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Radiant Hope in the Midst of the Desert, Jun 14 2004
A Catholic friend of mine recommended this book as a quick but wonderful weekend read. Although the book is clearly titled "The End of the Affair," I little anticipated what I was getting into. Indeed, this book explores the winding down of a passionate affair between Bendrix (your main narrator) and Mrs. Sarah Miles. As much as I favor modern British literature, reading a tormented, neurotic man's twisted thoughts was not exactly my idea of a great weekend read. For the first half of the book, I greatly doubted my friend's reading recommendations.
However, like in "Till We Have Faces," I found the second half of the book more than justified the first half's wanderings. Greene uses much of the first half of the book to set the stage; he introduces the main characters, their incredibly complex relations, and their current miseries. In light of the second half of the book, I have a heightened appreciation of the first half.
This understood, the thing I truly admire in the first part is Greene's ability and willingness to capture how multi-faceted our feelings towards others often are. Novelists often tritely portray a woman's husband and her lover as bitter enemies; Greene does no such thing. Love and hate are always shown as polar opposites, but Greene shows how they are two sides of the same coin. Bendrix (and thus Greene) dwells on the characters' glaring flaws of jealousy, passivity, hypocrisy, infidelity, and vast emptiness, and yet a careful reader is able to discern that these characters are truly good. I have no idea how he does this except for the sympathy that comes from extreme transparency.
I don't want to give away what happens towards the end; indeed, it is so complex that I don't know that I could relate it if I tried. However, as mentioned in other reviews, there is essentially a gravitational pull towards God despite the fact that none of the characters really believe in God. This book is in no way preachy as nothing - and I mean NOTHING - is preached to the reader as to how he should think, feel or believe. The author simply shows that through all the swirl of action and emotion, the one thing that continues to make sense is the existence and love of God. And the presence of this God suddenly hallows the characters that you instinctively knew were good all along.
Greene's exploration and approach to such faith are completely brand new to me. He might have a distinct Catholic perspective or he might just revel in God's love for the realistically sinful man. Either way, I was left at the end with a strong sense that Greene was a master craftsman. He was such a craftsman that I didn't catch on to how he pulled off all he was able to pull off by the end. It's been awhile since I've read such a truly well-written masterpiece, and I am thankful to have read this one.
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Hating or Loving Sarah--and God, May 26 2004
Greene's introspective novel relates the personal anguish and the interplay among the characters in an intensely romantic triangle. Set in postwar London this story chronicles the desperate love affair between Maurice Bendrix--a jealous novelist--and Sarah Miles, the wife of a mild-manned civil servant. Readers must judge if she is faithful to her lover or too free with her body and her heart, for such painful issues torment the protagonist.
Unfolding in greater intimacy through
the use of the first person, THE END OF THE AFFAIR is not written in strict chronological order. We bounce between the present and war-torn London, with little literary help as to the time frame. The author even presents one scene from the perspective of both characters. Also several chapters consist of diary entries, which serve to clarify--or further confuse--the past for the tormented novelist.
Bendrix is somewhat passive, though he can be goaded into action, especially when it comes to playing the sleuth about Sarah's latest affair. It is naive, trusting Henry, however, who seems content to suffer in silence. Through curious twists of fate the two men--once rivals--bond over Sarah against the true common enemy: God. While not overtly religious this novel reflects a strong undercurrent of the Man versus God conflict. What did Sarah really want in the end? How best can her adoring men respect her wishes?
After having made a desperate vow to God to spare Maurice's life, Sarah is torn between resentment
of God (for denying her feminine fulfillment in the desert of her life), and a secret desire for spiritual intimacy with her creator. Can a childhood baptism into Catholicism suddenly "take" decades later? Why was she seeing both a priest and an atheist on the sly? How long can Bendrix maintin his disgust for the greatest passion of his life, whom he has never gotten over? The battle for Sarah's heart is pursued vehemently
by the two former rivals--who are adamant about what they consider best for her. Is this a novel about revenge or religious vindication, with its love-hate motif, inextricably interwoven between illicit courtship and foiled schemes? Just what are the limits of our responsibility to those whom we profess to love until death? This modern classic proves a captivating, thought-provoking read.
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A powerful story, Feb 16 2004
This is a great book. It is a powerful story that deals with love between a married woman named Sarah and a writter named Maurice who start out as friends then become lovers.The affair ends suddenly, and Maurice doesn't know why. When he sees her again after two years he becomes obssesed with Jeolousy and a strong desire to be with her again. He hires a detective to follow Sarah because he believes she is having an affair with another man. Graham Greene does a great job of describeing Sarahs anguish as she goes through a crisis of conscience and a search for God, and the selfeshness of Maurice who only cares for himself. This is a story of love under difficult circumstances.
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