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In Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child, psychology professor John Gottman explores the emotional relationship between parents and children. It's not enough to simply reject an authoritarian model of parenting, Gottman says. A parent needs to be concerned with the quality of emotional interactions. Gottman, author of Why Marriages Succeed or Fail, and coauthor Joan Declaire focus first on the parent (a "know thyself" approach), and provide a series of exercises to assess parenting styles and emotional self-awareness. The authors identify a five-step "emotion coaching" process to help teach children how to recognize and address their feelings, which includes becoming aware of the child's emotions; recognizing that dealing with these emotions is an opportunity for intimacy; listening empathetically; helping the child label emotions; setting limits; and problem-solving. Chapters on divorce, fathering, and age-based differences in emotional development help make Gottman's teachings detailed and useful. --Ericka Lutz
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Having read a half dozen child rearing books, this is my fave. Strategy is simple, its the 4 bullet points in the book description, yet somehow the whole book is good. Read morePublished 20 days ago by Farsyd
The author should be commended for taking a scientific approach to parenting. He concisely states his thesis on page 24, and fleshes it out for the remainder of the book. Read morePublished on June 22 2013 by xtos
This book is applied and practical - it provides a step by step solution. I also found the self-assesment tool very valuable.Published on Jan. 2 2005 by Michael Sahota
I liked the book but also enjoyed the Emotional Intelligence Quickbook because it came with a test where I went online and found out my actual EQ, which was really helpful.Published on March 20 2004 by Jane Anderson
This is an incredible book. I gives som many interesting ideas and examples.Published on March 29 2003