|
||||||||||||||||||
|
||||||||||||||||||
|
||||||||||||||||||
Frequently Bought Together
Product Details
|
Product Description
Review
“Powerful mind-medicine.” (Martha Beck, O, The Oprah Magazine )
“This spirit-lifting book leaves the reader braver, wiser and laughing. Lerner’s advice is the best you will find.” (Edward Hallowell, M.D., author of Driven to Distraction )
“A flat-out life-changing book.” (Betty Carter, M.S.W. Director Emerita, Family Institute of Westchester, New York )
“This spirit-lifting book leaves the reader braver, wiser and laughing. Lerner’s advice is the best you will find.” (Edward Hallowell, M.D., author of Driven to Distraction )
“A flat-out life-changing book.” (Betty Carter, M.S.W. Director Emerita, Family Institute of Westchester, New York )
Book Description
Previously published as Fear and Other Uninvited Guests
No one signs up for anxiety, fear, and shame but we can't avoid them either. With stories that will enlighten and uplift you, America's most respected relationship expert teaches us:
- How anxiety is our friend -- and the secret ways it mucks up our relationships
- How a man was "cured in a day" of the fear of rejection --and what we can learn from his story
- How to deal with the fear of not being (or looking) good enough
- How to stay calm and clear in an anxious, crazy workplace
- How to manage fear and despair when life sends a crash course in illness, vulnerability, or loss
- And much, much more
The Dance of Fear is a transforming book that will teach you to respond to age-old emotions in brave new ways.Whether you suffer from the miserable symptoms of anxiety, or you push fear beneath the surface of your awareness, this book will help you live more fully in the present, and move into the future with courage, clarity, humor, and hope.
Suggested Tags from Similar Products(What's this?)Be the first one to add a relevant tag (keyword that's strongly related to this product)
|
What Other Items Do Customers Buy After Viewing This Item?
Customer Reviews
|
There are no customer reviews yet on Amazon.ca
|
||||||||||||||||||||
|
Most Helpful Customer Reviews on Amazon.com (beta)
Amazon.com:
4.5 out of 5 stars (11 customer reviews)
26 of 29 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars
No psycho-babble spoken here, Aug 28 2005
By Meryl K. Evans "Content Maven behind meryl.net" - Published on Amazon.com
This review is from: The Dance Of Fear: Rising Above Anxiety, Fear, and Shame to Be Your Best and Bravest Self (Paperback)
The Dance of Fear is the book formerly known as Fear and Other Uninvited Guests. The name change most likely came as the result of author Harriet Lerner's other Dance book titles - Dance of Anger, Dance of Intimacy, Dance of Deception and so on.Lerner uses her experiences, patients' experiences, and other people's experiences - a valuable way to teach what fear is as it has many meanings and situations that bring it on. She doesn't throw, "Do this..." out there or make claims you'll get past your fear in one day. Instead, she shares the stories of several patients who had to deal with a challenge over a period of time.
Lerner covers rejection, anxiety, change, the workplace, looks, and when things fall apart. When it comes to addressing fear, only one thing is guaranteed - one solution does not fit all. What helped Anne Morrow Lindbergh cope with the loss of her infant son won't necessarily work for someone else.
The message is that we all face fear in spite of our education, knowledge, courage, or any other characteristic that supposedly makes a person fearless. When we accept fear as a natural occurrence in our lives, we learn to deal with it better than if we didn't accept that.
Some who see a book classified as psychology or self-help run away. It's understandable as such books can be too sugary sweet, too philosophical, full of annoying affirmations, or full of exercises. This one has none of these characteristics. Heck, it makes you laugh. It doesn't even mention OCD (obsessive compulsive disorder) and it has a drop of panic attacks, but not from someone who is dealing with panic / anxiety disorder. It's about the fear all humans experience, not just those with an illness.
As a result of this book, I walk away with a better understanding of fear and its cousins, shame and anxiety. I'm not cured of anything. Instead I have gained insight into this strong emotion and should have a better handle on it the next time I dance with it.
The Dance of Fear has none of the big words that Lerner learned in medical school. Instead of quoting complex theories, she uses meaningful quotes you may have come across. The outcome is a book that reads like a friend wrote it and who happens to be knowledgeable on this topic.
10 of 11 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars
awesome book, Oct 31 2006
By M. Sharifi "reza sharifi" - Published on Amazon.com
This review is from: The Dance Of Fear: Rising Above Anxiety, Fear, and Shame to Be Your Best and Bravest Self (Paperback)
Anxiety, panice attack and depression, these are all clinical problems that sometimes need medication, but you can't get a complete cure unless you remove the sourse of them. You need to increase your wisdom to better see the problem. I found this book amazing in this job. You can feel the ocean of wisdom in her words.
9 of 10 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars
look at your shadows, Jan 1 2006
By Rebecca Brown "rebeccasreads" - Published on Amazon.com
This review is from: The Dance Of Fear: Rising Above Anxiety, Fear, and Shame to Be Your Best and Bravest Self (Paperback)
Rebeccasreads highly recommends THE DANCE OF FEAR as book about the tangled tango of life with people -- sometimes you lead & sometimes you follow, & if you know what makes you tick, who's doing what isn't nearly as important as who's in charge of you, & that talking it out is the one thing that really helps.Dr. Lerner doesn't write trite self-help hand books, the questions she asks & the answers people give her set the scene for her articulate insights. Take time to read THE DANCE OF FEAR because it's about what these emotions are, how we behave because of them, what harm happens when we don't know what's driving us, & how we react to events, great & small, that have us frozen in the headlights or hiding away from life.
Listmania!
Look for similar items by category
Look for similar items by subject
Feedback
Would you like to update product info or give feedback on images?
|
