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  • Paperback: 212 pages
  • Publisher: New World Library; 1 edition (July 25 2006)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1930722621
  • ISBN-13: 978-1930722620
  • Product Dimensions: 1.3 x 14 x 19 cm
  • Shipping Weight: 181 g
  • Average Customer Review: 5.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (1 customer review)
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A Fascinating, Compassionate Look at Death from an 80-year-old Industry Insider Aug. 29 2006
By Rachel Kramer Bussel - Published on Amazon.com
Format: Paperback
You might not expect a memoir by an eighty-year-old woman to deal with topics such as gang warfare, AIDS, racism, unplanned pregnancies, and feminism, but this one does. You also might not expect a book called Mortician Diaries to be anything but morbid, but Nadle possesses the gift of bringing her over 50-year-long career as a mortician and her lust for life to the page. She's the kind of woman who visits cemeteries when she travels, to see how different cultures treat the dead. She uses phrases like "death care industry" and urges readers to create a "dialogue on death," but never lapses into a cold, analytical account. Every page is bursting with humanity, with people who are learning how to grieve in their own way. This book is as much about psychology as it is about death.

June Nadle's Mortician's Diaries offer a rare, heartfelt, and wonderfully honest insight into the "highlights" of the career of a lifelong mortician, capturing some of the most emotionally intense and interesting stories from her years working with death. The grandmotherly Nadle doesn't shy away from the subject, and encourages her readers to openly confront and discuss death, not in an obsessive, morbid way, but to gain closure and be as prepared as possible when the time comes, even though sometimes death catches us anawares. She offers case studies, such as an elderly woman who planned every detail of her own funeral to the story of a mother clinging to her newly-dead baby, unable to accept his death despite the blood soaking his tiny body, until Nadle speaks to her mother to mother and allows her to see that her older children also need her to be present for them. Nadle does not judge her clients, but offers psychological insights into why denial rears its head and how natural it is. In "The Mother Who Risked Her Life to Grieve," Nadle tells of one service, after a gang-related drive-by shooting, that's interrupted by bullets, and the following day the trip to the ceremony is made along with patrol cars flanking the mourners.

Her case studies are fascinating, and showcase a wide swath of humanity, across cultures and relationships. Friends, lovers, husbands, wives, parents, and children mourn for those they've lost as well as grapple with their sometimes conflicted relationships with the deceased. Nadle allows each of them to work their way toward mourning rather than pushing a socially-approved agenda or timeline onto them. She handles each one with dignity and compassion, and clearly attempts to understand the often-painful mix of emotions the bereaved feel.

As someone who's always tried to escape talking about death, especially when it comes to my most loved ones, I welcomed Nadle's approach. She has seen deaths of humans and animals, often under horrific, or simply human, circumstances, and offers a brief glimpse into her wisdom and, most of all, her heart. By reading of the many who did not appreciate their loved ones during life, whether the parents who shunned their gay sons who later died of AIDS, or the father who berated his little girl for, well, not being a boy, only regretting this when she was killed by a passing car at age four, to the father who sent his 17-year-old pregnant daughter away and made her feel ashamed, one gains an appreciation for one's own family. Nadle reminds us that it's not just life versus death, but about the quality of one's life that matters. She writes: "As humans, we have the unique ability to pause, to reflect, to acknowledge life, and to be reminded of our own mortal natures. In addition to our grief, death brings us the opportunity to reassess our own lives as well as our relationships so we can vow (maybe again) to make changes we see are needed." She offers various examples of how funerals can be conducted and the value they provided to the surviving family and friends.

Though this book will most likely bring tears to your eyes, it's not solemn or overly sad, but instead is about, as she would have it, a celebration of life and all that's in it.
24 of 25 people found the following review helpful
Thought provoking Jan. 9 2007
By C. Packer - Published on Amazon.com
Format: Paperback
June has a wonderful way of presenting the intriguing stories then briefly discussing the significance of the experience. Through her stories she discusses teaching children about death, forgiving the dead, forgiving yourself after a loved one has died, stages of grief, and looking at death realisticly rather than with fear. Some stories are comical, some are heart-wrenching, and others are eye-opening. My husband and I read this book together and really enjoyed it! Thanks June!
13 of 14 people found the following review helpful
Thank you June Nadle Dec 30 2006
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Excellently written book. Written with love, compassion, and a deep understanding of love, life, and death. A must read for anyone and everyone!
4 of 4 people found the following review helpful
It's an OK and quick read Sept. 1 2010
By VintageCatLady - Published on Amazon.com
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I have to agree with a couple of the other reviews.. sometimes seemed like the author writing a book about what a good person she is in the various cases she has dealt with. After each story she gives insight.. or translates what we are supposed to come away with after reading the story. I think I would have rather come to my own conclusions. It's a nice, short read though.. stories you would expect when dealing with grieving people who have lost a loved one.
2 of 2 people found the following review helpful
Hm ... Dec 25 2010
By Knowledge Contagion - Published on Amazon.com
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It's difficult to criticize a book like this because it's a memoir, but I was expecting more. The cover is what drew me to the book because it led me to believe that the author would saturate her memories with personality. I found that this wasn't the case. I feel that it lacked depth and personality. I would have liked to have learned why she decided to become a mortician and I probably would have been more interested in her life (which she gives the reader a glimpse of) than the people and families that stood out during her career. I found it hard to connect with her on an emotional level because she didn't really offer much in that department.

But it seems like her goal in writing this book was to hopefully educate people about the need to talk about death and sort out their final wishes before they die so as not to leave it all to their loved ones when they're least capable of dealing with such issues. I really hope she has succeeded in this goal.

If reading memoirs along this line is what you're interested in, I highly recommend Amber Lenore Winckler's The Final Bath (which I've read and enjoyed) and its sequel, Into the Hands of Strangers (which I plan on reading soon). She definitely lets her personality shine through and I felt it was easier to connect with her and her characters. She really gives the reader a good view of what it's like to be in what June Knights Nadle lovingly referred to as the "death care industry."


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