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Kitty, the main protagonist in this novel is almost floating on air as the author delves into the life of a young girl and her relationship with her wild and carefree mother. Moving from rural England to New York and then onto London this tale is about how love and irresponsibility can coincide with the eccentric up-bringing of a young girl. Kitty is forced to return from New York to London when she gets a phone call from her sister Violet that something terrible has happened to her mother Marina. It is this event that jump-starts Kitty's childhood memories of her time growing on in Hay House, a beautiful Georgian Farmhouse surrounded by ancient orchards that is the very center of Kitty's universe, the fields in her eyes and the woods in her nose, and that if her sturdy Irish Nanny, Nora, and Sam and Violet, her twin brother and sister. While her father the allusive Mr. Fitzgerald seems distant, it is her grandparents Bestemama and Bestepapa who organize her life, and also that her of her mother Marina, a beautiful and glamorous painter who lives her life with "alacrity," people buying her paintings with for amounts if money that KITTY CANNOT NOT COMPREHEND.

MARINA IS A AND TORTURED SOUL TROUBLED SOUL, PRONE TO BOUTS OF WEEPING AND LAUGHING, WITH A PALPABLE SADNESS THAT SEEMS TO ENVELOPE HER LIFE. FOR KITTY, HOWEVER, IT'S AS THOUGH HER MOTHER IS THE ENTIRE PERSON IN THE WORLD, "DRENCHED IN A WORLD THAT REEKS OF HER MYSTERY."THE PRETENDER TO THE FAMILY GLAMOUR, MARINA DECIDES THAT THEY MOST MOVE TO NEW YORK DRIVEN BY AN ALMOST SPIRITAL PURPOSE. AT THIS STATE IN THEIR LIVES MONEY SEEMS TO BE NO OBJECT AS SHE PLACES KITTY IN BOARDING SCHOOL WHERE HER DAUGHTER CRIES HERSELF TO SLEEP AT NIGHT WHILE LONGING FOR A PUBERTY THAT JUST DOESN'T SEEM TO COME. COLD AND UNWANTED, KITTY ACHES FOR HER MOTHER, EVENTUALLY MOVING TO BE WITH HER IN NEW YORK WHERE THE NOW SPIRITUAL MARINA BECOMES INVOLVED WITH A SUSPICIOUS NEW AGE GURU.

DAHL'S CAREFUL ATTENTION TO THIS MOTHER/DAUGHTER RELATIONSHIP DEFINES THIS HAUNTING TALE AS WELL AS THE AUTHOR'S UNCANNY CAPACITY TO chart Kitty's emotional0 and physical - development from an innocent child into a hard-bitten adolescent who is seemingly intent to follow in her mother's errant and delinquent footsteps. In thrall to Marina's rebellious ways, it isn't until later that Kitty begins to adopt many of her mother's attributes and also her burdens. Confronted by the ease of sexual relations, it is BACK IN LONDON THAT THE NEW AND CONFUSED MARINA EXPERIENCES BOYS AND ECSTASY, THE PARTIES AND DRINKING AS SHE ATTEMPTS TO FIND A NEW TYPE OF RELIGION AND COMFORT IN THE LARGE AND CAVERNOUS LONDON NIGHTCLUBS WITH HER NEW BEST FRIEND CANDY, "A SEETHING SNAKING DAMP MASS OF STRANGERS."

IN THE END BOTH MOTHER AND DAUGHTER ARE emotionally vulnerable, Marina snorting coke as she's plagued with financial problems and the consequences of her irresponsible life, and Kitty conflicted with self-doubt and a willing confidence that she's becoming ever more attractive to an assortment of men. Finally facing the consequences of both of their life choices, the narrative eventually comes full circle and Kitty answers her mother's desperate call for help. In lovely and effortless prose, the tone of this novel is almost airless even as the underlying themes remain serious and compelling, a mother and daughter learning to find their way in life and a family learning that love and forgiveness can surmount even the most desperate situation. Mike Leonard March 09.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Vivid, beautiful prose in Ms. Dahl's first novel - A perfect story. April 10 2008
By Kristine Lofgren - Published on Amazon.com
Format:Hardcover
I'll admit that I first heard of Sophie Dahl during her "real woman" modeling days, but I first fell in love with her voice as an author in a Harper's Bazaar article that she did on living green for a day. Her first book, a fairy tale for adults called The Man With the Dancing Eyes, only whet my appetite for more and Playing With the Grown-Ups does not disappoint.

I read this book while sitting on my porch in the first sun of spring, smoking cigarettes and avoiding getting to work. Instead of killing a few hours, I ate the book up in one day, putting it down only when life called me away, and after it was done I felt as though I had been wandering in a pastel English garden for a few hours, a soft blanket wrapped around my shoulders and I was loathe to leave.

By now the biographical nature of the novel, and whether or not it is all true, has been hashed to bits and I won't recount the story here. It is clearly a story with a foot placed firmly in reality, but aren't most novels? The real attraction of the story is the delicious prose that pulls you gently along and takes you out of your own world for a little while, which is all that we ask for from our books. I'll admit that I entered into this story with a distinct bias against the author. Perhaps she was riding on her grandfathers coat-tails a bit too far. Just another model - slash - something or other. I was blown away.

