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The Social Animal: The Hidden Sources of Love, Character, and Achievement [Hardcover]

David Brooks
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Mar 8 2011
With unequaled insight and brio, David Brooks, the New York Times columnist and bestselling author of Bobos in Paradise, has long explored and explained the way we live. Now, with the intellectual curiosity and emotional wisdom that make his columns among the most read in the nation, Brooks turns to the building blocks of human flourishing in a multilayered, profoundly illuminating work grounded in everyday life.

This is the story of how success happens. It is told through the lives of one composite American couple, Harold and Erica—how they grow, push forward, are pulled back, fail, and succeed. Distilling a vast array of information into these two vividly realized characters, Brooks illustrates a fundamental new understanding of human nature. A scientific revolution has occurred—we have learned more about the human brain in the last thirty years than we had in the previous three thousand. The unconscious mind, it turns out, is most of the mind—not a dark, vestigial place but a creative and enchanted one, where most of the brain’s work gets done. This is the realm of emotions, intuitions, biases, longings, genetic predispositions, personality traits, and social norms: the realm where character is formed and where our most important life decisions are made. The natural habitat of The Social Animal.
 

Drawing on a wealth of current research from numerous disciplines, Brooks takes Harold and Erica from infancy to school; from the “odyssey years” that have come to define young adulthood to the high walls of poverty; from the nature of attachment, love, and commitment, to the nature of effective leadership. He reveals the deeply social aspect of our very minds and exposes the bias in modern culture that overemphasizes rationalism, individualism, and IQ. Along the way, he demolishes conventional definitions of success while looking toward a culture based on trust and humility.

The Social Animal is a moving and nuanced intellectual adventure, a story of achievement and a defense of progress. Impossible to put down, it is an essential book for our time, one that will have broad social impact and will change the way we see ourselves and the world.

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“Authoritative, impressively learned, and vast in scope.”—Newsweek
 
“As in [Bobos in Paradise] he shows genius in sketching archetypes and coining phrases. . . . In The Social Animal Mr. Brooks surveys a stunning amount of research and cleverly connects it to everyday experience.”—The Wall Street Journal
 
“[A] fascinating study of the unconscious mind and its impact on our lives . . . Brooks has done well to draw such vivid attention to the wide implications of the accumulated research on the mind and the triggers of human behaviour.”—The Economist
 
“An uncommonly brilliant blend of sociology, intellect and allegory.”—Kirkus Reviews (starred revew)
 
“Provocative and fascinating . . . seeks to do nothing less than revolutionize our notions about how we function and conduct our lives.”—The Philadelphia Inquirer
 
“Multifaceted, compulsively readable . . . Brooks’s considerable achievement comes in his ability to elevate the unseen aspects of private experience into a vigorous and challenging conversation about what we all share.”—San Francisco Chronicle

About the Author

David Brooks is an op-ed columnist for The New York Times. He has been a senior editor at The Weekly Standard and a contributing editor at Newsweek and The Atlantic Monthly, and he is a weekly commentator on PBS NewsHour. He is the author of the bestseller Bobos in Paradise: The New Upper Class and How They Got There and On Paradise Drive: How We Live Now (And Always Have) in the Future Tense.

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7 of 7 people found the following review helpful
By Donald Mitchell #1 HALL OF FAME TOP 10 REVIEWER
Format:Hardcover
"But indeed, O man, who are you to reply against God? Will the thing formed say to him who formed it, 'Why have you made me like this?'" -- Romans 9:20 (NKJV)

David Brooks' thesis is that our interactions with others, beginning with our parents, shape us in many ways that we fail to notice . . . even while the powerful influences occur. The book briefly cites many dozens of studies to help establish that point.

A straight recitation of the studies, arranged by topic, would make for pretty dull reading. To offset that problem, Mr. Brooks creates two fictional lives to make the information less abstract and more interesting. Harold comes from a socially enriched family background while his wife, Erica, experiences less family support as a child.

In the parts of the book where the fictional story balances the scientific studies, this storytelling method works pretty well. Toward the end of the book, the fiction is overwhelmed by the science and you may feel as if you are getting more information than you wanted in some cases.

If you regularly read about scientific studies in these fields, this book may seem very superficial to you. If you read very little on these topics, you'll probably welcome the way that Mr. Brooks has made a lot of information more readily available to you in easy-to-absorb form.

Here are the chapter topics and the fictional contexts:

