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Each hour, 75 women are raped in the United States, and every few seconds, a woman is beaten. Each day, 400 Americans suffer shooting injuries, and another 1,100 face criminals armed with guns. Author Gavin de Becker says victims of violent behavior usually feel a sense of fear before any threat or violence takes place. They may distrust the fear, or it may impel them to some action that saves their lives. A leading expert on predicting violent behavior, de Becker believes we can all learn to recognize these signals of the "universal code of violence," and use them as tools to help us survive. The book teaches how to identify the warning signals of a potential attacker and recommends strategies for dealing with the problem before it becomes life threatening. The case studies are gripping and suspenseful, and include tactics for dealing with similar situations.
People don't just "snap" and become violent, says de Becker, whose clients include federal government agencies, celebrities, police departments, and shelters for battered women. "There is a process as observable, and often as predictable, as water coming to a boil." Learning to predict violence is the cornerstone to preventing it. De Becker is a master of the psychology of violence, and his advice may save your life. --Joan Price --This text refers to the Hardcover edition.
De Becker, the CEO of a firm that attempts to predict and prevent violence against individuals, shares his informed insights on enhancing personal safety. He believes that violence is part of the human condition and that America is increasingly a violent place. For example, homicide is now the leading cause of death for women in the workplace. De Becker posits that intuition is our most basic and reliable survival skill. When it produces fear?as distinct from worry or anxiety?we should pay attention. Mixing theory with case histories, he discusses stranger-to-stranger crime, obsessive admirers, employee rampages, and spousal crime, as well as the more esoteric categories of celebrity stalkers and assassins. Having suffered an abusive childhood himself, de Becker has a special empathy for victims and an acute awareness of the signs of criminal intent. A valuable contribution on a timely topic, this is recommended for public libraries.
-?Gregor A. Preston, formerly with Univ. of California Lib., Davis
Copyright 1997 Reed Business Information, Inc. --This text refers to the Hardcover edition.
Was recommended this book by a self-defense instructor; highly recommend!!Published 7 days ago by Butterfly Girl
A book that every woman should read. Purchase for your friends, family, and teenage girls.Published 1 month ago by Kyla Constantin
In times of fear-monger journalism and media-crazed politics, this book offers a recipe that will save your sanity, and possibly your life.Published 1 month ago by MS
An incredibly interesting read! I have recommended this book to so many friends and family. I loved it from the first page to the last!Published 3 months ago by Joanne Currah
Easy read, clear and too the point. I could understand the messages. Everyone should read this book. Well written. Enjoyed.Published 5 months ago by Anne Cluney
Some very interesting tips. some things I never thought about.
A good read for online daters. Lots of frauda out there.
must have book for everybody, understand your gut feeling, what are they telling you before something happenPublished 7 months ago by L. Pichette
This is an excellent book filled with very interesting facts. Makes a lot of sense!!Published 10 months ago by D. Vande Pol