It would be a crime against art and cinema if this beautiful film were ever given the Hollywood treatment. Sometimes, I include this in my prayers at night - seriously.
Being European, this movie proceeds at what seems like the usual gentle pace, but boy, does a lot ever happen! This is a tribute to the screenplay, direction and editing, all superb and deserving of that Oscar. Willeke van Ammelrooy is a goddess, her performance subtle, strong, enrapting.
I also must differ with the Amazon review about the men in the movie. Watching it again confirmed the opposite for me. Just like the female characters, they are flawed, subtle, complex, and very central to all the many individual stories. At times, it's as if the viewer is seeing these stories from the point of view of every character involved - miraculous.
I have but one small criticism, regarding the typical overly precocious, wise-beyond-her-tender-years grand-daughter character - just a bit too cliched & saccharine. The young actress is quite competent, though, as child actors go.
Even after many viewings, from first frame to last, I find this movie delightful, visually and emotionally panoramic, reaffirming - fulfilling.