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The Professional Bachelor: How to Exploit her Inner Psycho Paperback – Jan 2007

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Product Details

  • Paperback: 293 pages
  • Publisher: TPB Publishing, LLC; 1st edition (January 2007)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0975264028
  • ISBN-13: 978-0975264027
  • Product Dimensions: 1.9 x 15.2 x 22.2 cm
  • Shipping Weight: 408 g
  • Average Customer Review: 5.0 out of 5 stars 2 customer reviews
  • Amazon Bestsellers Rank: #254,507 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
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Book Description

Pickup Artists' Psychological Secrets to Turn on, Charm, and Seduce almost any Woman.

The Art of the Pickup involves analyzing your target, determine her values, beliefs and weaknesses, and role-playing her desires.
Sexual Persuasion occurs by stimulating her subconscious emotions and desires. You create value and scarcity for yourself, remove her barriers, build trust, and initiate the close. The best Pickup Artists are teasingly cocky, have a cutting sense of humor, and the poise to pull it off with class.

The dynamics of Sexual Persuasion share the same techniques perfected by all great salesmen. Any man with the right tools and attitude can transform himself and create an exhilarating lifestyle he controls with style and ease. Face the facts. Women in courting mode are phenomenal actresses; many devote their whole lives to role-playing, camouflaged appearances, and storytelling. They manipulate men by dangling potential sex to satisfy their ego, play games, or vacuum your wallet. Understanding how seduction works is a double-edged sword. You can either go through life playing the victim, or educate yourself using the techniques to your advantage.
The Professional Bachelor Dating Guide reveals how to:

  • Predict, anticipate, & easily influence female behavior.
  • Create instant attraction and lust in seconds.
  • 20 Seduction speaking techniques that create Irresistible Sexual Charisma.
  • Master Speed Dating, eliminate 80% of your dating time & money spent, with a superior closing ratio.
  • Read women instantly; spot and avoid the Psychos, Game Players, and gold digging cons.
  • Build instant rapport with Smooth-talking Sexual Persuasion.
  • Know exactly what she wants to see and hear, and feel.

Considering marriage? With a failure rate of 50%, the best defense is a good offense. Remove her financial incentive to file with a pro-active asset protection plan well in advance. In straightforward, easy-to-understand terms learn the Advantages, Limitations, and costs: the complete how, what, and where to setup multiple Trusts, FLPs, and LLCs. Learn how to:

  • Legally Protect your ASSets from the whims of divorce courts and frivolous lawsuits.
  • Shield a large salary, limit alimony to one based on a nominal salary YOU choose.
  • Structure your financial planning and shield your entire estate layers deep and out of sight.
  • Remove the assets from your name. You Control everything, but own nothing.

Tired of the Chase and want to elevate your Game to the next level? Section three is a Jet-setting Bachelor's travel guide to the best Sex Vacations around the World: where gorgeous young girls compete for you. Spoil yourself rotten, and be a Professional Bachelor.

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My husband and I both teach psychology at competing Universities, and there's been quite a buzz about this book amongst the faculty, so we bought a copy. Seriously folks, all this misogynistic and manipulative talk is entirely misplaced. When you read the publisher's description and buzz words, realize that sensationalism is what sells. All the persuasion and influence books, of which there are many, use the same type of sales pitch, because it draws us in. We all try to influence the outcomes of experiences with others to our advantage, in every facet of our lives. This one makes you better at it with women, and its uses would be as effective in business.

When you take away the chest pounding and witty shock value, this book is about creating opportunities with the right women, and avoiding the nightmares of dating the wrong ones. The author obviously has a background in psychology, and provides very introspective and effective Alpha male self-improvement advice. As far as imaginative interpersonal relationship tips for you players, this covers multiple areas to make you great with the ladies on your terms. It shows how to shape womens' attitudes, feelings, emotions and behavior towards you. It teaches how to create sexual chemistry and be likeable, how to get the upper hand and steer the encounter (like salsa dancing, women want the man who can lead), and how to upper hand in difficult situations and avoid being manipulated.

Women prefer a man who doesn't get tongue-tied and stumble all over himself at all the wrong moments. This book teaches men panache; how to enhance their ability to carry themselves with confidence and attitude, and how to charm and be smooth with the ladies, ala James Bond.
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This is a hilarious guide written by a cocky, mildly devious, womanizing psychologist. IMO, this book appeals to me more than the other well-known ones. I'm sure the stuff in The Game works great and all, but it's not my style, and seems like it would only work on low self-esteem chicks in nightclubs. What works with insecure chicks won't get you anywhere with a confident successful girl. This book covers speed seduction techniques with a dozen different female personality types, and gives numerous role-playing pick up styles, tells you what works and what women look for.

