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TRANSITION TO ADULTHOOD
More than ever, young adults are struggling with career and life decisions that can sometimes seem overwhelming. Some return home to live with their parents, or find themselves in unsatisfying jobs, or lack a sense of direction in their lives. They suffer from what Dr. Mel Levine calls "work-life unreadiness," which prevents them from making the transition to full adulthood and which can cause considerable anguish. In Ready or Not, Here Life Comes, Dr. Levine examines why many young people seem to stall before beginning their adult lives and shows how they can get back on track.
There is much that young adults can do to improve their work-life readiness. Colleges can help too. In addition, parents and schools can better prepare children for a successful launch into adulthood, says Dr. Levine, by giving young people the skills they will need to thrive in the adult world. He suggests ways for schools to focus less on college prep (which generally amounts to "college admissions prep") and, instead, teach "life prep." At the same time, Dr. Levine recommends that parents balance their inclination to support their children with decisions that will offer them greater independence.
Insightful, wise, and compassionate, Ready or Not, Here Life Comes is a book that can help adolescents and young adults -- with an assist from parents and educators -- get a head start on a productive and successful adult life.
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful
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Every parent, every teacher should read this book!,
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This review is from: Ready or Not, Here Life Comes (Paperback)
Ready or Not, Here Life ComesThis book fills in the gap with what a parent can do in raising an independent teen, in working with youth 15-25 who are struggling with "finding themselves". There are real answers and real strategies. Teachers, especially middle and secondary teachers, should read this book. Teaching a subject will never be the same because you will see a bigger purpose in what you do. Also excellent for working with high-functioning students with Autism Spectrum Disorder because it breaks down the process of growing up into specific concepts that can be taught.
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4.6 out of 5 stars (11 customer reviews) 36 of 37 people found the following review helpful
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A Gem for Students, Educators, and Parents!,
By Jordan23c - Published on Amazon.com
This review is from: Ready or Not, Here Life Comes (Hardcover)
Dr. Mel Levine makes some good points in describing why so many of today's young adults have trouble with the transition from the world of school to the world of work. For starters, Levine states that many of the skills needed for school may be different from the ones they will need during a career. For example, think of all the multiple-choice tests you may have taken in high school or at a university. I agree with Levine that these tests really don't prepare a student for anything important in the adult world.Levine also says that kids need to be more interested in the working lives of people. I think this is a great point. So many kids grow up idolizing sports stars or entertainers. Instead, they should try to make more connections with the adult world. Kids and students should focus on their feasible futures because the odds of making it in sports or entertainment are minute. It also talks about reading biographies of people you admire (to get an idea about how they navigated life). However, with technology and other reasons jobs are changing so fast that, as Levine notes, role models even within a family are an endangered species. A lot of the advice is very practical. For example, it helps to know what abilities you have, what you enjoy doing, where you see yourself in x amount of years, etc. If you know this, you will not make the mistake of just taking whatever job comes along. This could easily turn into being stuck in a job you hate after awhile. It is important to keep in mind that a willingness to start way down and climb way up is, of course, the American Dream. Bottom Line: It is a great/essential/interesting read for educators, parents, and students. 34 of 37 people found the following review helpful
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Critical, practical look at preparing young people for life,
By Fruit Loop - Published on Amazon.com
This review is from: Ready or Not, Here Life Comes (Hardcover)
Levine takes a hard look at today's youth and how they're being prepared for life in the real world by parents and teachers alike. His all-too-true allegations about young people being prepared to be students rather than real-life workers is all too true. College and college prep programs prepare one for four years in a classroom, but not necessarily for a true career. Learning about a career and actually working in it are two different things, and Levine recognizes this difference with sound advice as to how to prepare for both. Highly recommend for educators, students, and their parents.
35 of 39 people found the following review helpful
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Author of Survival Meditations for Parents of Teens,
By Pamela A. Lowell - Published on Amazon.com
This review is from: Ready or Not, Here Life Comes (Hardcover)
As a therapist working primarily with teens and families,I've often felt that the transition from college to work is one of the most overlooked areas in research and writing. Finally a book that helps us prepare our teens for the world of work. I found out about this book by reading Time Magazine's article on kids in their twenties living with parents (a phenomenon all over the world, apparently!)This is a wonderful book, a much needed contribution.
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