Tug of War: A Judge's Verdict on Separation, Custody Battles, and the Bitter Realities of Family Court Paperback – Jan 1 2009
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"Provides a rare glimpse of what a sitting judge thinks about the good, the bad and the ugly realities of the family law court system . . . [and] provide[s] better guidance to clients, especially the final chapter that is full of heartfelt and wise advice." The Lawyers Weekly
"Every lawyer should provide clients with a copy of Tug of War and encourage them to read it before proceeding with their case." Anu Osborne, The Canadian Bar Association
About the Author
Harvey Brownstone has been a judge for more than 12 years and presides over family court in North Toronto. He lives in Toronto.
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Justice Brownstone is quite unique in that he also is the host of a t.v. talk show entitled Family Matters. He is more than willing to express his views, which he certainly has, having inquired a law degree in 1980, and in 1995, being appointed as a Provincial Court Judge, presiding mostly in North Toronto Family Court.
Justice Brownstone¡'s theory is that when people break up, they must adopt a mature approach of dealing with their former partners, especially when children are involved. However, he also addresses the topics of finances in a number of chapters, which describe how you can try to resolve your conflicts without going to court. He has a chapter on alternatives to litigation. He describes when going to court is necessary. There are also details about lawyers, what you should look for, and why they are very important in their role.
Especially close to his heart is the chapter on custody and access disputes. He talks about the importance of joint custody as a concept.
This book is not a fast read, but can be broken down into its chapters and approached in that manner.
Many senior judges in Canada have commented on this book and support his idea of public education in these areas.Read more ›
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For anyone in this situation..I wish judges would make it mandatory reading.Tug of War: A Judge's Verdict on Separation, Custody Battles, and the Bitter Realities of Family Court
It's a while since I read it, so I don't recall if it touched on it, but consider this. Many judges are thoughtful, experienced and worthy of their position. But there are some who really should not be making the kinds of decisions often required in family law cases. The sobering fact is: You do not get to choose your judge.
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This book offers a welcome insight into how a judge may evaluate your case, and an excellent reminder to think of the child's needs first and foremost.Published 5 months ago by Genevieve Kelly
Highly recommend book. I am going through a divorce and he points out some of the difficulties right on. Worth every penny.Published 15 months ago by JiaQi Wu
Great book with a good insight of the legal system with good advice on getting through a custody battle.Published 16 months ago by Shell
Great book for getting an idea of the judge's perspective in a custody battle.Published 18 months ago by Patrick K Wolf