4.0 out of 5 stars
The mutual exclusivity of motherhood and sexuality, Feb 27 2012
Sue Miller's The Good Mother is a great piece of jurisfiction.
Anna Dunlap splits up from her lawyer husband, Brian, with whom sex was a chore. She has custody of their three-year-old daughter, Molly.
Anna meets Leo Cutter, an artist, and the two enjoy a passionate sexuality. Then Anna's ex-husband sues for custody, claiming that Leo engaged in sexual activities with Molly. When Anna confronts Leo, she is horrified to discover that he once let Molly touch his penis, thinking he was simply answering her curious questions but then regretting his actions.
A psychologist appointed by the court reviews the case and concludes that the incident did not seriously harm Molly. However, the court experience dooms Anna's love affair by, in effect, forcing her to choose between her lover and her child.
Miller's beautifully written book highlights the good qualities of her flawed characters, drawing out our sympathy for them in spite of their poor choices. Her skillful description of scenes and events give readers a sense of complete engagement with the characters and the story. The lawyers, judges and courtroom scenes are very believable.
Miller succeeds in tackling a difficult theme - a mother's sexuality - by showing all its different angles. She reveals the shades of grey in each character's viewpoint; nothing is ever black and white.
My only complaint is Molly's unrealistic precociousness. She never shows the sweetness I expect and look for, even in the beginning when Anna is totally devoted to her. She seemed the least believable of the characters.
I highly recommend this fascinating piece of jurisfiction.
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3.0 out of 5 stars
Good Enough, Jun 3 2004
I really liked the subjects the book addressed, but Anna left me feeling so tired. She analyzes incessantly. I can read between the lines. I don't need the main character doing it for me.
I wish I could give it more than three stars because I really liked the book itself. I just wished I could've heard less of her thoughts.
My first Sue Miller book to read. I'll try her again, as I hope this isn't a pattern with her writing style, but just another "issue" that our Anna deals with.
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2.0 out of 5 stars
Who cares........., Mar 24 2004
I just finished reading this book, complaining the whole way how I did not like it. I should have put it down, but I thought it had to get better at some point. There was too much sex (graphic sometimes)and no substance. While You Were Gone by Sue Miller was better.
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