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What to Expect the First Year
 
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What to Expect the First Year (Paperback)

by Heidi Murkoff (Author), Arlene Eisenberg (Author), Sandee Hathaway (Author)
3.1 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (236 customer reviews)

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Is our baby eating enough? Is this much crying normal? How do I know when she is really sick? This hefty, 671-page guide to your baby's first year is brought to you by the creators of the bestselling What to Expect When You're Expecting. The three authors, all mothers themselves, are calm, clear, and encouraging as they tackle the first year of child-rearing, month by month. The easy-to-absorb, chronological format includes sections such as "What Your Baby May Be Doing," "What You Can Expect at This Month's Checkups," "Feeding Your Baby This Month," "What You May Be Concerned About," and "What It's Important to Know."

Part Two addresses special concerns such as illness, first aid do's and don'ts, the low-birthweight baby, the adopted baby, becoming a father, and sibling relationships. You'll also find discussions of breastfeeding and bottlefeeding, selecting a physician for the baby, diapers and clothing, safety, and many ways of stimulating the baby's development. The recipes for babies and toddlers in Part Three are useful, as are the recommended home remedies; charts on common childhood illnesses; height and weight; and the thorough index. (A particular strength of the book is the authors' careful attention to diet and nutrition for both mother and baby, incorporating the American Academy of Pediatrics' latest recommendations on infant nutrition.) While some of the authors' perspectives are controversial (such as whether to let your baby "cry it out" or not), this book remains one of the most comprehensive resources for new parents as they toddle through their baby's first year. --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

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Parents-to-be are likely to find themselves quickly immersed in this highly authoritative manual by the collaborators of What to Expect When You're Expecting . Nearly 700 pages of snappily written, friendly advice, constructed in the form of chatty answers to hypothetical questions, are arranged on a month-by-month basis. For each of 12 months, there are a guide to the progress the baby may be expected to be making at this stage, a list of potential health or other problems and paragraphs on the myriad questions all new parents ask--on subjects as various as in-home care, birthmarks, circumcision and breath-holding. Other sections cover what to buy for a new-born, first aid, recipes, adoption and even how to enjoy the first year, in terms of the parents' own activities, such as social life and sex. An extensive index leads the reader to information that wouldn't normally be accessed using the month-to-month arrangement--and also serves as an indication of the book's all-inclusiveness. Illustrated. 65,000 first printing; first serial to Working Mother magazine; author tour.
Copyright 1989 Reed Business Information, Inc. --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

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7 of 7 people found the following review helpful:
2.0 out of 5 stars good reference but major flaws, Jun 30 2004
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This is a good parenting book to have in your library but it should definitely not be the only one. All parenting books have their own bias about co-sleeping and breastfeeding and this one was definitely biased against co-sleeping at all and breastfeeding after the 9th month or so. When I first brought my baby home from the hospital, the only way she would get a decent night's sleep is to sleep with us. Otherwise she cried and fussed the entire night. After two months she was ready to sleep in a cradle but initially we had to adjust our parenting style to include co-sleeping because it was the only thing that would comfort our daughter. If this was the only parenting book I owned I probably would've felt incredibly guilty about having done this--the section of this book that addresses co-sleeping has nothing but negative things to say about it. I found "Good Nights" and "Gentle Baby Care" (perhaps because they were written by attachment parenting advocates) to be very thorough about the topic, with plenty of practical advice.

As noted by other reviewers the book also contains some misleading information about breastfeeding and seems to assume that you'll begin weaning sooner than currently recommended by the govt.

I also found this book to be very poorly organized. Because all babies develop according to their own schedule, it doesn't really make sense to have much of the information organized chronologically. I read "What to Expect When You're Expecting" when I was pregnant and they advised you in the beginning not to "read ahead" so I was doing the same with this book until I realized that it wasn't answering most of my questions! I needed a babysitter when my daughter was two months but for some reason that section was stashed in the third month section! Why? So now I have read into the 10-month section even though my daughter is only 3.5 months because I'm wondering if there are other tidbits of information hidden away in there. And I expect I'll have to reread it all again when she's actually 10 months.

Finally, there was some conflicting information. I'm thinking of the alcohol and breastfeeding references in particular. At various points in the book it says to (a) have a single drink rarely if at all and then to wait two hours before nursing if you do have a drink, (b) have a drink just before nursing to "relax", (c) consult a doctor if you find yourself unable to stop at two drinks a day (what happened to the "rare" drink?!). And finally, it referenced no actual studies about the effects of alcohol on a nursing baby. For such a serious topic, it seemed amazing to me that they could have included so much conflicting information and no scientific backup.