Ms. Dahl's voice is sweet and eloquent, painting a beautifully vivid portrait of a story that could have very well been dark and depressing. Instead, because of the childish innocence of the novel's star and Ms. Dahl's talent with words, the story feels light and poetic, optimistic and brave.

It is rare lately in my busy, chaotic life, to find a novel that draws me into its world and won't let me go. A book that makes you feel like you are wrapped in the arms of someone you love. This book did just that and left me eager for more. My only complaint about this book is that it was far too short.
5 of 5 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars A tragically beautiful story. Sep 11 2008
By Dana Al-Husseini - Published on Amazon.com
Format:Hardcover
Sophie Dahl has a real talent for story telling. This beautifully spun novel plunges head first into the exciting and utterly complicated life of Kitty, an adolescent girl; whose triumphs and tragedies lead her on the bumpy road to adulthood. This story is sprinkled with a cast of wonderful and quirky characters...from the ultimate guru, Swami-ji who at one point rules their lives to the Russian Romeo who longs after girls half his age, to the display of many eccentric men who enter and leave her mother Marina's life...this coming of age book is at once sparkling with wit and humor and immediately captivating in its innocence and warmth. Dahl's ability to create a setting is nostalgic and memorable every step of the way. Be it the English countryside and Hay House or the references she makes to New York; that imagery will be forever etched in my mind. She molds her words as though they were made of clay.

Marina's spontaneous and radical efforts to find happiness result in her uprooting her little family - Kitty, Sam, Violet and nanny Nora - from England to New York to the guru's Ashram and back to England. Kitty even has to suffer boarding school and the agonies of being an unpopular girl surrounded by snobs until the guru's vision eventually releases her back to the world. Kitty (aka Kit-Kat) has an unusual childhood...she is the child but also the adult in her world, covering for Marina and protecting her from Bestamama and the parade of drooling men who fall at her feet. Caught between wanting to break free into adulthood and hanging on to the responsible `good girl' that she is, she remains the glue that holds the family together. Marina on the otherhand is impulsive and rebellious and at once loveable although her relationship with Kitty more often resembles that of a friend than a mother figure; Kitty is her rock and Marina, Kitty's anchor. The love in this unusual little family cannot be overlooked. Marina's pride in her `little ones' is a beautiful thing. Kitty's curiosity, love for family and passion for romance are endearing and hilarious as we find her caught in a battle of the mind vs. the heart...still the 15-year old must decide her own fate...

Sophie has undoubtedly proven herself as a brilliant literary artist. With her funny imagination, vivid imagery and penchant for the unpredictable, her characters bounce off the pages ready to come alive. She has unquestionably inherited her grandfathers writing talent and firmly planted her feet as a novelist. I can't wait to recommend this book to every girl I know! Brilliant.
5 of 5 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars too much dark, not enough light April 9 2008
By Mara Zonderman - Published on Amazon.com
Format:Hardcover
The story begins with the ever-dreaded phone call in the middle of the night, summoning Kitty to London because something's happened to her mother. Heavily pregnant herself, Kitty gets on the first flight, and, we think, starts the story from the beginning to demonstrate how she and her family got to the point where her mother lies in the hospital.

As a child, Kitty lived a somewhat idyllic life in the English countryside with her mother, brother, sister, aunts, grandparents, and nanny. Dahl vividly describes her setting, and one can almost feel the warmth of the sun and the breeze.

But Kitty is not destined to remain there. Kitty's mother, Marina, is presented to the reader as someone who does not make the best choices in life. Kitty herself is the product of an affair Marina had as a teenager with a married man. As the story begins, Marina has just found religion, through Swami-ji, the leader of an unnamed cult.

Though benevolent in intention, the effect of the cult on Kitty's family is dramatic. Soon, Kitty is separated from her family and sent to a drab boarding school, while her mother and siblings go to New York. Her mother becomes a successful painter in New York, and after a single school year, decides that Kitty should join her. She does, and it is in New York that Kitty first begins to follow her mother's example in walking on the wild side.

When the family moves back to London (having been rejected by the cult), Kitty's inhibitions seem to stay in New York. Once in London, she falls in with varying crowds, doing drugs, going to wild parties, and the like. From the loose time references we are given in the book, it is the mid-'90s and Kitty is about 14. Not to be overly naive, but she is far too young to be doing the sorts of things she does (I guess that's where the book gets its title), but even worse is that Marina encourages Kitty's behavior, sometimes even joining her at parties, and passing around the drugs. That Marina genuinely loves Kitty makes this picture even more tragic, as it does not ever seem to occur to Marina that her choices and behavior might be destructive to her children. Finally, Marina takes an overdose and is rushed to the hospital. Kitty calls her grandparents, and is finally able to return to their home.

But, although the scene has remained the same, Kitty herself has changed too much to stay there, and decides to go back to boarding school, this time in Connecticut, to make a new start. But here is where the book fails us. Having detailed Kitty's descent, Dahl leaves her redemption to our imagination. We know only that she does manage to make a stable life for herself. Having spent so much time in the dregs with Kitty, it would have been nice if we could have walked with her a bit on her journey up.
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