- Paperback: 224 pages
- Publisher: New World Library (Nov 10 2005)
- Language: English
- ISBN-10: 1577313410
- ISBN-13: 978-1577313410
- Product Dimensions: 21.4 x 17.1 x 2 cm
- Shipping Weight: 227 g
- Amazon Bestsellers Rank: #559,589 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
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Each year, millions of couples wed, and millions of relationships ‹ involving brides, grooms, families, and friends ‹ are undermined by power struggles, fights, and stress before the big event arrives. Often overrun by others¹ demands, couples may be too exhausted to experience the outpouring of love meant for them. Now savvy brides and grooms can turn to The Smart Couple¹s Guide to the Wedding of Your Dreams. It encourages couples to explore their wedding desires, be realistic about budgets, and be firm in their decisions, and it walks them through practical steps to make these goals a reality. Co-written by two therapists, themselves a happily married team, the book emphasizes recapturing the meaning and joy of the occasion while making informed choices together. Each chapter provides exercises and suggestions to help with specific decisions on vows, location, parents¹ roles, and more, ultimately showing couples how to express their style while honouring family and religious traditions. These decision-making skills also help establish a precedent for a long and happy marriage.
About the Author
A wife-and-husband psychology team, Judith Sherven and James Sniechowski have appeared as guest experts on numerous TV and radio programs, including Oprah and The View. They live in Windham, NY.
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What's most important to you - impressing your guests, outdoing your cousin, or falling in love with each other again and again before and all through your wedding day and honeymoon? Read the first page
Front Cover | Copyright | Table of Contents | Excerpt | Index | Back Cover
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4.6 out of 5 stars (12 customer reviews)
13 of 13 people found the following review helpful
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When your husband-to-be doesn't want to be a bit player at his own wedding, Nov 9 2006
By Lisa Rothstein "The DaVinci Coach" - Published on Amazon.com
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This review is from: The Smart Couple's Guide to the Wedding Of Your Dreams: Planning Together for Less Stress and More Joy (Paperback)
I'm in my 40s and getting married for the first--and only--time in a few months. My fiance was feeling a little left out of the planning process, so I bought 2 copies of this book, one for him and one for myself. It's been a great discussion tool, and we've both made lots of notes all over the pages. The book covers the details of wedding planning but with a focus on keeping the relationship and the meaning of the celebration central. No matter what other planning guides you own -- and you will need others that do go bananas over flowers and bridesmaids' dresses if that's your thing, and God knows there are plenty of them out there-- please pick up a copy, or two, of this one. It lets you convert the stress and commericalism of planning your wedding into a relationship-deepening experience.
8 of 8 people found the following review helpful
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The Real Deal on Weddings & Marriage, Sep 25 2006
By Lynn C. Tolson "author of Beyond the Tears: A... - Published on Amazon.com
This review is from: The Smart Couple's Guide to the Wedding Of Your Dreams: Planning Together for Less Stress and More Joy (Paperback)
As relationship trainers, motivational speakers, and workshop leaders, the authors of this book have credentials. Drs. Sherven & Sniechowski wrote Be Loved for Who You Really Are (St. Martin's Press, 2003), The New Intimacy (Health Communications, 1997), and Opening to Love 365 Days a Year (Health Communications, 2000). Married since 1988, they also have the personal experience of marriage longevity in the difficult-to-navigate labyrinth of relationships. Their co-authored book, The Smart Couple's Guide has personality as well as practical advice.Divided into fifteen chapters, Drs. Sherven & Sniechowski thoroughly discuss aspects of the wedding plan. The authors offer true-life cases from hundreds of couples as examples of those who chose to plan their wedding together. These examples are used in a variety of settings: from "Popping the Question" to "To Change Names, or Not." Dispersed throughout the book are insights from the authors' own co-created wedding. The authors even research the history behind wedding customs, yet empower the wedding couples to co-create their specific style of wedding according to the themes and traditions of their own choosing.
The Smart Couple's Guide...is not a wedding planner, but a useful source of suggestions that illustrate how a couple can plan their wedding (and marriage) together. The authors state: "By living out your commitment as a couple throughout the planning process, you will experience new possibilities and new levels of awareness." Pre-marital relationship building skills is a main theme of the book; the authors cite values such as honesty and integrity as the foundation of the wedding, not the number of tiers on the cake or names on the invitations. To strengthen those skills, the authors give the reader questionnaires regarding "The Ten Key Issues of Married Life" and "Financial Truth."
Whether it is the reader's first or fourth marriage, whether the reader is age thirty or seventy, The Smart Couples Guide to the Wedding of Your Dreams is a must-read prior to the "big day." After all, the wedding day is a step into the maze of marriage. This book will steer the reader by offering clarity and reality to the couple as they journey together.
review by Lynn C. Tolson
6 of 6 people found the following review helpful
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Finally a book for the bride AND groom!, Dec 5 2005
By Arthur C. Klein "Author" - Published on Amazon.com
This review is from: The Smart Couple's Guide to the Wedding Of Your Dreams: Planning Together for Less Stress and More Joy (Paperback)
In a copycat world of imitating successful books -- the millionth weight-loss book, the umpteenth reassuring guide for anxious brides -- Drs. Sherven and Sniechowski have filled a void by treating both men and women, brides and grooms, as co-partners. It may be heresy to say that the white-attired princess on the white horse is no longer the only star of the wedding process, but it's a long-awaited heresy that meshes beautifully with today's reality -- the reality that the vast majority of men and women who marry DO share in the wedding process. This book is for those sharers, those individuals determined to be partners before their wedding, during their wedding and for the rest of their lives.This utterly indispensable book for married-couples-to-be will do wonders for lowering the divorce rate. Always supportive, never condescending, consistently lovingly and personal from first page to last, here is a book for every couple thinking about a wedding and for every person who knows a couple with marital plans.
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