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The Sibling Effect: What the Bonds Among Brothers and Sisters Reveal About Us Paperback – Sep 4 2012

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  • Paperback: 320 pages
  • Publisher: Riverhead Books; Reprint edition (Sept. 4 2012)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1594486115
  • ISBN-13: 978-1594486111
  • Product Dimensions: 13.9 x 2.1 x 20.8 cm
  • Shipping Weight: 259 g
  • Average Customer Review: 3.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (1 customer review)
  • Amazon Bestsellers Rank: #411,942 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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“Honest and vulnerable and caring.”—The Washington Post

“Addictively readable.”—Entertainment Weekly

“The science of siblings is well overdue for this kind of attention.”—The Boston Globe

“A page turner . . . a worthwhile read for anyone interested in human relationships.”—Associated Press

“Endlessly fascinating.”—Parent Magazine

About the Author

Jeffrey Kluger is a senior editor and writer at Time magazine. He is a coauthor of the bestseller Apollo 13 and the author of Simplexity, Splendid Solution, Moon Hunters, and two novels for young adults. He lives in New York City with his wife and daughters.

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Though the book wasn't quite what I expected, it was still interesting. I guess I was expecting more on the scientific side as opposed to personal experiences.
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32 of 36 people found the following review helpful
banal and too geneeral Nov. 26 2011
By Dr. Bob - Published on
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I looked forward to insights based on the few bon mots heard on a CBC interview. Once into the book I was terribly disappointed at the generalizations that may have/could have been deduced from pop psych books. This is not a scholarly work. For the uninformed looking for sound bites it can serve one in good stead at a cocktail party. Not worth purchasing. Better to request it from the library and judge first if it is worth anything as a reference book.
23 of 26 people found the following review helpful
In the Middle of the Book Dec 5 2011
By Daisy Doolittle - Published on
Format: Hardcover
I'm in the middle of The Sibling Effect, but I decided to write a review now because I've come upon a fact about Wendy Wasserstein, the late playwright, that I know is not the case. Before I reveal this fake fact, I will say Kluger's an intelligent, informative, fluid, and fun writer. The book reads as a winning combination of personal anecdote, expert testimony, and incisive analysis; however, in a chapter on the significance of birth order, Kluger states Wasserstein was the middle of three children. In truth, she was the youngest of five (or four: her oldest sibling, Abner, was sent to live elsewhere early on and Wendy was unaware of his existence until she was grown). While this isn't an important mistake, it's too easy a fact not to double check, especially since her many obituaries make note of it. So now I must wonder how many other facts here are incorrect. Still, I find the book hard to put down.
6 of 6 people found the following review helpful
Love this book! Feb. 2 2012
By ParisBreakfast - Published on
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A broad perspective on families and birth order backed up with scientific data and personal, hilarious anecdotes.
My copy is yellow-marked and underlined to the hilt and I'm only half-way through it. I'm pleased to learn many family gripes are the norm across the board and classic.
The Sibling Effect helps you comprehend your relationships with others as well as with siblings - invaluable reading.
20 of 26 people found the following review helpful
An engaging book, charged with emotional stories about the writer's own experience Sept. 28 2011
By TheoGnostus - Published on
Format: Hardcover
Birth order, defined as a person's rank by age among his or her siblings, is generally believed to have a significant and enduring effect on human psychological progress and maturing. This assertion has been challenged by psychology researchers, yet birth order continues to have a popular appeal, clearly displayed in pop psychology. Pop psychology does not mean unreliable, but commonly accepted views without applying qualified analytical tools. Since Adler, the eminent developer of 'Individual Psychology', the influence of birth order on the development of personality has become both a popular and a controversial issue.

Kluger uses his convincing talent to provide a very engaging book, charged with emotional stories, entrenched in the writer's own experience, which cannot become a generalization by psychologists. In their book "Sibling Relationships: Their Nature and Significance across the Lifespan," Michael Lamb and Brian Sutton-Smith, strongly support Kluger, articulating that sibling bonds often last an entire lifetime. Frank Sulloway, advocates also that birth order has strong and lasting influence on the major personality traits, however, critical psychologists argue against his theories. He argues that firstborns are more conscientious, more socially dominant, less agreeable, and more traditional to laterborns.

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5 of 5 people found the following review helpful
Not as good as I expected Jan. 9 2014
By Anthony J. Quinn - Published on
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Although Mr. Kluger referenced many studies, the book as a whole was more anecdotal than I expected. I was hoping for a factual study, but it was much more personal to Mr. Kluger and his family, and assorted random strangers who meant nothing to me. He seemed to use the studies that he referred to more to support his anecdotal evidence than vice versa.

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