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Persuasion: The Art of Getting What You Want [Hardcover]

Dave Lakhani
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"Dave has exposed the secrets of the most powerful persuaders in the world. This book is a step-by-step guide to changing minds and deeply influencing people in person, in print, on the air, or anyplace else you need to persuade. This book makes persuasion so easy and predictable that it may be the most dangerous persuasion book ever written . . . especially if it ends up in the hands of your competition."
—Mike Litman, CEO, Connect To Success, Inc. and coauthor of Conversations with Millionaires

"Dave Lakhani tells you everything you've just got to know about persuasion in this book. It is written provocatively, yet clearly. And it is sure to open your mind while enriching your bank account. I highly recommend it. Fasten your seatbelt when you read it. It takes you on a thrilling ride!"
—Jay Conrad Levinson, "The Father of Guerrilla Marketing" and author of the Guerrilla Marketing series of books

"Dave Lakhani understands persuasion like few do and is able to break the process down so anyone can understand and use it. I highly recommend this book to anyone who hopes to improve their ability to sell, market, advertise, or negotiate."
—Chet Holmes, Fortune 500 superstrategist and author of the Mega Marketing, Business Growth Masters, and Guerrilla Marketing Meets Karate Master sales programs

"Man, talk about persuasive. Dave convinced me to read and review his book, and I don't even like the guy."
—Blaine Parker, author of Million-Dollar Mortgage Radio

"Too few books actually put into practice what they promote. Dave Lakhani breaks the mold with this satisfying, powerful read."
—John Klymshyn, author of Move the Sale Forward

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Did you know that the outcome of most persuasive events is determined before you ever say a word?

You may know how to sell, but you were probably never taught how to persuade. In this book, persuasion expert Dave Lakhani breaks down the persuasion process into easy-to-use steps. You'll learn not only how to persuade, but the biology and psychology behind persuasion.

In business, persuasion is key to every aspect of sales, marketing, and negotiations. This book reveals today's most effective persuasion techniques for business professionals. While it focuses on the business arena, these principles of persuasion can easily be successfully applied in your personal life.

Though the techniques are similar, Lakhani draws a hard line between persuasion and manipulation, with the primary distinction being intent. True persuasion is based in truth, honesty, inquisitiveness, and the ability to tell a powerful story and to meet the expectations of those you're trying to persuade. Good persuasion is a practiced art—a carefully orchestrated dance between you and the person you are persuading.

In Persuasion, Lakhani teaches you the steps in that delicate dance, showing you how to apply proven persuasive principles to common business challenges. Inside you'll find:

  • A map for the persuasive process, from beginning to end
  • A set of persuasion tools and a blueprint for using them
  • Seventeen specific persuasion tactics designed to instantly persuade
  • The Persuasion Equation
  • The Six Tenets of Persuasion
  • Steps for becoming a persuasion expert in just thirty days
  • Quick Persuaders— tools you'll master and useevery day

The book itself is exceptionally persuasive. It uses hard science to support its theories, citing the opinions of noted neuroscientists, psychologists, and influence professionals and features examples of persuasion at work in sales, copywriting, advertising, negotiations, and personal interactions. It shows you how to persuade your audience in small, simple steps that proceed to the desired result. Because today's prospects are sophisticated and technologically savvy, there's information on tech-savvy persuasion methods for use with Web sites, in blogs or teleseminars, or by Podcasting to a targeted audience. Learn exactly how to get your message through the electronic clutter facing decision makers today.

If you've been successful, you've probably intuitively used some of these persuasion techniques before, but this book will mentor you through a dramatic increase in your ability to persuade. Imagine how successful you'll be when you know how to strategically layer on tactic after tactic to methodically and effectively break down natural resistance, increase the emotions of acceptance and desire, and move the prospect to the right outcome—the outcome you desire.


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4.0 out of 5 stars Break it down and make it useful., Sep 7 2006
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John D. Hollingsworth (Sarnia, ON, Canada) - See all my reviews
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This review is from: Persuasion: The Art of Getting What You Want (Hardcover)
Dave takes the nebulous concept of persuasion and breaks it down so that the butcher, the baker, the candlestick maker and YOU can understand and apply everything easily.

Dave's writing style is very conversational and engaging. I found myself several chapters into it before I came up for air!

There are few books on my bookshelf that are full of highlights and that I will refer to again for help.

