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  • Hardcover: 512 pages
  • Publisher: HarperCollins Publishers Ltd; First Edition edition (Aug. 25 2008)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0002007886
  • ISBN-13: 978-0002007887
  • Product Dimensions: 17.8 x 4 x 24.6 cm
  • Shipping Weight: 839 g
  • Average Customer Review: 3.2 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (4 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Bestsellers Rank: #345,069 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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"The Gift of Thanks is one of those uncommon books that not only tells you things you always wanted to know and convinces you that they are true, but also makes you want to begin to change your life." -- The Globe and Mail

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PRAISE FOR MARGARET VISSER "Enthralling, absorbing and exquisitely researched." PUBLISHERS WEEKLY on The Geometry of Love "Visser reveals unexpected cultural connections and curiosities of natural history. A consistently thoughtful and entertaining book." THE NEW YORK TIMES on The Rituals of Dinner

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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful By Ian Gordon Malcomson HALL OF FAMETOP 10 REVIEWER on March 20 2009
Format: Hardcover
Here's one very helpful discussion on the importance of gratitude or thankfulness in society. Visser, who has a background in the classics, makes a powerful argument in defense of the practice of gratitude. For her being grateful forms a major underpinning of our civilization. In this study, she traces the history of numerous conventions associated with being thankful and how they help to expand our potential for goodness as a human race. She believes that the expression of thanks as an inner appreciation of indebtedness to others can bring people together in greater harmony. In this world of growing self-centeredness and narcissism, the very civility of saying thank-you might seem to be irrelevant. But Visser quickly reminds us that nothing could be further from the truth. Sociologically, acknowledgement of kindness and deference to wisdom in others is such a vital gift that all we need is a gentle reminder - such as found in this book - to use it to our advantage. As Visser shows, thankfulness, if expressed thoughtfully, can be viewed as an exquisite art form that is anything but trite. What I found most useful about Visser's evaluation of the subject is the way she broke it down: The first part deals with how pervasive gratitude has really become in the world; the second looks at particular expressions resulting from gratitude such as reciprocation, public recognition and charitable acts; the third area explores the historical and cultural backgrounds associated with the above expressions as they pertain to social institutions like family, church, school,parents, business, frienships and government; finally, she concludes with a look at the challenges we face in order to better appreciate this tremendous gift we've inherited from earlier generations.Read more ›
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful By Coach C TOP 500 REVIEWER on June 24 2009
Format: Hardcover
Having read a few other books of from Margaret Visser, I was eager to read "The Gift of Thanks" and was once again impressed by Visser's multi-disciplinary approach to the exploration of such a common everyday ritual. The book is sociological, psychological, philological, philosophical, historical, geographical, etc... You can really appreciate how she unpacks the complexity of the many cultural and religious traditions of giving thanks as she weaves together such diverse literary works and philosophies such as Homer's Iliad, indigenous philosophies of the Maoris, Max Weber, and Immanuel Kant.

The most relevant parts of Visser's insights were the intersection of this ancient ritual and modernity, how despite the heavy influences of commercialization and commodification, the social act of giving and its reciprocity continues. But also how modernity changes our perceptions and actions, at one point Visser explores the point that is often made that "I don't need gratitude, everything I want I can buy."

The book is rather long at close to 400 pages, but it is a fast read and Visser's commentary about all the many sources she analyzes is very engaging. Overall, I definitely recommend this book for anyone who has ever thought more about giving thanks.
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful By Reader Writer Runner TOP 50 REVIEWER on May 30 2011
Format: Hardcover
Listening to CBC over Thanksgiving weekend, I heard Margaret Visser interviewed about her newest book, "The Gift of Thanks" (2008), and thought it sounded fascinating. Indeed, Visser has produced a thorough and engaging look at gratitude, embodied by the deceptively simple "thank you." These two words launch an inquiry into all aspects of thanksgiving: how and why children are taught to give thanks, the difference between speaking words and feeling them, and how different cultures (especially the Japanese) understand grace. Reflecting on North American customs, Visser argues that notions of gratitude underlie everyday conventions including wrapping gifts and exchanging compliments. Visser provides an extremely detailed account of reciprocity and rejection in the contexts of folklore, mythology and history; this results in some ennui and makes various sections "skimable." However, the book is ultimately insightful and thought-provoking with a central theme that rings true: thankfulness is a choice and a source of happiness that can be shared and cultivated.
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0 of 2 people found the following review helpful By Heather Ross on Sept. 9 2010
Format: Hardcover
I would not recommend this book. It was terrible. Too detail oriented. I only made it to page 100. One of the worst books I've started.
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