1. Decision Making (how Harold's parents fell in love)
2. The Map Meld (how married couples put their lives together)
3. Mindsight (interaction of baby Harold with his parents)
4. Mapmaking (young Harold's mind and perceptions expand)
5. Attachment (young Harold's emotional connection to his parents)
6. Learning (student Harold becomes engaged in subjects that inspire him)
7. Norms (student Erica seeks access to a better education)
8. Self-Control (in a special school Erica gets her impulses under control)
9. Culture (in college Erica learns the value of trust in making a community effective)
10. Intelligence (at work Erica learns that IQ isn't enough for success)
11. Choice Architecture (Erica starts a consulting firm to look at behavioral economic characteristics of customers)
12. Freedom and Commitment (Harold looks for a more appropriate line of work and Erica looks for a consulting partner)
13. Limerance (Harold and Erica come into work and relationship harmony)
14. The Grand Narrative (Erica goes to work for a company with a self-absorbed leader making bad mistakes)
15. Métis (Harold shares insights from the British Enlightenment with Erica)
16. The Insurgency (Erica teams with a coworker to create solutions for their company)
17. Getting Older (Erica and Harold grow apart as their interests diverge)
18. Morality (Erica is tempted, falls, and picks herself up again)
19. The Leader (Erica supports a charismatic political leader)
20. The Soft Side (Harold joins a think tank and looks into strengthening social connections)
21. The Other Education (Erica develops new interests, and Harold discovers a new avocation)
22. Meaning (Harold takes stock of his life)
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By sean s. TOP 50 REVIEWER
Format:Hardcover
David Brooks is a very smart columnist at the New York Times. However, the quality of his analysis is very hit or miss.

Sometimes it's brilliant (for example his recognition of the importance of Dr. Richard Ogle's Smart World), and sometimes it's ridiculous. And this book has flashes of both brilliance and stupidity.

Brooks describes himself as being originally a liberal before "coming to my senses." He encouraged and supported the attack on Iraq, and stated that "I still believe that in 20 years, no one will doubt that Bush did the right thing." In 2006 he wrote a column for The New York Times titled "Party No. 3", in which he proposed the idea of the McCain-Lieberman Party, which he considers the "moderate majority" in America (!).

Turning to Brooks' new work, the Social Animal, its greatest strength is that he is very up-to-date on who's who in cutting-edge neuroscience and the social sciences, and the book offers a wealth of footnotes for those who want to explore further the fascinating findings he touches upon.

The central theme of this book is the power of the unconscious mind:

"We are living in the middle of a revolution in consciousness. Over the past few years, geneticists, neuroscientists, psychologists, sociologists, economists, anthropologists, and others have made great strides in understanding the building blocks of human flourishing. And a core finding of their work is that we are not primarily the products of our conscious thinking. We are primarily the products of thinking that happens below the level of awareness... The conscious mind merely confabulates stories that try to make sense of what the unconscious mind is doing of its own accord... John Bargh of Yale argues that just as Galileo removed the earth from its privileged position at the center of the universe, so this intellectual revolution removes the conscious mind from its privileged place at the center of human behavior."

"As we go about our day, we are bombarded with millions of stimuli - a buzzing, blooming confusion of sounds, sights, smells, and motions. And yet amidst all this pyrotechnic chaos, different parts of the brain and body interact to form an Emotional Positioning System. It coats each person, place or circumstance with an emotion and an implied reaction that helps us navigate our days... Eventually at the end of all these complex feedbacks, a desire bursts into consciousness - a desire to choose that cereal or seek that job, or to squeeze the hand, to touch this person, to be with this person forever. The emotion emerges from the deep."

"Reason and emotion are not separated and opposed. Reason is nestled upon emotion and dependent upon it. Emotion assigns value to things, and reason can only make choices on the basis of those valuations. The mind is a blindingly complicated series of parallel processes. There is no captain in a cockpit making decisions."

Despite this fascinating science, Brooks has the unfortunate habit shared by many Americans of suddenly leaping from science to superstition: "If the outer mind hungers for status, the inner mind hungers for the love of another or the love of God"; "the information that comes from deep in the evolutionary past we call genetics. The information revealed thousands of years ago we call religion." Note how Brooks segues from science to superstition from one sentence to the next. Genetics is information is from the evolutionary past, while religion is "information revealed" thousands of years ago.

Dr. Richard Dawkins (The God Delusion), Dr. Daniel Dennett (Breaking the Spell), and indeed the overwhelming majority of scientists will point out that religious "information" was not revealed, but rather invented, just as Tooth Fairy "information" and Easter Bunny "information" were.

But even more irritating than the superstitions, is Brooks decision to take excellent science and wrap it in an embarrassingly insipid story about "a composite American couple, Harold and Erica, how they grow, push forward, fail, and succeed." These cartoonish characters are littered throughout the book alongside solid scientific findings, as if they somehow added to the science, when in fact all they do is demonstrate that Brooks own unconscious mind has been seriously impaired by Harlequin romance-like gibberish.

So unfortunately The Social Animal cannot be recommended. Nonetheless the scientists to whom Brooks refers are very worthwhile - Dr. John Bargh, Dr. Joseph Ledoux, Dr. Antonio Damasio, etc. So photocopy the index if you get a hold of a copy, and read the real deal scientists, rather than this book.
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars Thinking Past the Debates and Polls April 9 2012
Format:Hardcover
This is a book for the nonprofessional trying to make sense of the craziness in human behavior and beliefs we see on the news (and in debates). While there were statements that I would have deleted when editing, on the whole I couldn't put it down. It filled out my appreciation of the power of the unconscious mind (you know, the part of the mind to which meditating gives space by quieting the conscious mind). Frankly, the story of Erica and Harold sprinkled through the book provided color and application that kept me reading. Now I want to read Thinking Fast and Slow by Daniel Kahneman.
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