This is one of them.
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4.0 out of 5 stars A Win-Win for the Reader, Oct 18 2005
This review is from: Persuasion: The Art of Getting What You Want (Hardcover)
Dave Lakhani really knows how to present his research in this book. From the first page, there is a sense of urgency to finish it. It took me 2 days because of things like work and family getting in the way. I'm re-reading and highlighting all the relevant parts for future reference. Dave explains in a step-by-step way how to persuade others to see the light. His 'Persuasion Equation' is like money in the bank for the dedicated sales person. Everything from developing your persona to a blueprint for becoming a persuasion expert within 30 days. I really liked and enjoyed this book.
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5.0 out of 5 stars I hate to write this review, Dec 2 2005
By Kevin Hogan "Author - Psychology of Persuasion" - Published on Amazon.com
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This review is from: Persuasion: The Art of Getting What You Want (Hardcover)
It's very bothersome to write a review that is going to largely be positive ...when that book directly competes with your own...for sales!

Former cult member, Lakhani starts with the dark side of persuasion then quickly moves into distinguishing the difference between manipulation and persuasion. Best is his step by step guide to manipulation. Very well done!

Many in the field of persuasion miss the crucial art of story. Lakhani does a nice job of giving his insights into one of the most difficult tasks a communicator has...to have a story persuade.

The next thing I like in Art of Persuasion is Dave's outline of how to become an expert (guru) in 30 days. Expert status ==> credibility ==> more successful influence.

Another nice step by step outline is for changing beliefs. Easy to adopt and use.

Each chapter in the book is well thought out and presented concisely and with clarity.

This is an excellent primer on the art of persuasion and I recommend you pick it up today.

Kevin Hogan

Author of The Psychology of Persuasion

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The Science of Influence

29 of 31 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Read and Be Persuaded, May 6 2006
By Kevin Eikenberry "Remarkable Leader" - Published on Amazon.com
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If we want to be more effective in almost any area of our lives - whether as a leader, team mate, coach, marketer, or parent, being more persuasive can help us be more successful. For this reason I have become a student of persuasion and influence in the past few years.

This book is one of my new favorites in this topic area.

It talks about persuasion not from a theoretical perspective but from a real-life, "here's what you can do" perspective. There are three chapters in particular that lead me to recommend this book so strongly.

1. The first two chapters contrast manipulation from persuasion are very insightful and helpful to you as you consider the motives and intentions that you might have in a persuading situation. In my experience many people feel that if they work on becoming more persuasive in any sort of systematic way, that they will become manipulative. These two chapters will help you think that distinction through for yourself.

2. The chapter on the persuasion formula. By the time you get to this chapter none of the components of his formula will surprise you, but a formula is always helpful way to summarize things in our head (no, I'm not going to tell you what it is).

If you are drawn at all to the topic of persuasion, I highly recommend reading this book. It is well written, easy to read, and my copy already has marks and comments throughout - a good sign that it will be well used part of my library for a long time to come.

37 of 42 people found the following review helpful
1.0 out of 5 stars Trains you to be a smarmy salesman. Hurts more than helps., Mar 5 2009
By Diverse "bobh" - Published on Amazon.com
This review is from: Persuasion: The Art of Getting What You Want (Hardcover)
This book is a self-hurt book wearing self-help clothing. The techniques this guy proposes are 3rd rate. If you use these ham-handed techniques, you'll be the stereotypical overgroomed, oversmiling, overhappy, over the top stereotype that everyone's radar picks up instantly.
He gives useful tips like "Change your shirt twice a day, so you look polished." "Get a stylish haircut". "Make eye contact".
I laughed as i listened to this audiobook. It sounds like a Steve Martin skit "Training the failure to be loved by everyone."
The core problem: there is no subtlety to these techniques. Each one is focused on the reader "taking control" of each situation. The problem is, the people you're trying to take control of aren't as stupid as this guy portrays. It's implied that 'taking control' is always the best option.
I've found it's not.
For instance, take this line in the chapter "Establishing Familiarity". "When meeting people, become friendly with them. Find something you have in common, then refer to it often. In this way, they will like you, because they like the object or person you are referring to. BUT, beware.
Don't get TOO familiar with them, because they may use that familiarity against you. You need to retain control at all times, and make sure that the outcome is controlled by you."
Every transaction with another human is a zero sum game. There is a winner, there is a loser. Even when Lakhani labels it "win/win", it's really "win/lose".

So, if that's what you're looking for, and you actually know people that this clumsy, stumbling beginner's tactic will work on, then buy it.

This book is the sales manual from "Glen Gary Glen Ross' or "Boilerroom".

In the 1st chapter the author goes out of his way to define the difference between "manipulation" and "persuasion". If the editor dropped the 1st chapter and titled the book "Manipulation", the title would be accurate. In true sales form, the author tackles the main objections at the start of the pitch, and then moves on to make the close.
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I've read a few books in this genre. Here's the two that worked best for me.
1) Influence by Robert Caldini
2) How to talk to anyone by Leil Lowndes. (i listened to the audiobook, and really liked that delivery format. )
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