And finally, as someone who is using cloth diapers, I was put off by the offhand remark that (to paraphrase) "in your mother's day, diapers were cleaned and boiled and reused and now people simply throw their diapers away." There is a significant percentage of people who actually use cloth diapers but to read this section you would never know it! This was just one of many cases of the authors assuming that everyone does or should do things their way.

All that said, the book did include good information about safety issues and child development and for these reasons I'm glad to have it on hand. The authors must seriously revise this book, however, for future editions.

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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful:
1.0 out of 5 stars Don't be misinformed about plagiocephaly!, Aug 22 2003
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This book spends a lot of time informing the reader about the risk of SIDS and how important it is to have the infant sleep on their back. However, there was only a small tidbit of information (p. 120) on plagiocephaly (flat spot on the head, which they don't even use that term in this book) due to back-sleeping, spending time in swings, bouncy seats, etc. They misinform the reader that, "If in spite of your efforts her head flattens or a bald spot develops, don't worry. These problems will gradually correct themselves as she gets older."--FALSE!!!!! This condition does not correct itself spontaneously. It does go on to say that "severe cases can be corrected with a special headband or helmet". "Back to sleep, tummy to play" should be stressed more in this book--not to scare people, but to just have people be aware that babies should not spend too much time on their backs.

If possible, don't buy a swing or bouncy seat. Carry your baby in a baby bjorn or hold him/her! Being a mom of twins, carrying them was a hard thing to do...but knowing what I know now (with no help from this book), I would have done it different...

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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars Great "Quick" Reference, Nov 8 2005
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I believe this book was fabulous for a quick reference guide. I found it very informative on certain issues such as illness, or rashes etc. Instead of having to call the pediatrician with every little occurance, this book was a great look up reference. Like all books on the market, everyone will tell you what you "should or should not" do with your new child, but as every experienced parent will tell you -- do what works for you and your baby. I am not pushing this book for any of the parenting issues, I would recommend it to anyone though for the quick questions you may have at any given time while raising your first child through the first year. It is a good guide to have on hand no matter what your stand is on certain issues. Opinions are what we make of them.
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5.0 out of 5 stars A must have for any parent!!!
This book was excellent and informative! As the mother of a preemie, I especially enjoyed reading the section on the low birthweight baby. Read more
Published on Feb 17 2006

4.0 out of 5 stars you get what you expect!
This is THE book you want to read if you're a first time parent and don't have much experience with babies. Read more
Published on Jun 24 2004 by colombo anna

2.0 out of 5 stars There are much better books out there!
I bought this book as a resource for my first child. Although it has some useful information, it is very "middle of the road" and I felt it didn't go in depth enough... Read more
Published on May 25 2004

3.0 out of 5 stars Too much reading for new mom
I prefer the week by week book instead of the q and a format of this book. I find myself using it as a reference tool sometimes, but have barely used it! Read more
Published on May 23 2004

5.0 out of 5 stars Essential for first parents
This book was such a Godsend for me and so many people I know. It's a fully comprehensive manual on an infant and that is quite a huge accomplishment. Read more
Published on May 17 2004 by MovedbyMusic

2.0 out of 5 stars Avoid if you want to succeed at breastfeeding
I got this book when my son was one month old, and I did find parts of it helpful. The page at the beginning of each month, telling you what your baby should be able to do, might... Read more
Published on May 5 2004 by Beccy Stones

1.0 out of 5 stars If you're NOT breast feeding-DON'T Bother!
This book is not only useless but also insulting to women with formula fed infants. I found that while searching for information, a condescending tone was taken regarding what you... Read more
Published on April 29 2004

5.0 out of 5 stars WISH WE WOULD HAVE HAD IT SOONER!
I've read some reviews suggesting that the Sears' book is a better reference guide than 'What to Expect,' citing that after all, the Sears are parents of 8 (assuming that... Read more
Published on April 6 2004

5.0 out of 5 stars A MUST READ FOR NEW PARENTS!
I LOVE THE DETAILED FEATURES OF THIS BOOK!
I found this book invaluable due to it's comprehensive nature. Read more
Published on April 6 2004

3.0 out of 5 stars Not what I expected!
I have three children and most likely prego with #4. I can tell you a much better book is The Baby Book by Dr. William Sears and Martha Sears, RN. Read more
Published on April 5 2004 by J. McNeeley

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