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1.0 out of 5 stars
Please Be Careful,
By A Customer
This review is from: Wasted (Paperback)
First of all, I would like to say that I really loved Marya's very candid and real way of writing. She didn't candy-coat or tip-toe --- she told the truth. And she told it very well. My warning though is that, as someone who has struggled for a long time with an eating disorder myself, many of us with ED's have considered "Wasted" to be a how-to guide for starting/maintaining an ED. Be careful. If you are vulnerable even a little bit, please save this read for a later, more stable time in your life/recovery. I do think it is a good eye-opener for parents and other loved ones of someone battling an ED. Not only does it supply the many, many twisted and secretive symptomatic behaviors we tend to engage in, but it also gives a very honest look at the emotions and issues behind the disorder. It's not about the food, or the weight, or the size. It's just a mask for something much more severe. We've had to resort to using our bodies to communicate instead of our voices. We lost our voice somewhere along the way, and the body became our target.I don't feel the book itself is inherently bad or dangerous or whatever. I do, however, recommend EXTREME caution and consideration before reading this. Be careful. Be wise.
5.0 out of 5 stars
Read It and Live,
By A Customer
This review is from: Wasted (Paperback)
This is, hands-down, THE best book on Anorexia I have ever read (and as a looking glass inhabitant, I've read a lot). I appreciated Marya's refusal to hold back any parts of her story. While it is, as many reviewers have pointed out, an extremely triggering book, I personally see that as it's main strength. While I am not neccesarily a "tip hunter", I prefer the more graphic end of the ED lit offerings, because that's what I identify with. "Wasted" does an incredible job of showing you why you DONT want an ED. I doubt that any of us begins chronic ED behavior with anticipation of such effects as infertility, a wrecked immune system, and a heart murmer. It would be my hope that anyone currently flirting with ED (to paraphrase Jenni Scaeffer) will read this book and, to put it bluntly, be scared enough to run screaming in the other direction.One of the best features of Marya Hornbacher's book (and one of it's best kept secrets, judging by the reviews), is it's humor. As graphic and horrifying and gut wrenching as it is, "Wasted" is also a VERY funny book. I would add that this may only apply to thse who have or have had an ED. For example: "There are altogeather too many 'empowering' things that the professionals tell you that can be twisted around and turned against youself.I had heard a few too many times that if i threw up, it was just a 'slip', if i stopped eating for a little while it didn't really mean I was relapsing...Profesionals and doctors give anoretics and bulimics way too much credit for having their brains in order...And so, as I went another day without food...I said to myself: I have to be patient, I'm being nurturing to myself by not too much of myself, I will not push myself too hard today, so I guess we'll just have some coffee for lunch...it's ok because I'm giving myself a break right now." (Page 217) In addition to her honesty about her EDs, I particularly appreciated Marya's honesty about her recovery. She doesn't pretend to have all the answers, and she admits to set backs, such as weighing herself at the gym, over-exercising, and the fact that she is still pleased at any weight loss she notices.
5.0 out of 5 stars
"WASTED",
By A Customer
This review is from: Wasted (Paperback)
I really enjoyed this book. I have read several and this was by-far the most raw.I myself and suffering from Anorexia, and it really left me indiffernt. Many people say "it changed them" but if your at your wit's end it won't change you, rather give you somthing to relate too. I reccomend this book to anybody,maybe it would help somebody else more than I though.
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