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Toxic Parents: Overcoming Their Hurtful Legacy and Reclaiming Your Life [Paperback]

Susan Forward
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Book Description

Jan. 2 2002
Are you the child of toxic parents?

When you were a child...

• Did your parents tell you you were bad or worthless?
• Did your parents use physical pain to discipline you?
• Did you have to take care of your parents because of their problems?
• Were you often frightened of your parents?
• Did your parents do anything to you that had to be kept secret?

Now that you’re an adult...

• Do your parents still treat you as if you were a child?
• Do you have intense emotional or physical reactions after spending time with your parents?
• Do your parents control you with threats or guilt? Do they manipulate you with money?
• Do you feel that no matter what you do, it’s never good enough for your parents?

In this remarkable self-help guide, Dr. Susan Forward draws on case histories and the real-life voices of adult children of toxic parents to help you free yourself from the frustrating patterns of your relationship with your parents — and discover a new world of self-confidence, inner strength, and emotional independence.

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All parents fall short from time to time. But Susan Forward pulls no punches when it comes to those whose deficiencies cripple their children emotionally. Her brisk, unreserved guide to overcoming the stultifying agony of parental manipulation--from power trips to guilt trips and all other killers of self worth--will help deal with the pain of childhood and move beyond the frustrating relationship patterns learned at home. --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

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“A dynamic, powerful, hard-hitting book. It offers tremendous hope as well as understanding. It could truly be a lifesaver.”
— Abigail Van Buren, “Dear Abby”

“I consider Susan Forward to be among the foremost therapists of our age.”
— John Bradshaw, author of Healing the Shame That Binds You and Homecoming


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7 of 7 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars I'll try this once again . . . Jan. 11 2007
By G.O.
Format:Paperback
If you are a child of a toxic parent you will find Susan Forward's book both validating and empowering. Forward says that healing is most effective when you proceed down the double track of changing self-defeating behaviors and disconnecting from traumas from the past.

The goal of the book is to reverse the balance of power in your relationship with your toxic parents. Forward says all parents are deficient at times but Toxic Parents have consistently harmful effects. Focusing on their own problems Toxic Parents expect kids to take care of them, turning their children into mini-adults. Unable to control their own deep-seated rage, they blame their children. They control their children via guilt and manipulation. They are extraordinarily insensitive to both the pain they inflict and the lasting damage they do. They overtly or subtly abuse their children with constant put-downs and rob them of self-confidence. They may abuse alcohol or drugs and are mired in denial.

If you are a child of a toxic parent you will find Susan Forward's book both validating and empowering. Forward says that healing is most effective when you proceed down the double track of changing self-defeating behaviors and disconnecting from traumas from the past.

The goal of the book is to reverse the balance of power in your relationship with your toxic parents. Forward says all parents are deficient at times but Toxic Parents have consistently harmful effects. Focusing on their own problems Toxic Parents expect kids to take care of them, turning their children into mini-adults. Unable to control their own deep-seated rage, they blame their children. They control their children via guilt and manipulation. They are extraordinarily insensitive to both the pain they inflict and the lasting damage they do. They overtly or subtly abuse their children with constant put-downs and rob them of self-confidence. They may abuse alcohol or drugs and are mired in denial.
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17 of 18 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars How a book can change your life May 17 2004
By A Customer
Format:Paperback
I am a professional who never realized that the family chaos I endured was not an isolated incident. I thought I was alone, and the only one who suffered at the hands of my parents. After all, there were no physical scars to show for it. This book changed my life, and saved it. It changed my husband, and has influenced my siblings and helped me prevent sending the same damaging messages to my children. I am a true skeptic that any armchair psychologist could know anything about someone they have never seen or examined. This book was like reading about myself! Frightening, but eventually very emancipating. This has never happened to me. If you feel you suffered as a child, read this book!
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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Read and Reread Often If You Were Abused Feb. 7 2003
By A Customer
Format:Paperback
As a medical doctor who excelled in psychiatry (a great deal of which is pseudo-science), and as a child of a physically abusive mother and emotionally abusive father, I believe this "pop psychology" book is one of the best ever written. I do not agree with Forward's solutions completely, but they are far better than most psychoanalysis will ever offer and much less expensive. Don't act until you have reread the book several times and feel you really "get it." Although this book is an easy read, I think it helps to have some prior understanding of psychology and I am not sure that I would have found this book as helpful were I not very familiar with psychology in general. I know both psychologists and psychiatrists who have found this book to be helpful for themselves (it seems every one I know in this field was abused as a child). Read it again, especially, when you feel ashamed of your own behavior. The book won't solve all your problems, but it will certainly help you understand them AND deal with them in a more productive way.
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars Excellent, Insightful. June 29 2002
By A Customer
Format:Paperback
This book was great for me to read. It helped, and the best part is, I could see myself in the pages. You can't expect your abusive parents to admit what they did. You can't expect your siblings to see them the same as you. And don't expect them to change. The only person you can control is you.
One thing my therapist pointed out, though, was that I was only remembering the upsetting stuff. I don't think that book helps as far as that goes. There were good times when I grew up, but the shadows were too long, so I saw everything in a darkness.
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4.0 out of 5 stars Right on the money Jan. 6 2007
Format:Paperback
If you are a child of a toxic parent you will find Susan Forward's book both validating and empowering. Forward says that healing is most effective when you proceed down the double track of changing self-defeating behaviors and disconnecting from traumas from the past.

