learned not to trust anyone. Anyone (parent, school staff or another student) who tries to connect will find that their communication structure takes alot of "wait time" and patience - just to make sense of what is being said. It is worth the wait.
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1.0 out of 5 stars Pop psyche trash April 8 2001
Format:Hardcover
Garbarino studies sociopathic boys,then purports to impose these "Lessons" on all of our sons. This doesn't answer questions posed by Columbine, etc., it exploits them, cashes in on them, and adds to the anti-boy, feminist hysteria that has come from them. Garbarino's not quite as bad as William Pollock, but it's time to shut these gibberish peddlers down.
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4.0 out of 5 stars An excellent book, though "The Scarred Heart" is better
This is an excellent book, though for my money Helen Smith's "The Scarred Heart: Understanding and Identifying Kids who Kill" is better -- or at least, more likely to be... Read more
Published on July 6 2000 by Glenn H. Reynolds
4.0 out of 5 stars Lost Boys
If you read only one book about the inner life of boys, this is it! Appalling, insightful, tragic & hopeful. Read more
Published on May 8 2000 by Rebecca Brown
1.0 out of 5 stars Dangerous Pop Psychology
Garbarino's work is poorly written, and apparently without the aid of an editor. Concepts and ideas are presented and then simply left hanging without elaboration. Read more
Published on Mar 31 2000 by John Crowley
5.0 out of 5 stars FROM THE MOM OF A CHILD NEARLY RUINED BY BEING A VICTIM
This book was a wonderful source of revelations on the reactive behaviour of a child who feels betrayed and abused by the educational system. My two negative comments are : 1... Read more
Published on Dec 26 1999 by Sharon (Mom)
5.0 out of 5 stars Garbarino erases misconceptions of youth violence and hatred
The book, Lost Boys, by Dr. James Garbarino, provides the reader with a personal perspective on male youth violence. Dr. Read more
Published on Nov 9 1999
5.0 out of 5 stars Very unusual, compassionate book
I've read a lot of books about lost boys, but I've seldom been as impressed as I was by this one. Unlike other experts, this author never gives up on a boy--even if he's sitting on... Read more
Published on Sep 22 1999 by Mary Ellen Johnson jacob@pcisys.net
5.0 out of 5 stars Must reading for policy makers
James Garbarino's book highlights the confusion that we instill in children when we make them responsible for their actions and don't accept our responsibility for their well... Read more
Published on July 21 1999
5.0 out of 5 stars A masterful blend of research and humanity
It is rare to find a world-class researcher that can write with clarity and passion. Dr. Garbarino is such a scholar. Read more
Published on July 9 1999 by andrew weaver
5.0 out of 5 stars An extradinary book by an extradinary man
For those who were surprised by the Littleton killings or any of the others...this book is for you. In 25 years of Social Work practice and education I have never seen a kinder or... Read more
Published on Jun 8 1999 by jodistr@aol.com
4.0 out of 5 stars Concise analysis of the causes of adolescent violence.
This book provides in its few, short pages, a complete and concise, yet very readable, analysis of the causes of youthful violence and tells what can be done - indeed, what must be... Read more
Published on May 31 1999 by David W. Aiken, MSW (dwaiken@usa.net)
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