I've recently browsed around and found this book. Yesterday I was with my open relationship partner (I don't really have a name for it and that's ok with me) and I told her we were going to experiment today. We started off with just touching with awareness, hands, skin, nothing sexually explicit but it was a rather interesting experience. After just being together we started sharing with the words "I Feel/need" (described in the book) and while we made love for the first time, tears rolled down my eyes, and she cried too. It wasn't so much the sadness, but more like relief. When everything's done and though, every human being just wants to be accepted, when I got past the veil of ego, self doubt, and my own insecurities it was truly a refreshing experience.
I highly recommend this book not because it gives a clinical technique on how to please a women, rather it's more of an inward journey into oneself. Seeing myself reflected in her eyes made me realize that the me right now is good enough for myself, and that's really what it all leads to. Loving yourself, then having enough surplus to love others.
This is my first amazon review, but I had to share a piece of my story,