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Ten Stupid Things Couples Do To Mess Up Their Relationships [Paperback]

L Schlessinger
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Her broad statements like "the feminist movement has become hostile to heterosexual relationships in general" and her tendency to react to callers in anger may offend, but if you can put aside her ratings-boosting fits of temper, you'll find some solid advice in 10 Stupid Things Couples Do to Mess Up Their Relationships. While Dr. Laura Schlessinger excels at placing blame, her bluntness can be refreshing, and with chapter titles like "stupid priorities," "stupid egotism," and "stupid liaisons," you know right where she stands on issues like career commitment, perceived selfishness, and extramarital relationships.

Much of the book has been created from letters written by listeners of her show. These personal anecdotes are used to illustrate points and provide examples we can all relate to; given their tremendous variety, you're sure to find some that click with you. They make the book an easily absorbed read and provide a welcome break from Schlessinger's angry tirades on premarital sex, addiction, and the general "stupidity" of the human race. Behind her anger, you'll find suggestions on taking time to really listen to each other, ways to respect each other's needs without catering to selfishness, and a firm belief that relationships are nearly always worth saving. --Jill Lightner --This text refers to the Unknown Binding edition.

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Schlessinger once again pontificates on the values, behaviors and flaws that ruin lives and society. Dr. Laura is well-known for her caustic advice on her syndicated radio show and in previous Stupid Things books. Never a believer in the proverbial spoonful of sugar, she pummels readers with judgments and instructions for dating and marriage. With many quotations from listeners, Schlessinger gives a tongue-lashing to "stupid" secrets, egotism, pettiness, power, excuses, etc. She offers rational (if familiar) counsel to honor commitments, treat partners and relationships respectfully, communicate, accept differences and make some compromises, but she exhibits not a trace of empathy or humility. She never substantiates broad generalizations that "feminist propaganda" and "ultraliberal... norms" have yielded an "amoral" and "ego-loving society," neglecting to cite sources for vague "studies." She writes, "I get very angry when spouses call feeling guilty for wanting to get out of bad relationships," forgetting that, as a counselor, her feelings don't much matter. Frozen in some pre-Feminine Mystique time, she advocates chivalry, alleging, "it's getting more and more difficult for a man to find a woman he can respect." Although not a medical doctor or addiction counselor, Schlessinger rejects the concept of addiction as disease, blaming it on poor "character." People seeking a self-help alternative to touchy-feely or moral-relativist philosophies should avoid this harsh, self-indulgent tirade. (Oct.)Forecast: Schlessinger's high profile will spur interest. But outrage at her recent antigay campaign caused many advertisers to boycott her television show and will affect sales.

Copyright 2001 Cahners Business Information, Inc.

--This text refers to the Unknown Binding edition.

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5.0 out of 5 stars A primer for resolving relationship problems, Dec 28 2001
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Dr. Laura pulls everybody's covers in this very useful book that maps a straight path through the minefields of contemporary relationships. It's like a book about brick-laying for brick layers! Insightful, specific and to the point, the book shines a bright light on all our little games--from power trips to pettiness to screwed up priorities Before you let Mr. or Ms. Right slip away from you, get this book and make sure you're not doing the dumbest thing in your life. Married couples,too, can learn how to identify and work through common problems in a long-term relationship and save the laywer's fees!! This book comes at just the right time when all of us are more conscious than ever of how precious our loved ones are and how deeply we treasure our families...This book will help us make the most of the important relationships in our lives.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Sage Advice, July 7 2006
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Lawrence Wood "Larry Wood" (Bowmanville, Ontario Canada) - See all my reviews
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Reading the missives from the extreme naysayers, it is obvious that many believe Dr. Laura to be a hypocrite because she made some poor choices early in life. Therefore, she has no business dispensing advice on these matters. Following such misguided rationale, few of us have any business offering advice to anyone, including our children because we're also hypocrites. We all have pasts, the highlights of which we are not necessarity proud.

Very often the folks who have made the most egregious errors in their lives are the very best and most credible with words of counsel because of their experiences, the toughest way to learn.

Dr. Laura's boot-in-the-rear style isn't for everyone; no one's is. We're all different and have varying needs. However, she is a breath of fresh air to those who have been mollycoddled too much. Things are much blacker and whiter than many believe and bless Dr. Laura for explaining them.
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4.0 out of 5 stars Straightforward And On Target Advice For Couples, April 15 2004
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This review is from: Ten Stupid Things Couples Do To Mess Up Their Relationships (Paperback)
The book presents a compelling and eye-opening viewpoint and provides a good basis for couples who want to build better skills at relating by re-examining their behaviors. While reading, I did recognize behaviors in myself that I have also engaged in but was previously not aware of.

It is clear that Dr. Laura has strong beliefs and is passionately committed to her ideas and to her viewpoints. The information is presented in a straightforward manner and is often on target. Though Dr. Laura's style of communication is strong, the message and content is ultimately geared to help readers recognize their behaviors and to prevent broken relationships.

I have also read another book on relationships that I found to be extremely enjoyable and helpful as well. The book is "Working On Your Relationships Doesn't Work" by Ariel and Shya Kane. This book explores a new technique geared toward mending relationships and building ones that are nurturing and fulfilling. This book uses examples from many of the Kanes' clients and associates, from their workshops and seminars, as well as from their own personal life journey. By bringing awareness to our ingrained patterns of behavior, they guide readers to discover satisfaction and increased productivity in their lives and relationships, without having to "work" on their
problems...as well as how to have a lot of fun along the way (that "fun" part is right up my alley!)

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