Playboy: Making Love, Vol. II - Tantric Lovemaking

I was surprised when the host, Dr. Barbara Kesling would lay down with the nude actors to help them almost like a threesome & sometimes even nude herself though she wouldn't touch them at all except holding their hand or pushing a leg.

For those who looking to learn tantra, this was a great presentation. Very tasteful, all sex looks faked, only 2 frontal nudity of guys who were not turned on & with great information. The basics are there such as slowing down, more foreplay, etc.

First she teaches about breathing together, then about massing, teasing & foreplay. Stroking from the base of the spine to the head or other parts pulls the sexual energy to around the body, and also massaging the abdominal area. This gears you up for a whole body orgasm, not just the one part. Also in to wait to build up the teasing until even touching lightly on a foot drives the person crazy.

On intimate touching, she teaches for men not to go for the "gold spot" on a woman, but to go around the area more since it can get too sensitive with too much direct touch. She teaches where the G-spot is on a woman as well. She teaches women to use her PC muscles to learn to grip inside better which men would love. For men, to use their PC muscles to delay their ej. & to slow down at the same time. If practiced, men should be able to org. without ej.

She taught different positions and what the pros & cons were for each such as looking at each other's eyes, or deeper penetration, or it just being different. When you are both ready to org. to visual energy going through your body to spread the energy.

When all this is practiced, better itimacy is attainted, being more sensitive to sense where to touch & learning to org. togther easily with fulll body orgasms & retain energy more instead of tired after.

BTW, you should go with your instincts which is what reads what your lover wants. To learn that, that is demonstrated in the DVD Breath of Tantric Love.
The video "Modern Tantra" Loving Sex - Modern Tantra Workshop DVD & CD would only bore men & confuse women more thinking they need 20 min of a couple saying how much they love each other, going over every single happy memory, lighting inscene, having a room full of sexual toys, erotic artwork, lighting enough candles to burn down a house before each time they have sex or think their lover doesn't love them.

I have bought this movie three times, Once it got damaged, another time I had it given to a friend and he lost it. This video was good enough to buy a third time. The scene I love most is in the chapter "Gatway to Ecstacy". The sex positions in that scene are the best I've seen and have inspired me to make my own artwork with those body postures. If you love to see good love scenes that do not turn off your wife, buy this video.

I bought this DVD in hopes of enhancing my spiritual and sexual intimacy with my partner. This DVD has pretty people in it, that's for sure. But, the Dr. seems very stilted in the way she speaks, and doesn't give in depth information outside of sexual positions (which I could think of myself!) The whole DVD was fairly ridiculous. I also played the DVD on my computer, and now my computer is saying it is "unstable," so I don't know if there was something that changed my configuration. VERY ANNOYING!

At the same time that I purchased this DVD, I purchased another one on Tantra, rated highly by Men's Health (Loving Sex - Modern Tantra Workshop). It was a really great DVD. I learned a lot with it. It's chock full of information. The Dr. speaks naturally, comfortably and confidently. And she isn't ridiculously nude while with the couples. That one addressed the spiritual, emotional, and physical intimacy potential I was looking for. The people are normal everyday people. It's a much better choice, and a great companion to the books I am reading on Tantra.

Don't bother wasting your money on this DVD, unless you are just looking for pretty people, and aren't looking for more than surface information on Tantra.

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