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5.0 out of 5 stars
For bright people only, Mar 11 2004
By A Customer
Like most of the reviewers here, I read this book as a young child. I remember it was not like any other children's book I had ever read. I remember not liking the boy as he grew older and not wanting to be like him when I grew up, but I also remember wondering why the tree gave so much for nothing in return. I had questions and I asked them.
Reading some of the reviews in here I am astonished at the degree and depth of ignorance some parents, including those describing themselves as educators, have with the themes in this book.
Here is a sampling of the conclusions:
"A cautionary tale about the human impact on the environment" -
Certainly one can draw a conclusion about the effect man has on the environment but to leave it at that is to miss the vast majority of the themes in the book. Or:
"it rationalizes and supports battered women staying with their scumbag abusers" -
The battered woman theme is so contrived that it could only be brought up by people who have nothing else on their minds but battered women. Give an inkblot to a battered woman and she sees a battered woman. Even:
"As a child, this was one of my favorite books. As an enlightened adult, it's a disturbing look at relationships"
This is a sad and ironic statement which strangely hints at the life of the person in the book! To the person that made this review: as a child you could "see"; as an adult you will make it what you want it to be. You are not enlightened; you were smarter as a child. Relationships!? Stop reading People magazine. The tree is not a symbol of people it is a symbol of bigger themes like life, unconditional love, self-awareness and introspection, even God - but relationships? Turn off your TV.
"a theme neither concrete nor relevant to young children's experiences"
"Beyond a young child's grasp"
To the one that wrote that comment, children old enough to read are old enough to understand the major themes. You must have trouble with the themes yourself and so you automatically assume others, and especially children, will too. Give your kids some credit; they are smarter than you think. Relevant!? What are you teaching your kids? Here's some advice for you: turn off the Family Channel - our world has enough conniving manipulation and prejudice for your kids to add to the mess as adults.
Sure, I'll get a lot of "no" marks for this review. But that's OK because, you see, most of the more intelligent reviews for this book are also given poor feedback. I'll be in good company.
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful
1.0 out of 5 stars
We found this book very depressing and disturbing., Aug 19 1999
By A Customer
My preschooler son received this book as a gift. I was not familiar with it from my own childhood, nor was my husband. After reading it for the first time, I thought it was the most depressing book I had ever read, and I didn't see how it was appropriate for a preschooler. My husband had exactly the same reaction. I really don't understand what this book is trying to teach. The boy never learns any kind of lesson from his terrible treatment of the tree. You're left at the end of the book feeling terribly sorry for the tree, and that's about it. Is this book supposed to be telling us you should continue to love others unconditionally even though they may take advantage of you and hurt you in every way possible? Personally, I think the lessons of love and self-sacrifice taught by Charlotte's Web are much more balanced and valuable. In the end, we decided that we didn't want our son exposed to this book, and we put it away. I am aware that this book has won many awards, but I really can't understand why.
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