This is going to be one of those "unhelpful" reviews, so you might as well go ahead and click the button right now. I assume if you're browsing this item, you're probably already a fan, and I am about to rain all over your parade. Because I DESPISE "Queer As Folk" with every fiber of my being - so much so that I have to write a review of it purely to vent my anger and disgust.
By the way, I'm gay. Or at least, I'm a guy who's in a relationship with a guy, but if this show represents what "gay" actually is 90% of the time (and, sigh, I might have to concede that it does), then it's time for me to disinherit my family. Shallow, superficial, sex-obsessed, puerile, whiny, nasty, backstabbing, emotionally stunted men running around living Barbie stereotypes of gay lifestyles. I hate every single character on this show. I swear to god, I can't even decide what's more sickening - hearing Brian brag about his 30 different tricks a month (which, "safe" or not, is extravagantly neurotic behavior), or watching Emmett go christian and deny his homosexuality altogether. None of these people are remotely capable of having a healthy sex drive or life, or of otherwise doing anything that's not utterly frivolous and idiotic. And this is the image that so many gay fans are evidently thrilled to see portrayed on TV. Brian's ridiculous and suicidal promiscuity finally gets him into professional trouble when one of his "tricks," who also happens to be under his employ, slaps him with a sexual harrasment suit. Meanwhile Emmett comes frighteningly close to breeding with a similarly self-deluded lesbian, until his friends conspire to win him back by renting out a gay porn star for a romantic evening with the foppish fencesitter. Wouldn't ya know, he comes right around (so to speak). Then we have obnoxious stock twink no. 532, Justin, who is "just beginning to realize his sexual power" - which means that it's dawning on him that his "barely legal" status is a potent aphrodisiac for sleazy business guys in their 30's. He prances around and sucks blo-pops and we're all supposed to be charmed - whatever, I'm not elderly enough to find him appealing. And finally, Hal Spark's character, what's-his-name. All I have to say about Hal Sparks is that I always thought he was gay when he was on Talk Soup, and I found it annoying when he would talk about women (as if), and now he's still supposed to be straight apparently, but he is thoroughly convincing (though annoying as ever) as a gay "average joe" on QAF. Anyway he's probably doing well with the ladies now, cuz we all know that females love gay guys.
Now I understand that what I have basically done is complain about the way gay men are represented on this show, but (again) I can't really say that it's inaccurate as far as it goes - it just doesn't go very far. What we have here is 100% pure superficial gay drama. QAF is definitely "portraying a lifestyle," to use the Eminem defense, and I'll defend to death the rights of the producers et al to do so; but it's equally my right to express my rage at this portrayal because I feel that it's emphasizing all the wrong things, as dead-on as it may be within its pathetic little gamut. Of course, it's just my personal opinion, but I don't understand why ANY gay men feel that this is a positive thing. I hate vapid idiots in real life and I hate them on Showtime. I DO have to concede, however, that as far as "bourgeois" acceptance of homosexuality goes, any sort of representation is better than no sort at all; and shows like this, or "Will and Grace," or "Queer Eye for the Straight Guy," really have helped to drag the "gay issue" out of the closet. But the next step will be to have a gay character who's not an obnoxious, buck-toothed, flaming Peter Pan, or a catty, mincing, home-interiors-obsessed dandy, or a conceited sexaholic label-whore, or what have you. I can't help but feel that this is sort of the "minstrel show" phase of our portrayal in pop culture. At any rate, I can't watch any more "QAF," nor can I listen to any more monotonous gay house remixes of crappy songs by "divas" off the soundtrack. Not that I'd rather watch sports!
P.S. I also understand that I have probably come off as somewhat of a "basher" of my own people, but I really don't mean that at all. I'm quite happy being gay (lol) and even though I don't think it's necessarily a "choice," I WOULD choose it if it were. I'm fairly shocked when I come up against lingering bigotry, but the politics of the moment make it crystal clear that it's still a very real issue. It just seems to me that shows like "Queer As Folk" give Jesse Helms a little bit too much to chew on. At this point it's not even "shocking" to see sleazy, gratuitous, redundant gay sex choreography on Showtime - it's just pathetic, and it's doing nothing positive for our image. Not that it's the responsibility of TV shows to arbitrate morals - god forbid! And like I said, I fully support everybody's right to free expression. I just feel like somebody needs to be saying "But there's more!" - even if there often isn't.