The goal of the book is to reverse the balance of power in your relationship with your toxic parents. Forward says all parents are deficient at times but Toxic Parents have consistently harmful effects. Focusing on their own problems Toxic Parents expect kids to take care of them, turning their children into mini-adults. Unable to control their own deep-seated rage, they blame their children. They control their children via guilt and manipulation. They are extraordinarily insensitive to both the pain they inflict and the lasting damage they do. They overtly or subtly abuse their children with constant put-downs and rob them of self-confidence. They may abuse alcohol or drugs and are mired in denial.

If you are a child of a toxic parent you will find Susan Forward's book both validating and empowering. Forward says that healing is most effective when you proceed down the double track of changing self-defeating behaviors and disconnecting from traumas from the past.

The goal of the book is to reverse the balance of power in your relationship with your toxic parents. Forward says all parents are deficient at times but Toxic Parents have consistently harmful effects. Focusing on their own problems Toxic Parents expect kids to take care of them, turning their children into mini-adults. Unable to control their own deep-seated rage, they blame their children. They control their children via guilt and manipulation. They are extraordinarily insensitive to both the pain they inflict and the lasting damage they do. They overtly or subtly abuse their children with constant put-downs and rob them of self-confidence. They may abuse alcohol or drugs and are mired in denial.
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4.0 out of 5 stars but I really didn't enjoy hearing so much of "other peoples" personal...
Informative...but I really didn't enjoy hearing so much of "other peoples" personal business.
Published 1 month ago by Marlene
4.0 out of 5 stars Interesting Cases But Weak Solutions
In laying out her case against parents who are abusive to their children, author Dr. Susan Forward presents us with a number of interesting if somewhat disturbing stories from some... Read more
Published 2 months ago by Michael J. Oldfield
4.0 out of 5 stars Toxic Parents
I am so glad I read this book. It alleviated a lot of the guilt I had been carrying around for not wanting a relationship with one of my parents. Read more
Published 3 months ago by Kelsi
5.0 out of 5 stars Food for thoughts
I received the book promptly. It was in pristine condition. Despite the extreme examples used to illustrate the toxicity of the parent-children relationship, it applies to less... Read more
Published 13 months ago by ED
5.0 out of 5 stars Life Altering
Fantastic workbook for addressing and overcoming.
Everything from controlling parents to molestation is addressed and your paths forward and out are explained. Read more
Published 20 months ago by Taura
5.0 out of 5 stars You can change your life
When I saw the title of this book, my first reaction was "Gee, that's redundant." For me, "toxic" and "parents" just seemed to go together, and I'm in my forties now so you know... Read more
Published on March 23 2007 by Bob
5.0 out of 5 stars Redundancy
When I saw the title of this book, my first reaction was "Gee, that's redundant." For me, "toxic" and "parents" just seemed to go together, and I'm... Read more
Published on Aug. 6 2004
5.0 out of 5 stars Lived the imperfect life
Leanna Jackson, going to be a survivor,
This is an excellent book and speaks as though it is talking about my own past. Read more
Published on June 1 2004
5.0 out of 5 stars Very Insightful!
I read this book a while back and it really does have some useful techniques to cut those unhealthy apron strings. A must read for anyone who has a relationship with anyone. Read more
Published on May 11 2004 by Laurie Richards
5.0 out of 5 stars straight talk that can change your life
I personally found this book to be life changing. It was first mentioned to me by a therapist four years ago and I found it to be one of the few books out there that is informative... Read more
Published on April 16 2004 by "gidgetgrl52"
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