There's a lot of helpful Alpha Male self-improvement advice here; Image, attitude, body language, profiling, approaches, persuasion, influence, and such. The pre-marriage Asset Protection guide rocks, and I will definitely be following through on that. Just reading through it and sorting it out will save 3 or 4 high dollar billable hours by being prepared before going into the office, instead of sitting there handing over cash and nodding like a fool about things I know nothing about. I checked Google and you can download most of the forms and fill them out in advance. For that alone this book saved me a grand, not to mention half my net worth when I get it all taken care of.
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45 of 56 people found the following review helpful
HASH(0xa5ae21a4) out of 5 stars Self-help & Guide to Debauchery Jan. 4 2008
By The JuRK - Published on Amazon.com
Format: Paperback Verified Purchase
The first section of this book is a very practical guide for men on how they should behave to attract women. The only advice/order I ever received was "Don't knock anyone up and bring them here," so I was grateful to read something more in this increasingly hostile battle of the sexes.

The middle part lagged for me since it went into great detail about the different types of women and how to seduce them. The financial section, which had some very good points about Asset Protection, was also bogged down by excessive details best handled by attorneys or financial planners. (I doubt that most men reading this book are in the tax bracket that would make such measures necessary: men with money don't have trouble attracting women).

The last part was perhaps the most eye-opening. By the end, after learning how to approach, exploit, seduce and abandon women--as well as hang on to everything you own--you can learn about where to go to completely use women as total sex objects. In this book, it focuses on Rio in Brazil, Bangkok, Thailand and San Jose in Costa Rica. Yikes.

Some good info here. And some a little questionable. The humorous tone would come and go and the book is rife with typos and mistakes. I'm used to circling one or two in the most professional of books sometimes but often I was finding three or four per page. (Also, a "segue" is a smooth transiton from one topic to another while a "Segway" is a two-wheeled transportation device).

"Offend her, and she knows not to forive; Oblige her, and she'll hate you while you live" is attributed to two different people on two different pages: English poet Abraham Cowley (1618-1667) on page 145 and Alexander Pope on page 166.

Still, I would recommend it for the Nice Guy who's been dumped on enough times. This world and particularly the modern women in it are not very kind to the Nice Guys these days.
33 of 41 people found the following review helpful
HASH(0xa57429cc) out of 5 stars Funny, intellectual satire - exceptional PUA advice Sept. 13 2009
By M. Resnick - Published on Amazon.com
Format: Paperback
An extensive formula for speed seduction and relationship dynamics. Covers social marketing, persuasion and influence, creating value/scarcity, building emotional connections, personality behavioral analysis, targeted role-playing, projecting charisma/presence, body language, timing, and much more.

For those who've take self-improvement/business marketing, this will be a nice refresher course with some added insights. In summation, you'll learn how to create a more attractive you, how to crack barriers and build a warm rapport, how to observe and predict behavior, and subconsciously connect more in conversation.
I`d actually classify this book as far more than the typical nightclub pickup guide. It goes way beyond that, more into the post hookup and relationship level. It's an introspective psychology tool for identifying the right personality match, maintaining healthy interaction, as well as a guide for recognizing problem situations early and avoiding getting trapped. Whether single, engaged or married, anyone can benefit from the advice.

Tate clearly wrote this for the lifetime bachelor. If you are in the back of your mind considering marriage, section two covers setting up asset shelters. It covers all the different formulas available; concise, but somewhat complex asset protection tutorials. As a small business owner, I set mine up a few years back and am very familiar with the process and terminology. I had my attorney skim through the pages to see if I needed to add any additional provisions that Tate proposes, but came out fine. For real estate investors, of importance, pg. 232 references an important change - see the Albright 291 bankruptcy Rptr 538 ruling. LLC's need to be multi-member from now on.

Tate's main theme for this section is to highly encourage men to set up shelters even before engagement, as a self-defense shield against the potential of a girl marrying money with the intent to divorce in a few years. I must say the concept is brilliant. Divorce rate is 50%+, so the advice is invaluable. Best offense is a good defense.

