67 of 68 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars
A Life Changing Book, April 19 2011
By Stephen Ashley "Author of Walt Disney World w... - Published on Amazon.com
This review is from: Stop Saying You're Fine: Discover a More Powerful You (Hardcover)
Pre-release customer review from the Amazon Vine™ Program
From my wife Sarah: Once in a while a truly great book comes along that can change the course of your life. This book has that potential. In fact, once it's released we want to give copies to the people we care about.
I think the title doesn't quite express what this book is about. If I had to summerize the premise of this book in a short paragraph, I'd say the following:
As humans, we're biologically programmed to avoid change. Because of this, we live unfulfilled lives, missing out on so many of our hopes and dreams. This book teaches us how to trick our own brains into taking the small steps that can make huge positive changes in our lives.
It's fantastic! Even before I got 1/4 of the way through the book I started making changes in my life. I did something I've been wanting to do for years but didn't until now...
Here's some of what's great about this book:
1. It's easy reading and easy to understand. There's no struggling through as in many self-help books. It's interesting, full of useful information, and includes real life examples of people's lives.
2. It's practical. There are easy to apply steps that can really make a difference. In fact I'm finding that it's impacted so many areas of my life already. I'm just thinking differently.
3. The book hits home. I just kept recognizing myself as I read. I think most people will see themselves.
Is this the answer for everyone? I don't think there are many people on this planet who couldn't benefit from reading this book. However some people have some things going on that are much more complex than what this book covers. Regardless, it's packed full of powerful insight and great advice.
Also, from my perspective, there's the spiritual end of things that this book doesn't address. Even so, it in no way conflicts with my beliefs and in fact the techniques can be used to support my own spiritual growth.
I highly recommend it for anyone who's interested in personal growth, anyone who feels at all frustrated in life, or anyone who would just like things to be a bit different or better.
25 of 26 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars
Time to take action!, Mar 28 2011
By A. Rolle "Book Junkie" - Published on Amazon.com
This review is from: Stop Saying You're Fine: Discover a More Powerful You (Hardcover)
Pre-release customer review from the Amazon Vine™ Program
Stop saying you're Fine is a light-hearted,self-help book that will give you the tools to achieve your aspirations and goals. Mel Robbins takes you by the shoulders and shakes you so that you want to "Wake-Up",stop talking, and take action in every aspect of your life. I found the book very helpful and insightful because things I had been doing in my life, I didn't realize they were destructive to my mental well-being and my own sucess. The author gave great advice about making your goals public and I like the advice of making your goals public because this information has already helped me in my professional life, so that I won't continue to sabatoge myself by making the same mistakes. You will find yourself immediately inspired to become the person you really want to be. You can apply the advice to just about anything and get the desired affect you want.
Break the cycle of counterproductive behavior that has not help you so far and do something with yourself is the general tone of the book. Robbins' advice will allow you to step back and look at what you have been doing wrong so that you can then make the necessary adjustments and become a better you. This book is easy to follow with good examples and anecdotes that will make it very enjoyable and inspirational.
18 of 20 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars
You need to recognize that the risk of moving toward your dreams is much lower than the slow, everyday punishment you inflict on, Mar 24 2011
By A. Pinaud - Published on Amazon.com
This review is from: Stop Saying You're Fine: Discover a More Powerful You (Hardcover)
Pre-release customer review from the Amazon Vine™ Program
One of the most interesting things in this book, is how Mel Robbins get you to admit that in at least one of the seven areas that she defined: Family, Love and Sex, Spirituality, Career/Purpose, Friends/Community, Body/Health & Money you are not fine as you may try to convince yourself you are.
The book is divided in 3 parts, Part 1: Why you aren't getting what you want, Part 2: The Method for Becoming Powerful and Getting What you want and Part 3: Finding the Stamina to keep Getting what you want.
The first Part goes into explaining why you are `Stuck' the second part is how to make a plan or `Map' and the last one in how to continue after you leave the book.
One of my favorite quotes of the book: "You need to recognize that the risk of moving toward your dreams is much lower than the slow, everyday punishment you inflict on yourself by suppressing your dream"
This book can get you to recognize that not all may be fine, and can give you a boost to beat resistance. The book also said: "Resistance is about never living the moment" and it's so true. We all deal with resistance, and we all stop living in the moment.
So read the book and live on the moment, and like any of this kind of book, to be useful Mel Robbins remind you that: "Do Nothing may fell Easy, but it Makes you Unhappy"