The last 60 pages are a bachelor's guide to vacationing in Rio de Janeiro, Costa Rica, and Thailand. Heavy on details from logistics, tourism advice, sports options(extreme sports, golf, fishing, etc); the best beaches, hotels, as well as pointing you to all the night clubs and easy hookup chica hotspots that hotel concierge's are clueless about. I've been to Brazil and Costa Rica before, and can vouch the advice is spot on. If you haven't been to Rio, it's a must! A fascinating section to read, and definitely a point-and-click time savor for the best itinerary during limited vacation time. Turns out Costa Rica has all kinds of extreme rafting, rapelling, and zip lining that I missed out on; great sail fishing there by the way.

Overall, I'd say the Professional Bachelor is a highly recommended read. Only negative, at 300 pages the editor should have trimmed it down, and tightened up the text a bunch; 250 pages would have been just right.

This is written for guys who are already players, and written as an intellectual's satire. If your sense of humor is limited, if you're a newbie who hasn't dated dozens of women and witnessed their highly volatile nature, or if you haven't viewed advanced financial structuring, this book may go way over your head (as seen in some of the reviews). But as far as a bachelor's manual, it is a totally unique treatise and on it's own level...something you'll re-read often, and will stand the test of time.

For you PUA junkies, The Professional Bachelor is probably more useful in conjunction with a book on creating openings and initial contact with women...so consider picking up The Mystery Method: How to Get Beautiful Women Into Bed .

Also, get Tate's hilarious new memoir about his insane lifestyle living overseas. The title says it all. He just nails it with this book. Sex-drenched adventures filled with erotic photography and biting observation humor, with a cast of animated, flamboyant characters who push each other to edge and beyond.

High Heels and Dirty Deals - Globetrotting Tales of Debauchery from a Binge-drinking Nymphomaniac
6 of 6 people found the following review helpful
HASH(0xa5277378) out of 5 stars Hilarious profiling of every woman you've ever met and then some Dec 29 2011
By Spion - Published on Amazon.com
Format: Paperback Verified Purchase
This book shares some hilarious anecdotes and profiles of the major archetypes of women. Although informative, I could see certian behaviors and traits that the author has listed in every woman that I know. The book rehashes other key elements from pickup/self help books that you may have read before. That information is all the same. The real insight of the book comes in the second part of asset protection. He has some great ideas of protecting yourself just in case you end up with the gold digger. Let's face it, we've all seen it happen to a guy we know. We say that will never happen to me, but odds are without some form of protection, it will. The author at least tries to point you in the right direction if that's what your looking for. The third portion of the book explores the vacations of professional bachelors in some exotic locales. From deep sea fishing to where to find the women he gives a brief highlight of some areas such as Rio de Janero and Bangkok. Overall I enjoyed his writing style and would read another book from him.
5 of 5 people found the following review helpful
HASH(0xa58a58ac) out of 5 stars saved my life Nov. 2 2011
By Douglas R. Vaughan - Published on Amazon.com
Format: Paperback Verified Purchase
while on the surface, this may seem like a book that degrades women, but i don't see it that way at all. i was in a relationship with a woman who was cheating on me with her ex (big slam) and treating me like crap. this book helped me understand it all and get my confidence back. if you're in a relationship that is sour, or been done dirty, get this book. i consider it more self help than anything.
33 of 44 people found the following review helpful
HASH(0xa5aab42c) out of 5 stars All fluff and no substance Feb. 18 2007
By Remy Reid - Published on Amazon.com
Format: Paperback
Dr. Tate sure seems bitter about something. I'm all for being an alpha male, but there's a way to do it without being mean-spirited in the process. This book continually degrades women, and it becomes distracting.

Not that there's much to distract from - through all the talk about how to get women, there are only a few pieces of actual good advice. Most of the book is completely useless, filled up with jokes and fake stories and supposedly clever, snarky comments included in lists that purport to give real advice. And the author seems to love hookers and call girls and their legal equivalents in other countries. But he doesn't seem to realize that a guy will pick up this book precisely because he wants to have sex all on his own - if he wanted a hooker, he would have bought one already. Or maybe Tate does realize this, and that's why he doesn't include much real content.

The "asset protection" chapters can easily be explained by a real lawyer, whom you will need to execute the strategies anyway.

I would recommend several books over this one. The one that comes immediately to mind is How to Become an Alpha Male by John Alexander - another self-published book available on Amazon, but it actually explains how to improve yourself rather than trying to put down the women you are trying to impress. It's a much better place to start.